Udaariyaan | Episode Discussion Thread #2 - Page 68

Originally posted by: mistofshadows

@Bold: Now that I think about it...even if Tejo clears the way for them....JasFa won't be able to get along.

They are too toxic for each other. They will be kind of those couples who forever argue and cause hurt to one up each other.

Jyada kuch karne ki zaroorat nahi hain. They will themselves destroy each other.

Fateh was never ready to marry anyone else at that time. Never. He didn't sort his mess, clear his head and that's why it's biting him in the arse.

I feel the parents of both are to be blamed also.

He was obsessed with a girl for 2 years and then she rejected him, insulted him but he still had/ has those feelings, whatever it was - obsession, infatuation, loving the idea he made in his head about her...

It was too soon and plus he is an emotional guy. He got pressured by his parents and married T, now when his conflicting emotions and thoughts are back, he just can't cope.

Ideally, he had to refuse his parents and spend some time away from everyone, take Buzzo (leave Amrik cos he'd go on Jasso bhabhi mantra), go hiking or on an adventure...and then come back, head cleared, thoughts processed and feelings introspected.

It was alright as long as T was his friend and they would revert back to their casual banters until he would be reminded of his heartbreak again.

Then he did it with her and idk what to make of it... 😳

Originally posted by: ShanUlas

Once Tejo leaves he will feel same obligation to her. Right now Tejo is just a foregranted part.

Exactly and that's why Fateh is never going to be happy.

With Tejo he remembers and longs for Jasso.

If he does go back to Jasso, he will remember his moments with Tejo which were more intense and break from within.

In short....Fateh =angst.

Iska kuch nahi ho sakta.

Originally posted by: mistofshadows

Exactly and that's why Fateh is never going to be happy.

With Tejo he remembers and longs for Jasso.

If he does go back to Jasso, he will remember his moments with Tejo which were more intense and break from within.

In short....Fateh =angst.

Iska kuch nahi ho sakta.

I don't care with whom he ends, whatever makes him happy and he makes his amends sincerely, just let the guy chose one and be sincere man, tired of this constant oscillation

Originally posted by: music_girl

Fateh was never ready to marry anyone else at that time. Never. He didn't sort his mess, clear his head and that's why it's biting him in the arse.

I feel the parents of both are to be blamed also.

He was obsessed with a girl for 2 years and then she rejected him, insulted him but he still had/ has those feelings, whatever it was - obsession, infatuation, loving the idea he made in his head about her...

It was too soon and plus he is an emotional guy. He got pressured by his parents and married T, now when his conflicting emotions and thoughts are back, he just can't cope.

Ideally, he had to refuse his parents and spend some time away from everyone, take Buzzo (leave Amrik cos he'd go on Jasso bhabhi mantra), go hiking or on an adventure...and then come back, head cleared, thoughts processed and feelings introspected.

It was alright as long as T was his friend and they would revert back to their casual banters until he would be reminded of his heartbreak again.

Then he did it with her and idk what to make of it... 😳

Exactly. The abrupt marriage was wrong.

Not just for Tejo but also for Fateh.

Hai parents actually made the situation worse by forcing it on him because they took away his safe place - best friend Tejo.

Instead they made her adopt another layer of being his wife which he couldn't reconcile with.

All the moments where he had a stable mild to move on was with his best friend Tejo as his mind perceived. Whenever faced with the Wife Tejo, he will always call her Wife casually and Focus more on their friendship.

With their consummation, Fateh has clearly and will clearly lose his best friend. He knows that very well too because in that night he actually accepted her as a wife. Even if it was for one night, his best friend with whom he could share everything has taken a back seat while his wife is driving the steering right now.

Even in his outburst to Buzzo he emphasizes that Tejo is not just his wife but also his best friend. It shows which relationship is dearer to him or more important.

Ab woh use khone wala hai...aur kuch hadh tak sab badal chuka hai. He knows that in his bones.....

Wahi toh kyu Apne haath khichad main daale aapas main hi laad ke Marne do aur agar bach Gaye toh phir woh karna jo maina kaha bina sabak sikhaye nahi chodna. Inti asani sa maut nahi Deni for the hurt he'll cause her death is a easy way out. Ussa Kutha Kay pathe saa bandh kar til til tadpakar maro, uska badan ka haar bund nichodke nikalo. I for a person don't believe in non violence as a way ultimate solution thappad maroge toh laat, bukka, mugi, chapad sabh Khaoge. Meri aankh phodoge toh Tumhare haath pair, bheja todke fry karke kutto ko khilaungi. Mujhse bhidoge toh narkh ka dwaar bhi pravesh nahi Karne dungi raaste main game finish kar dungi. As even gandhiji was smart unho sirf yeh kaha ki koi ek thappad mare toh dusra gaal aage Karo yeh nahi bataya ki dono gaal par chamat paade toh kya kaare.

Originally posted by: music_girl

you mean if he gets Jasmine back he'll be pendulum in Tejo's memories...

I don't care with whom he ends, whatever makes him happy and he makes his amends sincerely, just let the guy chose one and be sincere man, tired of this constant oscillation

Yes.

Absolutely yes.

That is one thing I am sure of. He won't get over Tejo even if he is able to move on from Jasso for a second. Till now Tejo is with him....I will eagerly watch him try to deal and fail miserably without her by his side.

The more he stays with Jasso after Tejo leaves, teh worse he will suffer and long for her.

Iska pendulum nature...kabhi nahi jayega.

Originally posted by: mistofshadows

Exactly. The abrupt marriage was wrong.

Not just for Tejo but also for Fateh.

Hai parents actually made the situation worse by forcing it on him because they took away his safe place - best friend Tejo.

Instead they made her adopt another layer of being his wife which he couldn't reconcile with.

All the moments where he had a stable mild to move on was with his best friend Tejo as his mind perceived. Whenever faced with the Wife Tejo, he will always call her Wife casually and Focus more on their friendship.

Even in his outburst to Buzzo he emphasizes that Tejo is not just his wife but also his best friend. It shows which relationship is dearer to him or more important.

Like the scenes: video games, sharing food and all...

I only found him as a friend, his normal self which he was before their wedding, where he considers her as a friend and someone to rely on.

The "my wife" was just a title.

I don't know what he thought that rainy night, why didn't he just control himself 🤪🤪🤪 he's been seeing her as a friend, why that one night it changed 🤪🤪🤪🤪 yeah she is a beauty and hot....so?

Any clarification on that from your part?

Originally posted by: mistofshadows

Yes.

Absolutely yes.

That is one thing I am sure of. He won't get over Tejo even if he is able to move on from Jasso for a second. Till now Tejo is with him....I will eagerly watch him try to deal and fail miserably without her by his side.

The more he stays with Jasso after Tejo leaves, teh worse he will suffer and long for her.

Iska pendulum nature...kabhi nahi jayega.

I hate when in shows the whole basis of the character is to be a love interest or be in a love triangle/ rectangle / polygon...

I have a feeling it's him that won't let her go because of the rainy night

Originally posted by: music_girl

Fateh was never ready to marry anyone else at that time. Never. He didn't sort his mess, clear his head and that's why it's biting him in the arse.

I feel the parents of both are to be blamed also.

He was obsessed with a girl for 2 years and then she rejected him, insulted him but he still had/ has those feelings, whatever it was - obsession, infatuation, loving the idea he made in his head about her...

It was too soon and plus he is an emotional guy. He got pressured by his parents and married T, now when his conflicting emotions and thoughts are back, he just can't cope.

Ideally, he had to refuse his parents and spend some time away from everyone, take Buzzo (leave Amrik cos he'd go on Jasso bhabhi mantra), go hiking or on an adventure...and then come back, head cleared, thoughts processed and feelings introspected.

It was alright as long as T was his friend and they would revert back to their casual banters until he would be reminded of his heartbreak again.

Then he did it with her and idk what to make of it... 😳

Isolation after a heartbreak, or failure does wonderful things to you. Ek toh they live in a bhindi bazaar of a household with cartoonish characters. Even before any of the regular drama, he should have gotten therapy for the Simran, and other issues which affected him. His parents' relationship affected him badly too, and skewed his perspective when it comes to love and partner. And honestly I've a theory IRL, you should be able to sustain as a couple independently once you are married. Jasfa as a couple would have been such a disastrous failure at this, considering they're both shit at this, and lack that from every pov, financially, emotionally.

Originally posted by: music_girl

Like the scenes: video games, sharing food and all...

I only found him as a friend, his normal self which he was before their wedding, where he considers her as a friend and someone to rely on.

The "my wife" was just a title.

I don't know what he thought that rainy night, why didn't he just control himself 🤪🤪🤪 he's been seeing her as a friend, why that one night it changed 🤪🤪🤪🤪 yeah she is a beauty and hot....so?

Any clarification on that from your part?

Attraction ka toh us din likha tha...lamba chaura

But even I am troubled by his acting on it. I expected him to hold off..no matter his urges. But he did the exact opposite.

I need to ponder on this.

What exactly made him lose control that night?

Or was it a knowing act to forget Jasso, hurt her or satisfy his pride and masculinity? He ended up engaging in something whose repercussions he didn't realise in the heat of the moment?

Or was he simply sexually frustrated and wanted Tejo?

So many questions and a lot to analyse. I will post when I reach a conclusion.