She will grow

Pallavi has always remembered Mandaar as a nice guy, so she can't be rude or dismissive of him right now.

Pallavi was never once happy to have back her late husband; she was only happy for Deshmukhs who would get their son back. Pallavi has seen the difficulties Aai-Baba faced when their sole breadwinner son died; it is only humane that she feels happy for them as after all she had worked tirelessly for two years to fill that void, and now that she is married, she is relieved that Mandaar is back with Aai and Baba.

Pallavi has not yet seen dark side of Mandaar or the look Doctor gave when they left from her clinic.

For now Mandaar is just a good guy who tragically lost his memory in her mind , soon she’ll see the other side and react accordingly.

But her choice is clear , it’s Raghav .

So I am assured she’ll give it back to Deshmukhs and Mandaar soon when she sees how overboard they are being and things need to stop.

She should have not gone without informing Raghav , yes, she is still naive in that regard , her conscience and motive was clear and pure so she didn’t give it much thought, only informed Amma and left , I’m sure if Raghav was there , she would have informed him too. This is her flaw and I’m happy they’re talking about it ❤️ , now after realising how such incidents can hurt Raghav and their relationship, she’ll start taking those things into consideration too .

Such incidences affect her too as much as they affect Raghav , she not doing anything intentionally but she needs to learn about world , not everyone is kind because she is kind with them , this track will teach her that .

Raghvi will become stronger than before, after this track ❤️

Exactly! Alia you have said everything I had to say ❤️

From Pallavi’s perspective, mandaar is the biggest victim of all this fiasco. She might even be feeling guilty that she has moved on and is having the happiest days of her life while he’s suffering. She doesn’t know he’s evil. Now she can’t and will not give up on Raghav, she knows she loves him and can’t love anybody else. But the least she would do for Mandaar is be nice to him and try to help the Deshmukhs with him as much as possible, mostly out of her guilt.

yes she should have informed Raghav in person. But VD made that call sound like a big emergency and she left in a hurry. She will apologise to Raghav for this and I am extremely glad that they are talking! Pallavi will realise that these things might hurt the person who loves her the most and she will be more careful in future. That’s how we grow!

Raghav is handling it with maturity and I am so proud of him. Pallavi deserves that because she has done the same for Raghav time and again! Do I need to mention that she didn’t even believe Raghav himself when he claimed he left mandaar on a road to die.


Yes she’s being naive right now. She doesn’t know that the world can be cruel. She’s such a kind heart and she thinks sb uske jaise hi hain. Raghav on the other hand knows how it works. He can almost see through Deshmukhs and Mandaar since day 1, but even he doesn’t know for sure. Pallavi will learn from this incident. She will grow. I can personally relate to Pallavi so much here, because I still learn so many new things every day! World is indeed cruel and even if you feel very sympathetic for someone, sometimes you have to hold back because they might not be the person you think they are! It is actually very realistic and I love how realistically it’s being portrayed on the show.

Raghav and Pallavi will grow stronger through this. And closer than ever.❤️

Not to forget we are going to get such good Raghvi scenes. Khush ho jao sbhi! 🤗

Such incidences affect her too as much as they affect Raghav , she not doing anything intentionally but she needs to learn about world , not everyone is kind because she is kind with them , this track will teach her that .

Love that you pointed out how this naive & gullible Pallavi will soon learn how 'Matlabi' the world is. She'll understand how these things are going to affect her relationship & cause the most hurt to the person she loves dearly. And then she will know when to put her foot down.

Lovely post Alia.

I just wanted to say that Pallavi loves RR no doubt but people also need to understand at one point in her life for a brief period she was in courtship with Mandhar, even if it was over phone or video but they had plans on a life together.

They got married with all the rituals and we know what type of person Pallavi is, these things would leave a deep impact on her.

There are so many emotions that cannot be departmentalised so many feelings one has. Problem is if you are young you don't understand this and just want nibba type love. But those of us who are bit older understand the deeper feelings.

I will repeat Pallavi loves RR with all her heart but that doesn't mean she doesn't feel anything for Mandhar. However once she sees that real Mandhar there will be no good feelings from her side whatsoever.

Originally posted by: SodOff88

Lovely post Alia.

I just wanted to say that Pallavi loves RR no doubt but people also need to understand at one point in her life for a brief period she was in courtship with Mandhar, even if it was over phone or video but they had plans on a life together.

They got married with all the rituals and we know what type of person Pallavi is, these things would leave a deep impact on her.

There are so many emotions that cannot be departmentalised so many feelings one has. Problem is if you are young you don't understand this and just want nibba type love. But those of us who are bit older understand the deeper feelings.

I will repeat Pallavi loves RR with all her heart but that doesn't mean she doesn't feel anything for Mandhar. However once she sees that real Mandhar there will be no good feelings from her side whatsoever.

@bold : very well said 💯

Yes Pallavi will grow and she just can't hate Mandar straight away as he has not given her any reason...but she will never let Mandar cross any boundaries with her. She is just very uncomfortable in presence of Mandar

In fact with Raghav even when they were enemies she was always comfortable. This is a natural instinct. She will be sympathetic to Mandar more so over as she feels he has lost is chance of happy marriage which now she hot in form of Raghav

I like your post but honestly I don't think she needs any defending... Her conflict/stance is pretty obvious and self explanatory.....

However I feel they are going overboard with Mandaar, the guy just came back and he is now with the bg score, tum meri ho?? 🤣

They need to tone down his obsessiveness to make it believable and interesting if that's what they are trying to portray...

I feel like it’s just to show the stark difference between Raghav and Mandar’s personalities

one will do anything for pallavi and the other doesn’t even think about what she wants

But I do love that someone pointed out that Pallavi isn’t happy her “dead” husband is back

she wanted to return D-family their son but in no way was she happy for what it meant foe Raghvi’s relationship

I do like how they showed Pallavi’s concern for Mandar because in her eyes, he hasn’t done anything wrong

In fact, he’s been wronged and he lost his memory according to her

She pities him and it’s expected given to what she’s known about him

also someone did mention that they did have a courtship which would influence these feelings

but I love that the makers have shown that Pallavi loves Raghav, and she knows it’s more than just being together and standing by him

They understand each other like no other which was never present between her and Mandar

If you remember, Pallavi is the one who said there were lots of loose ends regarding Mandar’s “death” and that’s what led her to believe he could be alive

once she starts suspecting him, I’m sure she’ll go back to why he even left her that night

She will fight back and choose Raghav, nothing will change that

one thing I was thinking is, this legal track could get very messy

so they might actually use Mandar’s past to get him arrested or to make his and Pallavi’s marriage null

And Mandar will think he can get Pallu back just because he married her 🤣

She already said to Krishna even before Mandar was found that yes she is Raghav’s wife and will remain that always… she just wanted trashmukhs to have their son back if possible, nothing else…she is helping the family who loved her as their own daughter not the ex husband…. the only feelings she ever had for Mandar was respect and gratitude to give her a family….

but yeah just in previous track when Raghavi were driving for Mandar’s bday pooja, she mentioned that had Mandar been alive, her life would have been different…honestly that time also I thought why was she thinking that aloud as a longing.. Raghav behaved pretty maturely given its just a tv show.. IRL nobody says such stuff in front of current husband…

Originally posted by: nikkiGarg

She already said to Krishna even before Mandar was found that yes she is Raghav’s wife and will remain that always… she just wanted trashmukhs to have their son back if possible, nothing else…she is helping the family who loved her as their own daughter not the ex husband…. the only feelings she ever had for Mandar was respect and gratitude to give her a family….

but yeah just in previous track when Raghavi were driving for Mandar’s bday pooja, she mentioned that had Mandar been alive, her life would have been different…honestly that time also I thought why was she thinking that aloud as a longing.. Raghav behaved pretty maturely given its just a tv show.. IRL nobody says such stuff in front of current husband…

Yeah I think she was thinking about her widowhood and how that changed her life in a way

she’s very naive and it doesn’t look like she sometimes understands how small things can hurt other people

Raghav being very mature didn’t take the comment too seriously

But he was obviously hurt when she left without informing him in the last episode

She’ll learn and change for sure because she can’t stand seeing Raghav in pain, it’s just a process of growth for her

but she has always held Mandar in a high regard, I would say due to the courtship and how his family took her in, so she’ll need some emotional support when she realizes his truth

Our born smart Raghav is already looking through D-family like he has since day 1

That topic of “they don’t deserve you” will come out soon, and he’ll be there for Pallu

It’s going to be an emotional rollercoaster for sure

I’m just hoping they reveal why Mandar left on their wedding night, and what Ved/Mandar’s connection is

I’m pretty sure he must’ve been shady before marriage as well 😡