Mixed feelings - Page 8

Originally posted by: laksh

Hi Asmi,

Thanks 😊

Just trying to limit my forum visit since the story can getting too annoying sometimes. Though there is no point in cribbing but isn’t this forum a place where we can vent out our frustration on the story or the characters? It is not just a place where I post my stories or I write fun posts. Logic is ghum in this show and even when we want to maintain positivity, the makers leave is with no choice other than complaining. How I wish I can stop myself from watching. I watch hoping they show some improvement and because I started to watch it for Sairat, want to see them in their old form. Even though the makers show some improvement, it looks superficial, they are actually complicating things. We can enjoy it if we turn blind eye to all the dialogues spoken by the leads. They made yesterday’s episode look very nice, but at the same time, there were many flaws. Just because they show it in a cute way, it doesn’t mean that whatever they both spoke wasn’t wrong. This is a place for us to express our views but somehow I feel too apprehensive these days to express my views.

I feel you and have seen you have limited yourself from posting... Sad it is.. but its okay..

Originally posted by: laksh

I think he is also waiting for that. But even before that, Virat might be hoping that things becomes alright between him and Sai. He might be hoping that he will get to know Sai’s feelings for him. If Sai is on his side, pp can burn in jealousy, but it wouldn’t matter at all. They both have to be one team and that by itself can solve this kind of problem. Let’s say Pakhi does something out of jealousy too, Virat doesn’t have to worry about it if they both have confessed their feelings to each other. For that Virat has to confess and he is on a stupid mission to find out what Sai is feeling 🤦‍♀️. Virat also might be hoping that Pakhi will change eventually. We, as viewers know a lot of things about Pakhi but Virat doesn’t, hence he would only be hoping that Pakhi will learn, usko akal aa jayegi kind.

If there is anything that he can change about the situation, it is him talking to Pakhi or her parents about her. He can confess his feelings to Sai, share about Pakhi with her, and then try to make Pakhi to accept his relationship with Sai and if nothing works, talk to her parents, seeking help from them. I don’t think he would do any of these 🤦‍♀️.

I guess you are right, Pakhi actually needs treatment

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I feel you and have seen you have limited yourself from posting... Sad it is.. but its okay..

Because expressing views is understood as being negative or toxic. Not everyone’s views needs to match right? This is my first forum, have felt too good to write and kept enjoying writing more than anything else. They are all fictional characters to me, supporting or criticising those characters is like writing a book review. We watch movies, some can like it and some won’t but that doesn’t mean people who don’t like are wrong. I have written so many stories, many fun posts, have interacted with friends and have had fun, but depending on the tracks, even our mood about the show can vary right? I have supported and defended both the characters, but our support and criticism will vary depending on the track, depending on the storyline. I always cut short some discussions or conversations if they are going in loop because what is the point in repeating certain things, it is only going to be a waste of time and energy.

Are you talking about the Ajinkya jealousy fight episode? If yes, I'm glad someone feels the same as me. I wasn't very convinced with the episode either.

I understand your apprehension and need to withdraw. The story is not evoking that much enthusiasm since some time.

Originally posted by: laksh

Because expressing views is understood as being negative or toxic. Not everyone’s views needs to match right? This is my first forum, have felt too good to write and kept enjoying writing more than anything else. They are all fictional characters to me, supporting or criticising those characters is like writing a book review. We watch movies, some can like it and some won’t but that doesn’t mean people who don’t like are wrong. I have written so many stories, many fun posts, have interacted with friends and have had fun, but depending on the tracks, even our mood about the show can vary right? I have supported and defended both the characters, but our support and criticism will vary depending on the track, depending on the storyline. I always cut short some discussions or conversations if they are going in loop because what is the point in repeating certain things, it is only going to be a waste of time and energy.

I would suggest to keep yourself away when you feel low about it all and also to not let negativity effect you. You can still carry on with whatever you loved doing on the forum, writing stories, having fun and stay away from posts/threads that gets you negative. Toxic is the term I never use for forum and the people here, reason we are all real here.. and those characters are just mere characters.. We can disagree, we can have disbelief over someone's posts/opinion but cannot call each other toxic. I would just say, keep it the way you like and if you think you are wasting your energy here, dont give this or any forum so much importance. Honestly not worth one's peace of mind.

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Hey Laksh ❤️

Are you talking about the Ajinkya jealousy fight episode? If yes, I'm glad someone feels the same as me. I wasn't very convinced with the episode either.

I understand your apprehension and need to withdraw. The story is not evoking that much enthusiasm since some time.

Hi

Good, you feel that way too ❤️.

Yes, have so much to talk about it. I didn’t like many things in the past few episodes. I too enjoyed them but couldn’t ignore certain things.

They don’t know how to stretch the confession but they want to even if it only makes sense to end all the chaos with a confession.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I would suggest to keep yourself away when you feel low about it all and also to not let negativity effect you. You can still carry on with whatever you loved doing on the forum, writing stories, having fun and stay away from posts/threads that gets you negative. Toxic is the term I never use for forum and the people here, reason we are all real here.. and those characters are just mere characters.. We can disagree, we can have disbelief over someone's posts/opinion but cannot call each other toxic. I would just say, keep it the way you like and if you think you are wasting your energy here, dont give this or any forum so much importance. Honestly not worth one's peace of mind.

Exactly, I think the word toxic is being used very casually these days and as you say we are all real people here, only the characters in the show are fictional. When I first entered the forum, I was just writing bindass, absolutely no apprehensions. I would try and understand other’s point of views, have got into discussions and it felt too nice. The way the story is progressing is the problem now. It is not about giving importance to forum or not, even now we can get into discussions but by bearing in mind that almost everyone are having issues only with the makers, the story and the characters. I can’t take any sides honestly, neither Virat nor Sai, because both keep making mistakes and have their own flaws. When one is okay, the other one would do a blunder and vice versa. I am wondering if it is only in Ghum or has it happened in other romantic stories too but I didn’t pay this much if attention because I wasn’t a part of any forum.

Yes just stretching the confession for the heck of it.

Anyway, it was nice to see you online. You bring some positive energy 😀. I suggest you stay away from analysis...that's what pulls one into the whirlpool 😅.

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Yes just stretching the confession for the heck of it.

Anyway, it was nice to see you online. You bring some positive energy 😀. I suggest you stay away from analysis...that's what pulls one into the whirlpool 😅.

Nice to interact with you after a long time. I bring positive energy? Thanks for your kind words. I was staying away thinking people might think otherwise 🙈. The funny part is, I don’t even have to analyse, just by watching it once even if it is just clippings, there are so many observations one can make. It was very obvious and evident, definitely not what we would like to see. They have sugarcoated the whole thing and showed it to us I feel 🤣🤣. I won’t deny that a part of it was really nice. Will catch you in the other thread where sadiltl had tagged me soon 😊.

Originally posted by: laksh

Exactly, I think the word toxic is being used very casually these days and as you say we are all real people here, only the characters in the show are functional. When I first entered the forum, I was just writing bindass, absolutely no apprehensions. I would try and understand other’s point of views, have got into discussions and it felt too nice. The way the story is progressing is the problem now. It is not about giving importance to forum or not, even now we can get into discussions but by bearing in mind that almost everyone are having issues only with the makers, the story and the characters. I can’t take any sides honestly, neither Virat nor Sai, because both keep making mistakes and have their own flaws. When one is okay, the other one would do a blunder and vice versa. I am wondering if it is only in Ghum or has it happened in other romantic stories too but I didn’t pay this much if attention because I wasn’t a part of any forum.

Honestly it happens in all forums.. and to tell you the truth.. this forum is a bit unbiased..you see in the other forums it's just about romance...and the leads could never go wrong.. Here we also have posts justifying Patralekha understanding her.. like nethra said you do bring a lot of perspectives and positive energy here.. 🤗