What the h... they wanted to show????

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Posted: 4 years ago
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That marriage is a hell for a girl who wanted to carry on with her careers? That never get married as there will be zero happiness after that. There is something called honey moon period after every marriage. Every Tom, Dick and Harry have it . Common not a si how good day, not a single good moment after marriage. And why the hell only the girl is suffering??? So they clearly saying never get married , and by chance if you do, never ever go and stay with the boy’s family. There is zero romance left at least from the Man’s prospective ( as we can see the guy who was head over heeel now completely cold as ice....) .

If any girl who is not married will see this will get scared to death to even think about marriage and with her carrier .The stupid house is full of villians. Not one , two , but 6-7 . Give me a break ...

And this is 2020 ? Please give me a break. Who talks about name change after marriage in certificate now????

Sorry for the rant, but my blood is boiling ...😡😡😡😡😡

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Posted: 4 years ago
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This is nice point the CV's have brought up to give us nayi soch. I believe in CV's, they wont disappoint us.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hanji1234

That marriage is a hell for a girl who wanted to carry on with her careers? That never get married as there will be zero happiness after that. There is something called honey moon period after every marriage. Every Tom, Dick and Harry have it . Common not a si how good day, not a single good moment after marriage. And why the hell only the girl is suffering??? So they clearly saying never get married , and by chance if you do, never ever go and stay with the boy’s family. There is zero romance left at least from the Man’s prospective ( as we can see the guy who was head over heeel now completely cold as ice....) .

If any girl who is not married will see this will get scared to death to even think about marriage and with her carrier .The stupid house is full of villians. Not one , two , but 6-7 . Give me a break ...

And this is 2020 ? Please give me a break. Who talks about name change after marriage in certificate now????

Sorry for the rant, but my blood is boiling ...😡😡😡😡😡

Girls have to warriors.Put forward your point ina polite way.Fighting for yourselves does not necessarily involve shouting and arguements but being assertive is the key.

They have shown the reality.This is what every modern day daughter is facing.Honeymoon period as you put would have shown to us if there was enough time.A girl getting married while being student faces such things.

Imagine doctors who are continuing their Post grads or Diploma face struggles.Not that any girls wont.I just quoted an example.

Your rant is every unmarried girl's voice.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Shakhi don't look like newly married couple. When Shaurya could plan honeymoon with Shagun for 1month in Europe why he has no plans for Anokhi. Sabharwals don't have any house help that badi ma keeps telling some or the other work to bahu. I wish Anokhi had refused to get married till she finishes her studies. That's what girls prefer. They get married only after they settle in their careers. Now days girls don't to get married at the age of 21 but it's mostly after 25.

He got married to her just to satisfy his ego? Shaurya is not a husband material😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Yes it's 2021 but still people want a girl to change her surname after marriage. In my case it's not my husband and in laws but my father and grandmother wanted me to change my surname after marriage. After six years of my marriage still my grandmother rant the same thing. My in-laws though they want me to change my surname but they never forced me. And my husband he was like please I have to change your name in every important document or carry affidavit please nooo 😆😆.

Now whatever shown in saakk regarding surname change its real issue. And the same thing shown in sp show Navya also.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: mamta22

Yes it's 2021 but still people want a girl to change her surname after marriage. In my case it's not my husband and in laws but my father and grandmother wanted me to change my surname after marriage. After six years of my marriage still my grandmother rant the same thing. My in-laws though they want me to change my surname but they never forced me. And my husband he was like please I have to change your name in every important document or carry affidavit please nooo 😆😆.

Now whatever shown in saakk regarding surname change its real issue. And the same thing shown in sp show Navya also.

I completely agree. I got married 9 years ago and had the same exact issue. My inlaws wanted to change the surname but I didnt want to and my husband supported me. Till date his relatives taunt me now and then and he will sometimes call me by my full name in their presence to chide them 😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
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And why is Shaurya changing so much all of a sudden? Is this the same Shaurya we saw before their wedding? He was so rebellious and brave. All he wanted was Anokhi's happiness. He went from asking Anokhi to not care about house duties to asking her to quit her TA job. I understand his point but the shift in his characterization seems too sudden. He was fine as long as Astha was here, the min she left them he reverted back to his older self a little

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: minuanne

And why is Shaurya changing so much all of a sudden? Is this the same Shaurya we saw before their wedding? He was so rebellious and brave. All he wanted was Anokhi's happiness. He went from asking Anokhi to not care about house duties to asking her to quit her TA job. I understand his point but the shift in his characterization seems too sudden. He was fine as long as Astha was here, the min she left them he reverted back to his older self a little

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I think why we are feeling overwhelmed is because all of these issues are not faced by one woman in one house. Some have some problem, others have other. But these issues are real. I am a privileged woman, a lot of them are not. So many women get married at the age of 18 in this country, they struggle, they are in pain and still manage to make a living. A lot of married women are stopped from continuing their studies or as anokhi said are told to complete it for 'namesake'. The things they are talking about are real.

It's just that the execution might not be 100% but the issues definitely are.

As far as Shaurya goes, ladka toh badla nahi tha, he said he won't stop her dreams , he never said his social conditioning as a privileged male along with his inherent misogyny is also something he has left behind.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I seriously doubt one thing is Devi Alok and Tej's true face going to be revealed in front of Shaurya ?

This time they cannot show Devi Tej and Alok winning their evil tricks and plans.

I really hope Aastha finally shuts Devi Tej and Alok's mouth this time and reveals their evil face in front of Shaurya and also tells him why she left him and also promise him that she will never leave him and go again.

I want Shaurya to get over his insecurities and his abandonment fear by Aastha and Anokhi.

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