Let’s help KJ confess - Page 4

The best thing Virat can do is switch off his and Sai's phone and throw it away, lock room ka door or just go far away alone, then open his mouth, use his vocal cords and brain and without even thinking about jalebi ka 'j' just make each and every single thing crystal clear.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Which page you and Lakshmi posted? I want to check. No tags 😞

I haven’t written anything. Have been enjoying and agreeing to other’s comments 😀. However, I have replied to your other question in Neeraja’s thread. Please have a look if you haven’t already. Will tag you from another reply too.

I am feeling tired and lazy to comment anymore now 🤣🤣.

Oh ok that’s what I thought. Let me check

Originally posted by: Wildreaper

Well, actions speak louder than words

Now Virat should just straightaway act ☺️☺️☺️

Keeping this thread aside, I can never get to bring myself to expect that virat will confess first. It is in line with his character and his concern/love for sai. He will have doubts that she might not like him. he is reading her wrong, I agree and that is because the signals from her are mixed due to her own battles.

going through several opinions here in the forum, he might be thinking how sai will understand his love for her different from his love for pakhi or he is waiting for her to fall in love with him or he is afraid that she might reject him or his own gentleman attitude to give her time to realize her feelings…. This man will not confess and the story rightly shows the same. He thinks A LOT!

Originally posted by: msin

I have read enough old mills n boon where the hero heroine have a significant age gap .. here virat is not that old .. he’s not even in his thirties .. why should a 28-29 year old guy made to feel like an uncle .. Sai should stop calling him sir .. even Bhaiya is better than this sir sir ,,,

If she insists on doing all this than I would advise virat to start dating other girls ignoring pakhi of course .. he cannot be expected to lead a life of celibacy till madam finishes of her studies and then leave him ..

You could feel something in Sai in GC because she had started to develop something unknown to her, without her own knowledge at that time. But she got hurt ever since she came to know he had someone in his life and had given commitment to her. Not just that, he didn’t want to accept her as his wife which really hurt her from what I understand. How will any girl feel when they don’t think someone as a prospective wife that they actually propose to the girl saying I can only take commitment but not accept you as my wife? On top of it, he kept calling her his responsibility all the time, then he has to bear this now. Even in the beginning stage of their marriage, she kept hoping that she is not just his responsibility but he kept repeating it for everything until recently actually. Then how is one supposed to understand that the responsibility has converted to love when he always kept doing a jaap of dosti and farz?

Even if I understand Virat’s position, I can understand why Sai is where she is now. He put both of them into this position, created this mess during and after marriage too.

He has to first come clean with his past and clear the deal part of their marriage. When a person has always been calling her his responsibility and suddenly starts developing emotions, started to show his emotions, we can’t expect that she starts to understand it or be able to differentiate it as love now. It is the conflicting words and changed behavior in him that she is confused with and hesitant to even think of it as love. She keeps asking him directly too as who she is to him. She has even told him that she is unable to understand but he fails to clarify. It is not only now but she has always noted his wavering behavior and has pointed out to him asking him about it but he has never cleared it. She has asked him why should he feel jealous during Amay’s track or Aniket’s episode too.

I feel that Virat should actually apologise to Sai to have even made that marriage proposal and say that he made a mistake, wants to correct it and wants to make their marriage a real one and ask for a chance from her to make their marriage work.

Sadiltl, answer to your post in the last paragraph.

Originally posted by: msin

see I still feel the sexual chemistry was there significantly in gharchiroli.. virat had not realised it but Sai had ..

During Holi track it was there .. but after virat threw her out he has always been at the back foot .. he is scared to start something .. is trying to woo her .
I feel he should ignore the Dad reference for sometime .. and concentrate on being her husband..

See, in GC, both of them were experiencing an attraction and attachment towards each other that they had never before felt in their lives. From Virat's side, he was so convinced that he was in love with Pakhi, that he refused to even acknowledge how smitten he was by Sai from the start. From Sai's side, she was still so young that she did not even understand what was happening. But, when Virat made that vaada to her on their wedding day, it created a permanent roadblock for her to continue developing those feelings for him. In her mind, he was bound to someone else, and to him, she was nothing more than his duty. That is why we have seen over and over again to this day how confused she constantly is by Virat's actions. She knows that these actions are beyond just some duty...she can see the love in his eyes, in what he does for, how deeply he cares for her. But, she is unable to label it as love.. at least the kind between a husband and a wife. The most powerful example of this to me in terms of the sexual attraction is the ladoo scene. She is completely lost in his touch, in his proximity to her. But, when he takes a bite of the laddo, she tells him that he is really bad. This snaps her back into reality, because to her, she was once again mistaken about Virat...even though we all know that wasn't the case at all.

During the holi track, I believe that Virat was once again caught up in his emotions and also under the influence of bhaang, which is why he wanted to confess. Ever since the ousting track, he has begun to realize that Sai too has feelings for him. We have seen a deep progression in him since that track. Before, he was only trying to confess. Now, he wants her to realize her feelings too. He wants her to understand him and see him for who he is and how he feels about her. He is more in love now than he was during the holi track, and his actions show that perfectly.

Yeah for the vaada he has to apologize to everyone. Himself, pakhi and sai. It turned out insincere no matter what his intentions were at the moment he made it 👍

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Keeping this thread aside, I can never get to bring myself to expect that virat will confess first. It is in line with his character and his concern/love for sai. He will have doubts that she might not like him. he is reading her wrong, I agree and that is because the signals from her are mixed due to her own battles.

going through several opinions here in the forum, he might be thinking how sai will understand his love for her different from his love for pakhi or he is waiting for her to fall in love with him or he is afraid that she might reject him or his own gentleman attitude to give her time to realize her feelings…. This man will not confess and the story rightly shows the same. He thinks A LOT!

I really resonate with what you have written here. On a similar note, one of my favorite scenes from yesterday's episode was when he was so nervous to tell Sai his feelings. Sai even said that she has never seen him like this before, to which he responded that it's because he has never said anything like this before. At the end of the day, he is a man completely and irreversibly in love with his wife. He can see that she is falling in love with him too, but he still has insecurities of his own.... which will be tackled in this upcoming track. Of course he will be nervous... aren't we all when we have to vulnerable? Aren't we all scared of rejection? Of losing the one we love the most?

Originally posted by: laksh

You could feel something in Sai in GC because she had started to develop something unknown to her, without her own knowledge at that time. But she got hurt ever since she came to know he had someone in his life and had given commitment to her. Not just that, he didn’t want to accept her as his wife which really hurt her from what I understand. How will any girl feel when they don’t think someone as a prospective wife that they actually propose to the girl saying I can only take commitment but not accept you as my wife? On top of it, he kept calling her his responsibility all the time, then he has to bear this now. Even in the beginning stage of their marriage, she kept hoping that she is not just his responsibility but he kept repeating it for everything until recently actually. Then how is one supposed to understand that the responsibility has converted to love when he always kept doing a jaap of dosti and farz?

Even if I understand Virat’s position, I can understand why Sai is where she is now. He put both of them into this position, created this mess during and after marriage too.

He has to first come clean with his past and clear the deal part of their marriage. When a person has always been calling her his responsibility and suddenly starts developing emotions, started to show his emotions, we can’t expect that she starts to understand it or be able to differentiate it as love now. It is the conflicting words and changed behavior in him that she is confused with and hesitant to even think of it as love. She keeps asking him directly too as who she is to him. She has even told him that she is unable to understand but he fails to clarify. It is not only now but she has always noted his wavering behavior and has pointed out to him asking him about it but he has never cleared it. She has asked him why should he feel jealous during Amay’s track or Aniket’s episode too.

I feel that Virat should actually apologise to Sai to have even made that marriage proposal and say that he made a mistake, wants to correct it and wants to make their marriage a real one and ask for a chance from her to make their marriage work.

Sadiltl, answer to your post in the last paragraph.

It's so funny that we are always thinking the same. I just wrote a similar thing about GC in another post in this same thread. I agree with everything you have written here. As we have discussed in numerous other topics, more necessary than the confession is telling her that this marriage is real. She is so desperate to hear those words. I find myself wondering lately why he didn't just answer her question when she asked him who he was to her during their fight after the college festival. A part of it is his insecurities, his uncertainty, his fear, his nervousness...but a part of it is also that he does not understand the impact his vaada has had on Sai. He keeps asking her why she always brings up the zimidari, but the answer is quite obvious- it is because he is the one who embedded it in her from the very day of their wedding. That is why Sai has been in a constant state of confusion- because on one hand, there is this underlying promise, and on the other hand, it has been clear from the very first day that she was more than his duty to him. This contradiction keeps elevating itself in her mind, because as Virat falls more in love with Sai, she gets more confused...to me, at this point, she has accepted that Virat loves her. There is no doubt about that. But, she is unable to accept that love as one that a husband gives to his wife...and she will not be able to do so until this marriage is made real via Virat's words.