Mehendi hai rachne wali discussion thread no 48 - Page 10

Originally posted by: Shivi.forever

Par manana padega pallavi ko bhi she carries her distraction also very gracefully without making it awkward.. they r good at mature portrayal of feelings than the teenage display of feelings.. 🥰🥰

But that's the thing, right? Apne husband ko pasand karne mein kaisi sharam?

Originally posted by: RainbowUnicorm

Yes and for everyone who is being understanding of Raghav right now..let's be understanding of Pallavi if she chooses Nikhil over Raghav at some point in future. The moment Pallavi gives priority to anyone other than Raghav, FD has issues with her. But if Raghav chooses sister or Amma above Pallavi we are supposed to understand.

I personally think it's hard for a person to choose between a spouse and other family members. No one should have to be in that spot.

If she prioritizes Nikhil, I would understand because he deserves her love and loyalty. If she did that for Sanki I wouldn't be ok with it, of course, but that's her call.

So yeah, I agree with you in this that it needs to make sense for the character.

This is the reason people are so angry with Keerti right now because no one expected she'd go so far and be so selfish towards her own brother, especially after what he's doing for her.

Even what Pallavi's doing right now about getting justice makes sense for her character. She prioritized Raghav but not over the sense of justice for Mandaar's death. Many people might think she's being unfair but from her character's perspective it makes sense.

Sigh... They both have tough choices to make.

Originally posted by: rmahi25

https://twitter.com/Aash_forever/status/1413724208396324867?s=19

Dekhooooo kon aaayaaa❤️

Our fandom really never forgets any character, loves them all in their own way. I was so happy to see him back!!!

Originally posted by: gayatherry88

Yeah I know 🤣☺️.. I know it's only RR going to receive all but still birthday boy right so my heart goes for him☺️☺️☺️☺️.. we know their galllis 🤬🤬🤬 especially sunki

I want to see if Raghav can still call him Sanki buddha now with the guilt of Mandaar's death and of course Pallavi standing next to him, glaring at him.

Originally posted by: inlieu

But that's the thing, right? Apne husband ko pasand karne mein kaisi sharam?

Yes that is why the show is realistic !! A wife who is in head over heels in life with her husband should have no awkward feelings about showing his attraction desire towards her husband and in real life also wives never show any awkward feeling when getting physically intimate with their husbands and why should they get awkward they are married and it is a wife's right to express her desire openly for her husband . Aur Pallavi to even before marriage was openly attracted towards Raghav and never chose to hid it or feel awkward. This show is so damn realistic!!

Originally posted by: gayatherry88

Today she had enough of his ignorance for her so blasted him. She could not able to take it that he isn't with her but unfortunately she didn't know he don't want to loose his wife and sister, poor guy struck between all. He isn't good at handling relationships, now only he started but everyone was so dear to him☺️☺️☺️.. he will come around soon how he can away from his skd 🤗🤗

He went from 10 years of no family to now having too much family around. 😆 Ab bhugto!

You're right, she doesn't know that he's also doing this for her but he doesn't tell her that.

Originally posted by: meghumonu

Yes that is why the show is realistic !! A wife who is in head over heels in life with her husband should have no awkward feelings about showing his attraction desire towards her husband and in real life also wives never show any awkward feeling when getting physically intimate with their husbands and why should they get awkward they are married and it is a wife's right to express her desire openly for her husband . Aur Pallavi to even before marriage was openly attracted towards Raghav and never chose to hid it or feel awkward. This show is so damn realistic!!

I love the show too for this reason. The last time I saw this on ITV was in Punar Vivah. She even told her husband I'm not ashamed of being in love with you. Damn Kratika Sengar was something! ❤️

Originally posted by: inlieu

I love the show too for this reason. The last time I saw this on ITV was in Punar Vivah. She even told her husband I'm not ashamed of being in love with you. Damn Kratika Sengar was something! ❤️

I never watched that show but in Na Bole Tum when Megha acted as fake wife for Mohan to save him from taunts by his ex girlfriend and when Mohan asked what is all this? She just simply replied "Mujhe acchi nahi lagi ki woh kaisi tumhare sath bat kar rahi thi" . Just a simple line but she said it so much confidence and haq that even Mohan was stupefied and she did not even felt awkward after stating that. I was only 18 in 2012 so that time did not understood the significance of the scene but in 2020 in lockdown when I re watched the show again then the scene hit me!! Such a simple scene and a simple dialogue said with so much confidence and protectiveness it totally changed the scene!! In real life also we become protective and aggressive for our loved if people talk s*it about them.

Originally posted by: Iamlikethisonly

@bold- I think he was meant to be portrayed as a flawed and bordering on negative character from the beginning- I mean they do call him a don. Or at least someone who plays by his rules or is a law unto himself . The way he behaves with Pallavi in the initial episodes- putting her in front of a truck , spreading lies about her to her family to have his way and sending Nikhil to jail - I kinda saw him as an underworld persona. I mean he is always breaking the law- bribing the police etc. His mom had him marrying Pallavi in the hope that she would change him.

And even if he has this kind side to him- his family- Amma and Keerti have always been his blind spots. So now I guess they are thrown in this situation to show how much he is being torn apart in his instincts to do right by Pallavi but also protect Keerti. He was willing to take the blame on his head - I guess protecting his family is his only priority and he would rather go to jail than see his family in jail.

Absolutely. It's only since the maar daalo mujhe Raghav moment that things really took a turn and we saw a softer side to him, otherwise his basic nature is the same. I think it's because we haven't seen him in his earlier avatar for a while that we've forgotten just how tough he can be.

I don't expect him to play by the rules, he's a don and he's a powerful. I didn't stick to this show to watch a good hero. He's an anti-hero and I like him that way, doing things that are atypical of heroes, finding himself in messy situations, and using his sheer force of will to make things happens. It's all the crying that I find hard to watch because it's hard for me to see him like that

Even in the precap, he wasn't saying that he chose Keerti over Pallavi as the people, but he chose to protect the future instead of letting the past destroy it. He also said he understands her pain and one look at his eyes tells you how much this is eating him up on the inside.

I am very impressed with the way they're showing his conflict. You can't agree with him wholly but in some ways you can...

Also with all this Mandar-Keerti-Palls bb drama I think the VD trash talking has come to a halt. (or maybe I missed some of your posts about him). But I just want to start by saying I really hate how terrible VD is to kaka and everyday I wish he and his character dies a slow unforgiving death.

Seeing how shitty VD is I am high key rooting for Sulochana. Once she takes all of his wealth his ghamand will break or he'll get a 2nd heart attack and die so we can all live peacefully.

Also alt. take (and my pagal pana): maybeeee Sulochana became a vamp due to VD's antics. VD dotted on Pallavi in the beginning and maybe that's why she now associates the two together and hates them both but her original enemy had always been VD.