Sai Joshi is woman of substance!

Sai didn't have an ounce of doubt or questioned instead she denied & told Virat to go alone with Pakhi and join her in Ladakh trip. Then, there's Virat who says stuffs like "Sai kehti hai woh dost hai uski" over her male friend applying cake on her face. The huge contrast. That's Sai Joshi for y'all, a woman of substance. Virat ain't worth getting compared to even Sai's toenail. The misogyny & chauvinisim of Virat screams from the roof top.

Originally posted by: BBFanForever

Sai didn't have an ounce of doubt or questioned instead she denied & told Virat to go alone with Pakhi and join her in Ladakh trip. Then, there's Virat who says stuffs like "Sai kehti hai woh dost hai uski" over her male friend applying cake on her face. The huge contrast. That's Sai Joshi for y'all, a woman of substance. Virat ain't worth getting compared to even Sai's toenail. The misogyny & chauvinisim of Virat screams from the roof top.

Originally posted by: BBFanForever

Sai didn't have an ounce of doubt or questioned instead she denied & told Virat to go alone with Pakhi and join her in Ladakh trip. Then, there's Virat who says stuffs like "Sai kehti hai woh dost hai uski" over her male friend applying cake on her face. The huge contrast. That's Sai Joshi for y'all, a woman of substance. Virat ain't worth getting compared to even Sai's toenail. The misogyny & chauvinisim of Virat screams from the roof top.

That statement and the way its said, "Wo kehti hai ki uska acha dost hai" bothered me.. Whether he was doubting them being friends or not liking the fact that they good friends.. If its the latter, it still fine.. Will have to wait for the episode to air..

Virat can be friends with his ex cum bestie cum bhabhi even though he is not in love with her now and he very well knows what didi feels for him but he has issues with Sai being friends with her male classmates wow!!!!

Originally posted by: BBFanForever

Sai didn't have an ounce of doubt or questioned instead she denied & told Virat to go alone with Pakhi and join her in Ladakh trip. Then, there's Virat who says stuffs like "Sai kehti hai woh dost hai uski" over her male friend applying cake on her face. The huge contrast. That's Sai Joshi for y'all, a woman of substance. Virat ain't worth getting compared to even Sai's toenail. The misogyny & chauvinisim of Virat screams from the roof top.

Sai was insecure too, but she believed and believes that this wedding is a deal and Virat told her that Pakhi is his love, so Sai just lets that part go easily. She does feel pained and irritated, but lets it pass because of this reason unless provoked.

Virat is extremely insecure right now, so is Sai. Both are insecure for different reasons. Sai is insecure because of Pakhi and believes that Virat can never love her. Even in yesterday's episode she explained that to Pakhi. He can take pity on her, he can show her kindness to extreme because he is a good human being. I don't blame Sai for this because Virat doesn't clearly say anything to her and his actions do seem like that to her( after his clear explanation before marriage and after marriage with all his stands for Pakhi and calling her "pyari cheez". Till he clearly says today's truth and his feelings its impossible for her to understand because he did say it clearly earlier about his love for Pakhi then why not his love for Sai). She feels she is not from high class family like Pakhi, she is imposed on Virat, she is not desirable to him, she is not mature like Pakhi etc.

However, Virat feels the same insecurities. He wants to hear he is handsome from Sai, he wants to hear he is a good dancer from Sai, he wants to hear he is her family. He does tell Sai that her smile is good, she is looking pretty, her alta colored feet look pretty etc, but Sai tells him he is old and thats his insecurity. He is older to Sai by a lot and such insecurities do happen between couple of that age difference. Even Pakhi has this insecurity. In yesterday's episode Pakhi said to Sai, you are young, beautiful, vibrant and studying to be a doctor, what do you not have? I feel Virat sees all these in Sai and feels she can get anyone and hence his insecurity. But his biggest mistake is he doesn't see Sai's insecurity. This is chicken or egg question, go figure the answer!!

Virat is in love and knows it, but Sai doesn't know it yet. I have a problem with Virat not thinking about how would Sai feel when it comes/came to Pakhi, even when he becomes insecure with Sai's normal talking to another male. I feel Sai handles her insecurity better than Virat. I also feel Virat loves her with the feeling of possession, such lovers can do the worst and the best in love. Probably, thats his character.

Frankly, my husband is a lot more possessive about me than I am of him. I questioned his worries about me being out till late or whom I was with and my location when I never asked him. I used to get pissed, but realized he wasn't bothered once he knew where and with whom I was and if I had a safe way to return no matter how long or what gender I was with. He just wanted to assure my safety, not satisfy his male ego. I never worried about him that way, so it was hard for me to understand it early on. Having said that I would knock his teeth out if he had a bhabhi like Pakhi and had history with her and behaved like how Virat does. But again, I am his REAL wife not DEALWALI😊