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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: laksh

Wow, I truly agree. I think there has been an ambiguity. Many a times when I say confession, it is not his feelings, it is about the marriage. I want him to mainly clear about their marital status since he made brought in the deal part. Yes, he can confess but I first want him to clear the mess that was created by this deal and I also want him to share about his past with Pakhi.

By saying Sai is not ready for a confession, you mean she won’t be able to understand how he can have feelings for her when he used to love Pakhi, then I agree. I had a just written about this as another reply to Nethra where she has spoken about confession. Going through tags one by one now 🙈.


Yes, that is exactly what I mean. And I know we have the unpopular opinion on this forum, because everyone wants Virat to confess his love for Sai. And of course, I am waiting for that scene too, because I know it will be magical. But, to me, him telling her that this marriage is real is even more important. He always goes around the topic and spins his words, but he never directly tells her that she is not just his zimidari...she is his wife for REAL. Without having that clarity in Virat's thinking, how will Sai be able to understand that he loves her? It could even seem disingenuous due to his past with Pakhi and how Sai knows that he was committed to her. Which brings me to another point. Sai doesn't know the nature of Virat and Pakhi's past relationship. She doesn't know that they met at a yoga retreat and only knew each other for a few days. To me, it wasn't even love between them. It was just infatuation. But, in Sai's mind, she might be thinking that they had been committed for a long time or making up other stories. This is another piece that needs to be cleared up by Virat. Only once these things have been discussed between the couple will Sai truly be able to both fall in love herself/allow herself to recognize that these feelings are real and acceptable, but also accept Virat's love too. There are so many moments when Sai almost forgets the idea of the deal marriage and lets her feel the emotions of a real wife, but then she gets snapped back into reality and probably questions her own feelings. The one scene that stands out is the ladoo eating scene when she thinks that Virat is going to kiss her but instead eats the ladoo. She tells him that he's really bad and goes away. Because in that moment of physical intimacy, the relationship seems REAL to her. And it is real for Virat too of course and he is only teasing her by eating the ladoo.. of course he wants to actually kiss her. But, again, she doesn't know that. All of this is why Sai's dialogue in yesterday's episode of saying that she doesn't understand Virat was so powerful. She said that to him before too when after yelling at her, he took care of her and checked her temperature when she had a fever. It is because Virat's actions and his words are constantly at odds for her, and of course in the background is always the infamous vaada.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: tptwi


Yes, that is exactly what I mean. And I know we have the unpopular opinion on this forum, because everyone wants Virat to confess his love for Sai. And of course, I am waiting for that scene too, because I know it will be magical. But, to me, him telling her that this marriage is real is even more important. He always goes around the topic and spins his words, but he never directly tells her that she is not just his zimidari...she is his wife for REAL. Without having that clarity in Virat's thinking, how will Sai be able to understand that he loves her? It could even seem disingenuous due to his past with Pakhi and how Sai knows that he was committed to her. Which brings me to another point. Sai doesn't know the nature of Virat and Pakhi's past relationship. She doesn't know that they met at a yoga retreat and only knew each other for a few days. To me, it wasn't even love between them. It was just infatuation. But, in Sai's mind, she might be thinking that they had been committed for a long time or making up other stories. This is another piece that needs to be cleared up by Virat. Only once these things have been discussed between the couple will Sai truly be able to both fall in love herself/allow herself to recognize that these feelings are real and acceptable, but also accept Virat's love too. There are so many moments when Sai almost forgets the idea of the deal marriage and lets her feel the emotions of a real wife, but then she gets snapped back into reality and probably questions her own feelings. The one scene that stands out is the ladoo eating scene when she thinks that Virat is going to kiss her but instead eats the ladoo. She tells him that he's really bad and goes away. Because in that moment of physical intimacy, the relationship seems REAL to her. And it is real for Virat too of course and he is only teasing her by eating the ladoo.. of course he wants to actually kiss her. But, again, she doesn't know that. All of this is why Sai's dialogue in yesterday's episode of saying that she doesn't understand Virat was so powerful. She said that to him before too when after yelling at her, he took care of her and checked her temperature when she had a fever. It is because Virat's actions and his words are constantly at odds for her, and of course in the background is always the infamous vaada.

Wow, I have just written a part of what you have written in another reply and the other part is something that I have been thinking ever since I saw the episode. The part where she said she doesn’t understand him. Yes, she said the same after Amay’s incident when he was checking her temperature. She does seek clarification from him but he is evading those questions. It kind of made sense when he didn’t know what he felt for her in the past but now that he knows, it will only do good to the both of them if he clarifies her doubts.

The part where you have spoken about him sharing about his past is something that I have written in my other reply. He has to 😞.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: laksh

Wow, I have just written a part of what you have written in another reply and the other part is something that I have been thinking ever since I saw the episode. The part where she said she doesn’t understand him. Yes, she said the same after Amay’s incident when he was checking her temperature. She does seek clarification from him but he is evading those questions. It kind of made sense when he didn’t know what he felt for her in the past but now that he knows, it will only do good to the both of them if he clarifies her doubts.

The part where you have spoken about him sharing about his past is something that I have written in my other reply. He has to 😞.


Wow! I have loved discussing with you, but it is so interesting that we have such similar responses- also because not many people share our views. I read your response in another topic, and your analysis is almost the same as mine 😊

I think that the confession (of love) will definitely be stretched another 1-2 months at least. But, in order for the story to progress and for Sai to be ready for the love confession when it comes, Virat needs to clarify that this is a real marriage as soon as possible. It would follow logically from yesterday's episode too. I think that if Sai keeps pushing him for an answer like she did yesterday, he will crack.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: tptwi


Wow! I have loved discussing with you, but it is so interesting that we have such similar responses- also because not many people share our views. I read your response in another topic, and your analysis is almost the same as mine 😊

I think that the confession (of love) will definitely be stretched another 1-2 months at least. But, in order for the story to progress and for Sai to be ready for the love confession when it comes, Virat needs to clarify that this is a real marriage as soon as possible. It would follow logically from yesterday's episode too. I think that if Sai keeps pushing him for an answer like she did yesterday, he will crack.

The same here, love interacting with you. Have a few friends with whom I used to actively discuss, some still here, some have stopped using the forum and some don’t get into serious discussions anymore. I am this active after a long time in the forum, happy to see our views matching. Even if it doesn’t, will be interesting to read your take on them. I have always loved Neeraja’s take about Sai. I would find her writing what I have in mind 😅.


@bold Would love to see this. Hope makers follow this than the original version 🤞 .

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: laksh

The same here, love interacting with you. Have a few friends with whom I used to actively discuss, some still here, some have stopped using the forum and some don’t get into serious discussions anymore. I am this active after a long time in the forum, happy to see our views matching. Even if it doesn’t, will be interesting to read your take on them. I have always loved Neeraja’s take about Sai. I would find her writing what I have in mind 😅.


@bold Would love to see this. Hope makers follow this than the original version 🤞 .


Yes, exactly. I have so many funny and fun conversations with members on this forum, and I love that. But, I have been missing the more serious analytical conversations lately. Glad that I have you from now on to discuss with and of course Neerja too. I really love reading your guys' takes and learning from them/gaining new perspectives when we don't agree. 😊

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: KJSairat

Loved reading the discussion that's going on over here. It was missing past few days, but it's something I thoroughly enjoy!

Missing may be because there wasn’t much to talk about the dance 🤣🤣.

I too missed having such discussions, this is another reason why I am not able to stick to my resolve to not use the forum 🤣. My first reason being friends who tag me in SM thread or spoiler posts, feel really guilty to not join them 😞. I let it go and first respond their tags 😀 even if it was an old spoiler picture 🤣🤣.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: laksh

Missing may be because there wasn’t much to talk about the dance 🤣🤣.

I too missed having such discussions, this is another reason why I am not able to stick to my resolve to not use the forum 🤣. My first reason being friends who tag me in SM thread or spoiler posts, feel really guilty to not join them 😞. I let it go and first respond their tags 😀 even if it was an old spoiler picture 🤣🤣.


Don't worry. Looks like we will have lots to discuss in the upcoming track. Just hope it's not character assassination and suicide.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: tptwi


Don't worry. Looks like we will have lots to discuss in the upcoming track. Just hope it's not character assassination and suicide.

Really hope so too Pooja, and I feel Samrat's entry will make the forum bloom again, but that's still a few weeks far I think but yeah I've been missing the serious analysises and discussions. I am not much in the right mind now to participate in one, but am being a silent reader and enjoying it to the fullest 😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: tptwi


Yes, exactly. I have so many funny and fun conversations with members on this forum, and I love that. But, I have been missing the more serious analytical conversations lately. Glad that I have you from now on to discuss with and of course Neerja too. I really love reading your guys' takes and learning from them/gaining new perspectives when we don't agree. 😊

I have stopped joining all fun conversations. I join them occasionally but not able to come online when friends are online. So miss those fun moments that we all used to have.

I was into more info serious and analytical discussions. But that could never stop me and my friends from turning a serious thread into a fun one 🤣🤣. Will be more than happy to discuss with you ❤️.

The last line is very important is what I have always felt. We can get to learn when we try to understand other’s perspectives as well. Some people like Nethra Sadiltl, Neeraja, Itelidevara ask questions, answers for some you might already know and some you would be made to think. It is like we all try to find the missing pieces of a puzzle 😀.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: laksh

Wow, I truly agree. I think there has been an ambiguity. Many a times when I say confession, it is not his feelings, it is about the marriage. I want him to mainly clear about their marital status since he made brought in the deal part. Yes, he can confess but I first want him to clear the mess that was created by this deal and I also want him to share about his past with Pakhi.

By saying Sai is not ready for a confession, you mean she won’t be able to understand how he can have feelings for her when he used to love Pakhi, then I agree. I had a just written about this as another reply to Nethra where she has spoken about confession. Going through tags one by one now 🙈.

Yet to read your other reply, but I thought I will give a quick answer on this one.

I too have always wanted him to be open about the details of his past, to tell her clearly that the deal is null-and-void and they should give their marriage a chance - BEFORE he can confess his love. In fact, during Holi confession I was a bit exasperated with Virat - that without coming clean on his past, without breaking the deal, he is going to say "I love you"! Even after so long, he seems to be more keen on confessing than having an open talk about his past as well as his marriage (and no, I don't think his breaking of vada was clearcut - it was the straightest Jalebi he has given till date, that's all😀). So I've kind of given up on him. He just doesn't seem to understand this point. So I'm hoping that the confession will open the floodgates to all these questions from Sai and he will be forced to come clean.

Infact, at some point I even thought makers will show us Virat confessing and Sai rejecting him for these very reasons!

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