Public humiliation DT Note Pg 10 - Page 7

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

1, The GC days where she used to insult Virat infront of his and her father’s subordinates. Despite KJ clarifying that it was his decision to come to work , Sai had misbehaved and shouted at Virat multiple times .

2. Blackmailing CN gang to humiliate them in public when they threw Pulkit’s gifts ( no one is supporting CN gang act but want to highlight that she choose to resolve by threatening about public humiliation)

3. Blackmailing CN to attend college feast and revealing the entire plan infront of whole college ( I thought it was a dumb move ) . Why would she make herself look bad by revealing everything

4. In famous neighborhood drama after Dev’s marriage : The way she choose to discuss about Devkit and blame Virat in public by only revealing half truth and not disclosing how she betrayed his trust .

5. When she moves to hostel , the way she announced to her roommate whom she met only once about her broken marriage by declaring it as a breaking news

6. Revealing it to Ajinkya on the college feast day how she and Virat are not a couple . It was not needed . He was just a friend not even close then why reveal such personal matters .

7. The confrontation and questioning Virat’s feelings for Pakhi during lunch drama and after Harini’s birthday.

Here's my take on some of your points mainly the bold points.

1. This is the Sai who has been harassed, molested and abused by Jagtap and was not able to get justice despite having a policeman for a father. And if that was not enough, she has witnessed, her father almost losing his life on his birthday. This Sai wants an escape and Virat, the favourite student of her father unknowing of the situation requested him to extend his stay! This just contributed to the bottled up emotions that Sai had and it exploded. Now Sai already had a misunderstanding about Virat (the very first encounter) but this was way beyond it. This was no longer about that Sai. This was about a daughter who loves her father so much that she is willing to move mountains to get him to safety. She knew Virat was her father's senior and could get him the VRS that she wanted so desperately but then again Virat also was in a moral dilemma because his junior also happened to be his guru and he could not say no to him. All in all, it was a battle between a daughter (and a woman) who has had enough and a police officer. What Sai did by losing her cool was something natural! Let's not forget she is also in that delicate transitioning stage between teenage and adulthood.

2. Was there an option B? Wait for Virat? and then what? Virat would have come, sighed, collected all the things (and maybe said a word or 2) and moved towards the room. As we all have witnessed in most cases, when it has been Sai Vs senior Chavans, somehow or the other Virat gets manipulated and things take a drastic turn. Sai has understood very well the dynamics of the senior Chavan's and the only thing they fear is the fear of losing their reputation out in public. She utilised that fear. Not that it is a good thing to use someone's fear against them but, just sometimes, it has to be done to make people realize the complexities of their actions.

3. This I feel is just a girl who is craving family intimacy even if it is with people who dislike her to the core. And again while she knew the dynamics of the family, she hoped a public apology will set the tone right and asking Kaku to give her the award will make her feel honoured in the public eye thus things may not get as ugly as they normally could.

4. With no one else by her side and knowing her IPS husband, she had to ensure Devi tai's and Pulkit's safety. She did mention that she got them married without their consent so am not sure what was the incomplete truth. As for her breaking Virat's trust, didn't Virat also forget his words about re-investigating the matter? And more so importantly, Devi Tai's deteriorating health and everyone decided the Holi celebration was important leaving their mentally challenged daughter home alone. Her very own mother was feeding her questionable medications and separated a mother and daughter. In this case, they pretty much deserved it. As for Virat, who simply believed a letter and did not investigate the matter thoroughly till the end, I simply have no sympathy for him. This was needed for him to know his BFF's true intentions as well as to realize how much blind faith he has in his family.

5. This was most likely to clear the air that she is not the one to depend on others to fight her battles. She doesn't need her IPS husband to defend her whether they are together or not! She, herself is more than capable to deal with her issues. The intention was to show the roommate her place. Also, not forgetting she is still carrying a lot of bitterness in her heart for Virat at this point in time.

6. This one, I agree with you. It was uncalled for. She didn't have to clarify anything to Ajinkya.

7. This, again was the most important thing that was needed; the confrontation. But most important point, she was minding her own business and going when didi ji had to start a drama about Virat sleeping outside! She kept pushing Sai to her limits by taunting her and didi ji's supporters also joined in. This had to happen. Even more so, Virat should have been less of a coward in the situations by now, he also knew what Pakh's was making out of their platonic friendship, and should have informed the family of their past. The family had every right to know this especially since Pakhi got married in the same family and is living under the same roof as her ex who happens to be her BIL. If there is no remaining feeling in his heart, why continue to hide it? Come out in the open and clear the mess for the sanity of the trio as well. But, that didn't happen. While one may say that it is Virat and Pakhi's personal life and it's their right to keep it private. I would agree if they were married in different households as everyone has a past. But them living in one family, knowing it is causing chaos in their own personal lives (especially of Virat who claims to have moved on), why not just clear the mess so that naive Sai can also move past the deal marriage nautanki.

Just my POV.... sorry got a little long. Also, didn't proofread so excuse the typos and grammatical errors. Would love to know more of other's perspectives 😊

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

the family needs to know the past when its the party B constantly bringing up like sapne vaade armaan and what not in front of the whole family. EK bar muh kholke clarify krdo to both the girls story ka THE END.

Okay first of all whenever Sai brought up Virat and Pakhi's past, she never had fun with it or did it with the intention of giving free entertainment cuz that's Karishma's forte! Just like Virat can have violent outbursts out of insecurity, it was Sai's way of blurting out what every family member in that house should question and that is the weird relationship between the so called bffs. Their relationship is not normal so it deserves to be called out in public by Sai!

So what you're saying in when Virat questions Sai it's out of his insecurities but when Sai questions Virat it's out of anger and to hurt him?! Basically only Virat is allowed to be insecure about a third person when that person has never done anything to come in the way of their relationship? But Sai cannot be insecure even for a second and act like a typical wife who questions her husband on why his ex/bff keeps on spewing venom and lusting over him?

Yes Virat is not obligated to share his past if the ex lovers didn't have to live together under the same roof. But since his past has come into his present and is severely affecting any sort of future he might have with any woman he needs to man up. Specifically since Virat clearly knows Pakhi's disgusting intentions, he must clear it. I mean just imagine if Pakhi tries to kill Sai tomorrow in the hospital and the police questions her motives, will he keep it to himself why his vahini has ill intentions towards his wife or actually speak up!

Also there was nothing mature about the way Virat acted today. All his maturity flew out the window when he stormed the room like he was gonna catch these two red handed. Sai was embarrassed first by the way Virat was acting towards Ajinkya and how rudely he was speaking to her friend. She even said so to stop being so rude to him. The questioning part came second and that is when she got really hurt, by that time Virat had already acted like an ass so there was no going back to 'let's sit down and talk about this calmly' type of situation. Virat didn't even let Ajinkya leave respectfully.

I'm not dictating what you or anyone should post, I just found it surprising that even on a day like today people find Sai's mistakes when it wasn't even the biggest issue shown. If I'm not mistaken, you didn't even once say that you felt bad for Sai's situation today or that Virat was too much in his anger. You only said you felt bad for Ajinkya cuz he's innocent.

I mean recently I saw posts made about how some members feel bad about what happened with Pakhi, that Virat shouldn't have manhandled her (true) or that Sai shouldn't have let Pakhi take the blame for her fall (true again). If someone like Pakhi can gain sympathy for a day why can't Sai be sympathized with after going through so much?!

Originally posted by: ketty84

Actually I also wanted to answer him but this post made me realise no point in discussing with this person my logic. It's a fictional show. This person have a freedom to express what he feels. But usually Sai depression desperation n loneliness kid in her and her worries about devyani due to her susral full of criminals is not quite hard to understand.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

The difference between expressing opinion & intentionally nitpicking a character in order to Justify other character disgusting acts can be easily understood. And they are talking about sai making her marriage relationship status open to third parties. How conviniently they forget it was virat who involved third party pakhi in their relationship. From telling her about deal marriage to giving her explanation why he gave flowers to his wife to apologizing her for celebrating his wife birthday recently. And the no of times he allowed pakhi to their room at late night & let her abuse sai . All these are not insulting marriage relationship? But when sai talks about her deal marriage which was made by ml himself on their marriage day then she is insulting virat, marriage relationship what not🙄.

Appreciate if you can stick to topic and not get personal .

Originally posted by: shiva02

the family needs to know the past when its the party B constantly bringing up like sapne vaade armaan and what not in front of the whole family. EK bar muh kholke clarify krdo to both the girls story ka THE END.

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Originally posted by: Dee10

Here's my take on some of your points mainly the bold points.

1. This is the Sai who has been harassed, molested and abused by Jagtap and was not able to get justice despite having a policeman for a father. And if that was not enough, she has witnessed, her father almost losing his life on his birthday. This Sai wants an escape and Virat, the favourite student of her father unknowing of the situation requested him to extend his stay! This just contributed to the bottled up emotions that Sai had and it exploded. Now Sai already had a misunderstanding about Virat (the very first encounter) but this was way beyond it. This was no longer about that Sai. This was about a daughter who loves her father so much that she is willing to move mountains to get him to safety. She knew Virat was her father's senior and could get him the VRS that she wanted so desperately but then again Virat also was in a moral dilemma because his junior also happened to be his guru and he could not say no to him. All in all, it was a battle between a daughter (and a woman) who has had enough and a police officer. What Sai did by losing her cool was something natural! Let's not forget she is also in that delicate transitioning stage between teenage and adulthood.

2. Was there an option B? Wait for Virat? and then what? Virat would have come, sighed, collected all the things (and maybe said a word or 2) and moved towards the room. As we all have witnessed in most cases, when it has been Sai Vs senior Chavans, somehow or the other Virat gets manipulated and things take a drastic turn. Sai has understood very well the dynamics of the senior Chavan's and the only thing they fear is the fear of losing their reputation out in public. She utilised that fear. Not that it is a good thing to use someone's fear against them but, just sometimes, it has to be done to make people realize the complexities of their actions.

3. This I feel is just a girl who is craving family intimacy even if it is with people who dislike her to the core. And again while she knew the dynamics of the family, she hoped a public apology will set the tone right and asking Kaku to give her the award will make her feel honoured in the public eye thus things may not get as ugly as they normally could.

4. With no one else by her side and knowing her IPS husband, she had to ensure Devi tai's and Pulkit's safety. She did mention that she got them married without their consent so am not sure what was the incomplete truth. As for her breaking Virat's trust, didn't Virat also forget his words about re-investigating the matter? And more so importantly, Devi Tai's deteriorating health and everyone decided the Holi celebration was important leaving their mentally challenged daughter home alone. Her very own mother was feeding her questionable medications and separated a mother and daughter. In this case, they pretty much deserved it. As for Virat, who simply believed a letter and did not investigate the matter thoroughly till the end, I simply have no sympathy for him. This was needed for him to know his BFF's true intentions as well as to realize how much blind faith he has in his family.

5. This was most likely to clear the air that she is not the one to depend on others to fight her battles. She doesn't need her IPS husband to defend her whether they are together or not! She, herself is more than capable to deal with her issues. The intention was to show the roommate her place. Also, not forgetting she is still carrying a lot of bitterness in her heart for Virat at this point in time.

6. This one, I agree with you. It was uncalled for. She didn't have to clarify anything to Ajinkya.

7. This, again was the most important thing that was needed; the confrontation. But most important point, she was minding her own business and going when didi ji had to start a drama about Virat sleeping outside! She kept pushing Sai to her limits by taunting her and didi ji's supporters also joined in. This had to happen. Even more so, Virat should have been less of a coward in the situations by now, he also knew what Pakh's was making out of their platonic friendship, and should have informed the family of their past. The family had every right to know this especially since Pakhi got married in the same family and is living under the same roof as her ex who happens to be her BIL. If there is no remaining feeling in his heart, why continue to hide it? Come out in the open and clear the mess for the sanity of the trio as well. But, that didn't happen. While one may say that it is Virat and Pakhi's personal life and it's their right to keep it private. I would agree if they were married in different households as everyone has a past. But them living in one family, knowing it is causing chaos in their own personal lives (especially of Virat who claims to have moved on), why not just clear the mess so that naive Sai can also move past the deal marriage nautanki.

Just my POV.... sorry got a little long. Also, didn't proofread so excuse the typos and grammatical errors. Would love to know more of other's perspectives 😊

Ek dum jhakas❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💯

Originally posted by: Dee10

Here's my take on some of your points mainly the bold points.

1. This is the Sai who has been harassed, molested and abused by Jagtap and was not able to get justice despite having a policeman for a father. And if that was not enough, she has witnessed, her father almost losing his life on his birthday. This Sai wants an escape and Virat, the favourite student of her father unknowing of the situation requested him to extend his stay! This just contributed to the bottled up emotions that Sai had and it exploded. Now Sai already had a misunderstanding about Virat (the very first encounter) but this was way beyond it. This was no longer about that Sai. This was about a daughter who loves her father so much that she is willing to move mountains to get him to safety. She knew Virat was her father's senior and could get him the VRS that she wanted so desperately but then again Virat also was in a moral dilemma because his junior also happened to be his guru and he could not say no to him. All in all, it was a battle between a daughter (and a woman) who has had enough and a police officer. What Sai did by losing her cool was something natural! Let's not forget she is also in that delicate transitioning stage between teenage and adulthood.

2. Was there an option B? Wait for Virat? and then what? Virat would have come, sighed, collected all the things (and maybe said a word or 2) and moved towards the room. As we all have witnessed in most cases, when it has been Sai Vs senior Chavans, somehow or the other Virat gets manipulated and things take a drastic turn. Sai has understood very well the dynamics of the senior Chavan's and the only thing they fear is the fear of losing their reputation out in public. She utilised that fear. Not that it is a good thing to use someone's fear against them but, just sometimes, it has to be done to make people realize the complexities of their actions.

3. This I feel is just a girl who is craving family intimacy even if it is with people who dislike her to the core. And again while she knew the dynamics of the family, she hoped a public apology will set the tone right and asking Kaku to give her the award will make her feel honoured in the public eye thus things may not get as ugly as they normally could.

4. With no one else by her side and knowing her IPS husband, she had to ensure Devi tai's and Pulkit's safety. She did mention that she got them married without their consent so am not sure what was the incomplete truth. As for her breaking Virat's trust, didn't Virat also forget his words about re-investigating the matter? And more so importantly, Devi Tai's deteriorating health and everyone decided the Holi celebration was important leaving their mentally challenged daughter home alone. Her very own mother was feeding her questionable medications and separated a mother and daughter. In this case, they pretty much deserved it. As for Virat, who simply believed a letter and did not investigate the matter thoroughly till the end, I simply have no sympathy for him. This was needed for him to know his BFF's true intentions as well as to realize how much blind faith he has in his family.

5. This was most likely to clear the air that she is not the one to depend on others to fight her battles. She doesn't need her IPS husband to defend her whether they are together or not! She, herself is more than capable to deal with her issues. The intention was to show the roommate her place. Also, not forgetting she is still carrying a lot of bitterness in her heart for Virat at this point in time.

6. This one, I agree with you. It was uncalled for. She didn't have to clarify anything to Ajinkya.

7. This, again was the most important thing that was needed; the confrontation. But most important point, she was minding her own business and going when didi ji had to start a drama about Virat sleeping outside! She kept pushing Sai to her limits by taunting her and didi ji's supporters also joined in. This had to happen. Even more so, Virat should have been less of a coward in the situations by now, he also knew what Pakh's was making out of their platonic friendship, and should have informed the family of their past. The family had every right to know this especially since Pakhi got married in the same family and is living under the same roof as her ex who happens to be her BIL. If there is no remaining feeling in his heart, why continue to hide it? Come out in the open and clear the mess for the sanity of the trio as well. But, that didn't happen. While one may say that it is Virat and Pakhi's personal life and it's their right to keep it private. I would agree if they were married in different households as everyone has a past. But them living in one family, knowing it is causing chaos in their own personal lives (especially of Virat who claims to have moved on), why not just clear the mess so that naive Sai can also move past the deal marriage nautanki.

Just my POV.... sorry got a little long. Also, didn't proofread so excuse the typos and grammatical errors. Would love to know more of other's perspectives 😊

All your points about sai reacting in public is true...and i guess...all the above said points have been discussed about sai numerous times in those respective episodes...i have myself read many times..

Wrong timing i would say for this post...when people are emotionally attached to a character and i felt so bad for poor sai...whatever her stubbornness and impulsiveness or her way of reacting & questioning..no woman should hear or experience it from her husband...

I am a neutral viewer...and without being personal i would say..your post conveys like it's all sai's fault all this happened today with her...if you would have addressed sai's condition and virat's inhumane and rouge behavior...it wouldn't be conveyed wrongly..

Don't take it in a wrong way...your points are valid and sai and virat both need to grow leaps and bounds in a relationship...