Yun to hay pyar bohat (HUM TV)- Hira Mani, Affan Waheed - Page 49

Originally posted by: Gobi13

Also because of it I promised myself I would never let my kid face any of things. I will only marry when I’m living comfortably, like my own house, other amenities n can afford being married n have .

I wish you all the success and happiness in this world. Your story although sad , is very relatable, many ppl who didn't have fun and what they wanted in childhood work hard to give their children a better life.

So seeing aima do this is very normal n acceptable to me 😆. I thinks it’s a simple matter of wat u value more n r afraid to lose.

I first thought Aima was material.. but after she took the case of those poor women I became sure that she wants to give insaaf to women who suffer like her mom.

As for ur financial issues causing problem between u n ur husband. Dw abt it. It happens with all couples. I have seen my parents fight because of it too. curious to know, how u got out of ur financial issues. Success stories like those r always heartwarming to read ❤️

Thank you for your kind words. It was a success story.. but sadly this war turned our lives upside down. Poorness is spreading like a desease in my country. 😒 I just returned to my job, took care of my children, of course my husband is helping us financially, but I am worried about my children. they need their father too, not just a good life style. Sometimes you have to sacrifise something, to get what you want. and I am afraid I might took the wrong decision. I just hope my kids don't have problems because of being rised up far away from their father. I watched 2 episodes of Pardes and I felt depressed.😒

Originally posted by: awida

Thank you for your kind words. It was a success story.. but sadly this war turned our lives upside down. Poorness is spreading like a desease in my country. 😒 I just returned to my job, took care of my children, of course my husband is helping us financially, but I am worried about my children. they need their father too, not just a good life style. Sometimes you have to sacrifise something, to get what you want. and I am afraid I might took the wrong decision. I just hope my kids don't have problems because of being rised up far away from their father. I watched 2 episodes of Pardes and I felt depressed.😒

Not having a father there for u all times effects people differently. I think it depends on the reason being the father not being. For example if it is divorce n he the leaves the kids, it becomes resentment, also other kids might tease. If father leaves for work n all it becomes sorta like how pardes shows. Also sometimes like mine, I just drifted apart from my father, when he wasn’t there. My mom is really good mom so I never felt like I missed my dad. But I’m a guy so for me it is different than it would be for a girl. Still as long as ur a good mom, ur kids will be fine.

As for the war stuff. I pray for you n everyone else in war stricken places. Wars r evil n bad. I hate seeing them. May allah make everyone’s lives in such places much much easier n reward them for their hardships

Originally posted by: Gobi13

Not having a father there for u all times effects people differently. I think it depends on the reason being the father not being. For example if it is divorce n he the leaves the kids, it becomes resentment, also other kids might tease. If father leaves for work n all it becomes sorta like how pardes shows. Also sometimes like mine, I just drifted apart from my father, when he wasn’t there. My mom is really good mom so I never felt like I missed my dad. But I’m a guy so for me it is different than it would be for a girl. Still as long as ur a good mom, ur kids will be fine.

As for the war stuff. I pray for you n everyone else in war stricken places. Wars r evil n bad. I hate seeing them. May allah make everyone’s lives in such places much much easier n reward them for their hardships

Ameen summa Ameen.

So you are a guy , and I was thinking you are a girl, all that time.😆

I guess you are right. Divorce is a bitter situation, where kids are torn between their parents, and don't know which side they should take.. also if their parents remarried , their lives gets more complicated, with few exceptions of course.😳

My parents were always with me..however I was attached to my mother, and failed to understand my father. It is only after I got married, that too very late, when I started appreciating all what he did for us. He was strict, for this I was always afraid of him..but now I can see, it was because he was worried about our future, he wanted us to be successfull and strong. The old way of education was only like that. 😒

Originally posted by: awida

Ameen summa Ameen.

So you are a guy , and I was thinking you are a girl, all that time.😆

I guess you are right. Divorce is a bitter situation, where kids are torn between their parents, and don't know which side they should take.. also if their parents remarried , their lives gets more complicated, with few exceptions of course.😳

My parents were always with me..however I was attached to my mother, and failed to understand my father. It is only after I got married, that too very late, when I started appreciating all what he did for us. He was strict, for this I was always afraid of him..but now I can see, it was because he was worried about our future, he wanted us to be successfull and strong. The old way of education was only like that. 😒

I am lucky. My dad is soo nice to me n everyone else. My mom was the strict parent. Although she could never be strict properly. I always knew how to make her laugh in those situations. 😆. But since I matured quickly😳, I never gave my parents a hard time. Although I was a little hot tempered n still am. But I cool down quickly too, so I apologize also😆

Anyways, kids r smarter than we give them credit. Always be there to guide them, n teach them to be independent. They will be fine. Teenage yrs are a little harder as they r growing n all. So temper will be higher generally. But sure enough they will mature n realize wat they did n wht they didn’t.

Originally posted by: Gobi13

I am lucky. My dad is soo nice to me n everyone else. My mom was the strict parent. Although she could never be strict properly.

Yes. A mother is a mother , she can't stay angry at her children for a long time. I think she is lucky to have a mature boy like you. I hope my children grow up to be mature too.

I always knew how to make her laugh in those situations. 😆. But since I matured quickly😳, I never gave my parents a hard time. Although I was a little hot tempered n still am. But I cool down quickly too, so I apologize also😆

I am just like you. I make lots of mistakes, but don't shy off from apologyzing. I saw many ppl who see apologyze as a weakness..but I think it shows your power..it makes your correct your self, and improve. May Allah give you hidayat, to get rid of your temper.
Anyways, kids r smarter than we give them credit. Always be there to guide them, n teach them to be independent. They will be fine. Teenage yrs are a little harder as they r growing n all. So temper will be higher generally. But sure enough they will mature n realize wat they did n wht they didn’t.

Thank you for the advice . You made me look at these matters in a positive way. 😃

Ep 8 and 9:

I am glad they didn't show Aima and her family kicked out of their house without taking any qanooni step. Usually in other dramas rich ppl are portrayed as Gods.. none cane file a case and win it against them. Here we saw Aima winning 3 cases for 3 helpless women, and giving it back to her step mother..not just with the help of law, but also verbally.

I also liked how Zain didn't clear the misunderstanding between Aima and himself. Coz he knows that she is stubborn ..he tried , but she didn't listen to him. I loved it how when he was leaving she kept looking at him.

Nazi's boss isn't a flirt. It is Nazi who is after him. She isn't as innocent as I assumed first..she is ambitious, and she is about to achieve what she dreamt of. Can we have a model track without pointing fingers at modelling as a bad profession.😕. I mean it is strange that actors and models do moddelling, but in dramas they act like it is a bad profession.. how!😳

Originally posted by: awida

Ep 8 and 9:

I am glad they didn't show Aima and her family kicked out of their house without taking any qanooni step. Usually in other dramas rich ppl are portrayed as Gods.. none cane file a case and win it against them. Here we saw Aima winning 3 cases for 3 helpless women, and giving it back to her step mother..not just with the help of law, but also verbally.

I also liked how Zain didn't clear the misunderstanding between Aima and himself. Coz he knows that she is stubborn ..he tried , but she didn't listen to him. I loved it how when he was leaving she kept looking at him.

Nazi's boss isn't a flirt. It is Nazi who is after him. She isn't as innocent as I assumed first..she is ambitious, and she is about to achieve what she dreamt of. Can we have a model track without pointing fingers at modelling as a bad profession.😕. I mean it is strange that actors and models do moddelling, but in dramas they act like it is a bad profession.. how!😳

I was happy to see sonia’s mom fall into her own trap

I don’t think naazi is a flirt. I think she is naive n outspoken, she says wat she feels n doesn’t understand that u must speak a certain way with certain people. She still feels like a kid. I feel she will achieve all the success n realize that money n fame isn’t everything so she will go to zain’s friend n they will live happily ever after.

Initially the way Nazi acted around her boss also made me cringe but then I thought may be she looks up to him like a father figure as she lacks that in her life and she is naive.

Episodes were good. Yeah nazi's behavior with her boss was weird but not flirt.

Originally posted by: Gobi13

I was happy to see sonia’s mom fall into her own trap

I don’t think naazi is a flirt. I think she is naive n outspoken, she says wat she feels n doesn’t understand that u must speak a certain way with certain people. She still feels like a kid. I feel she will achieve all the success n realize that money n fame isn’t everything so she will go to zain’s friend n they will live happily ever after.

I mean her Nazi's gazes at her boss. Even the other girls noticed . I think she likes him a bit. Any way , let's see. 😉

I am not keen in her happy end with Fakhar.. I'd love to see her get success and fame..it is more interesting than being a typical wife , who keeps fighting with her husband for financial matters. I think he should focus on his career . 😊 Btw Rizwan Ali Jafferi is a model too.😃