Originally posted by: nethraa_99
Thanks for the reply ❤️.
Got busy for a couple of days. Atlast found time to read your post in leisure now.
I think I understand Sai's POV now 😀👍.
About Virat, I'm still not convinced what he is trying to do - it's ok to try to prod Sai on her feelings - but he is doing it wrong by asking her to join hostel, gaurdian commemt etc. And he still shies away from doing the most important thing - clear any MU Sai might have regarding his past and tell her that he wants to give their marriage a chance in clear cut terms.
Prior to this there were fathomable reasons as to why he was not forthcoming about his past and telling Sai that he wanted a real marriage - during Ladakh himself was not sure about his feelings, then there was the fear of rejection because he believed Sai did not like/care for him, he might have even been uncomfortable accepting his past given that Pakhi lives in the same house, maybe he was embarassed or ashamed of his vaada, he might have been unsure of how/what to say or even how it all might be received - given that he had put such a huge barrier in the beginning of the marriage. But now, everything is out in the open, he has even begun to have hoped that Sai too likes him.... what is preventing him from being open now? All he has to say is that Pakhi is his bhabhi and he wants to close the chapter and that he wishes to give SaiRat marriage a chance? I don't understand what is preventing him? Whatever his apprehensions may be, it certainly doesn't seem to deter him from planning a confession every now and then, like today for instance. If at all, he should feel more jittery with the confession!
It is sweet of you to have remembered to reply to this. Thanks 😊
@bold thankfully you too felt it was wrong. I just didn’t like that honestly. Thankfully Sai started to think in a different way but there was always a chance for her to misunderstand it. In fact it is to avoid such things and a fear of hearing these from him that made her have the walls up all the time. It is for this that she doesn’t have expectations from him or take liberty on him. She would have always thought what if he asks her why she was still in the house after she finishes her studies which made her keep telling to herself and to him too that she will leave the house or that she anyway has to leave the house one day. Hence it didn’t make sense for him to use the exact thing to make her think about her feelings or the reason she has stayed back.
@italics you have listed all the reasons for his hesitation earlier 👏.
I agree that there can be nothing that can prevent him from clearing the misunderstanding Sai has about his and Pakhi’s relationship. True, he plans to or thinks of confessing but is not thinking of clearing Sai’s MU , is not telling her that he doesn’t look at their marriage as a deal marriage, doesn’t tell that he made a mistake by setting those conditions during the marriage and doesn’t tell that he wants to make it a real one now.
As you have rightly said he should feel jittery only with the confession, yet that hasn’t stopped him from planning to confess so often.
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