Was dt a failed kiss ?? - Page 5

Originally posted by: drnidsur

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This reminds me of Raghav telling - tum life mein hamesha filmy script rakhta hai kya 😆

Lol😆😆😆

Turning into Pallavi😆

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Okkk

I am not saying anything against your post. Completely get ur point.

But as far as my perspective goes......I have found Raghav attracted to her since always. He never wanted to let her go....or gets angry or emotional whenever they hv dt thought of separation bcz he has grown fond of her and more than that she is his companion in everything......be it pain, suffering or happiness. Everytime he has pleaded to her to stay back bcz he fears of being left alone again. Yes he has his mother and sister now , but still he is a lonely soul widout her around him. Dts how I perceive the whole thing.

Now coming to his feelings......yes he has definitely developed dem or may I say they are blossoming.....but they never had enough time or space to completely bloom . And I dont think he has realised them completely yet. I dont expect him to say it all loud ( bcz as he says.....wo sab kuch bolta nai) but I did expect a tiny bit of realisation on his part.......a lil something more than just the dress.

Whatever you hv said abt him trying to be careful around her bcz he was the one who had forced the marriage......dt part....yes I completely agree. Also I feel its bcz whatever playboy image he may have had.....he is still an honorable man who respects a woman and her wishes.

@bold this is a very important point. Being a playboy doesn't mean he forced himself on women and he made it very clear that he believed in limits on both sides.

Plus, Raghav is the kind of person who would consider it beneath him to get a woman's 'affection' if she was against it. He still has good core values but the gangster life of the past 10 years has made him cynical and tough in many ways.

Originally posted by: fria319

Hahaha! You can always counteract! I love discussing and analyzing shows- I'm always up for a friendly back and forth with everyone of all viewpoints :)

I do agree that realization has a different charm... hopefully we'll see a little bit of that this week! Maybe we will get some more Raghav-centric perspective of him wondering about Pallavi and his feelings for her. He kind of did just have a life or death experience so maybe he'll be in more of an introspective mood this week. The most we get from his is his banter with good Raghav - who did already kind of bring the notion of feelings for Pallavi & love up - so maybe that will happen again.

Aur karo Farhad to ghayab! We used to learn a lot about Raghav from his talks with Farhad but lately we don't see much of this. 😔

Originally posted by: drnidsur

You have written my thoughts so so beautifully❤️

I don't think you have could have worded it better than this 😳👏

Exactly all of this 💯 , also people take a lot of his thoughts on his saracastic words - like when she wore the robe - he has seen hotter girls , he had gfs before - during massage scene - very seriously n to the word

that's was a part of the mask he has always put up , his version of intimacy is just being there with her - even if it's just a talk , holding her hand . He was attracted to her - so he leaned in but he wouldn't have kissed even if it was a heat of the moment thing , he is scared that he will overstep even an inch that he is careful of every touch he has with her .

He wants to be sure that everytime he touches her , she thinks he is deserving of that right to touch and that's how he is building it on .

So after each and every step of his - he has waited for her

In the jail he held her hand -

Next when he went to the room and sees her lost in thoughts

He didn't touch her - he was just there

She comes to hold his hand -that waiting❤️

He holds her to a level which way beyond what he himself knows , he would wait for years even if it takes but wouldnt want her to share anything with him that for her would be "just going with the flow "

That's why even during vat savitri - he acted as if he was uninterested whereas he was the one who had once bought it up and indirectly asked her to do it for him .

But now he didn't want her to do just bcus he had asked herb- so he appeared busy and lost in work

Whereas it was his dream to see her doing it for him and it touched him beyond words that she really chose it to do for him

He doesn't want her to be him , bcus he needs her rather he wants her to stay with him bcus she chooses him .

@bold, the beauty of scene was in what you mentioned and it perfectly shows you exactly what Raghav has been thinking and feeling in this relationship as their dynamics have evolved.

All the talk about him being important and a priority in her life was important to show what he is craving most, what he values most. he cares about that because he wants unconditional love and care from her, something he's missed for so many years.

Raghav is the kind of person who was born to be a husband, he craves a life partner to fill the void in his life but would want it to be reciprocal. He needs and wants Pallavi but also wishes for her to need and want him the same way. They last few days he's been getting to see glimpses of exactly that through her words and actions - the way she went to jail with/for him, the way she didn't want to lose him to a jail sentence, the way was with him the backache scene, and finally the way she expressed she was ready to step into the future, holding his hand (his little thumb press was his acknowledgement). His eyes also lit up at the end of the scene and the way he walked out of the D house haq se with her shows that he feels a bit more in control in the relationship as opposed to feeling helpless and confused about his place in her life. His Chalo Pallavi said a lot.

I've always said Raghav had been far ahead for a while, he'd already considered the long-term but Pallavi was living in the moment. Now she's ready to think about the long-term too, gradually. It's like they were both meant to board the same train to their future destination, and Raghav got there first so he's been waiting for her on the platform. When she arrives they'll start their journey to the next station together.

Originally posted by: inlieu

@bold this is a very important point. Being a playboy doesn't mean he forced himself on women and he made it very clear that he believed in limits on both sides.

Plus, Raghav is the kind of person who would consider it beneath him to get a woman's 'affection' if she was against it. He still has good core values but the gangster life of the past 10 years has made him cynical and tough in many ways.

Exactly. He never did anything to get affection from a woman. He definitely had a very different lifestyle bcz of how he had been so lonely for most part of his adult life. He never had any sort or shot at real happiness or relationships.

Also if you remember , in the episode where he in his intoxicated state picked an unconscious Pallavi from the road , he had showed how much respect he actually had for women. He calls them pillars of strength. One of the very first time he really showed what his core values r.

Intention was leaning in for a kiss. 😘 😘 😘

Par if Raghav saw that Pallu is not comfortable,he would've backed off.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Exactly. He never did anything to get affection from a woman. He definitely had a very different lifestyle bcz of how he had been so lonely for most part of his adult life. He never had any sort or shot at real happiness or relationships.

Also if you remember , in the episode where he in his intoxicated state picked an unconscious Pallavi from the road , he had showed how much respect he actually had for women. He calls them pillars of strength. One of the very first time he really showed what his core values r.

Jokes apart, there's a reason people call him a sanskaari playboy. He never crossed his limits and he showed respect to people in his own way in general. The way he dealt with Anjali also showed how important honesty and loyalty is for him, and in episode 1 through his dialogues with that woman in the backseat we understood how love isn't a light subject for him.

Originally posted by: parboni

Intention was leaning in for a kiss. 😘 😘 😘

Par if Raghav saw that Pallu is not comfortable,he would've backed off.

It's interesting that he'd go for that straight away, considering he hasn't really made any intimate gestures like pulling her close or touching her as a husband beyond giving her comfort. He hasn't hugged her passionately or held her hand to express his emotions for her. I think he just got caught up in that moment. Sure, he bought the dress for her but I don't think he was prepared for the effect of seeing her all dressed up like that.

Let's see.

Originally posted by: inlieu

It's interesting that he'd go for that straight away, considering he hasn't really made any intimate gestures like pulling her close or touching her as a husband beyond giving her comfort. He hasn't hugged her passionately or held her hand to express his emotions for her. I think he just got caught up in that moment. Sure, he bought the dress for her but I don't think he was prepared for the effect of seeing her all dressed up like that.

Let's see.

Caught up in the moment was toh definitely. Planned kiss toh nahi tha. Jawaani k josh mein anna apne hosh almost kho chuke the par keel ne unhe direct behosh hi kar diya.😭🥺

Originally posted by: inlieu

It's interesting that he'd go for that straight away, considering he hasn't really made any intimate gestures like pulling her close or touching her as a husband beyond giving her comfort. He hasn't hugged her passionately or held her hand to express his emotions for her. I think he just got caught up in that moment. Sure, he bought the dress for her but I don't think he was prepared for the effect of seeing her all dressed up like that.

Let's see.

It was his inner thoughts translated into action. His thought was "Gosh, I want to kiss her now" translated to leaning in for the kiss. But he stopped halfway, wanting her to cover the distance between them. He always wants her to meet him halfway ❤️