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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: kankabhor


TBH I don't think it is a big deal. People get married to divorcees who has child form first marriage, Like Kareena got married to Saif. This is a similar thing. If there is understanding, love in your relationship it can be handled maturely.


That depends on the society you live in; the kind of people you interact with. Divorces are more common today than they used to be but they are till a taboo.


The problem with Ahaan here is, he has held high ideals for others and now he himself is falling short of it. He has made a mistake in his perfect world. He is going through a lot of dissonance IMO. I’m pretty sure that he had always thought of himself and his sister as infallible . The power of Daadi’s sanskars always protect him.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: kankabhor

Personally I will have more problme if my partner doesn’t tell me the truth than the kid itself. If two people are in relationship for two years and are about to get married obviously they would have sex. And in some situation it can lead to pregnancy even in genuine case. If abortion is not an option or choice of mother, I will have to respect it.

If I think he is the right partner for me, I wouldn’t leave him only due to pregnancy when it is not cheating and if my partner is truthful.

I am still hoping here that Ahaan is planning to tell the truth. It’s just a day that he got to know and even he doesn’t remember it. He can take soem time to tell ishqi. But yes, he needs to tell her. But as it is show, ishqi will get to know from someone else before Ahaan tells her.

personally I am not so liberal but I get your pov as well


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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: kankabhor

Personally I will have more problme if my partner doesn’t tell me the truth than the kid itself. If two people are in relationship for two years and are about to get married obviously they would have sex. And in some situation it can lead to pregnancy even in genuine case. If abortion is not an option or choice of mother, I will have to respect it.

If I think he is the right partner for me, I wouldn’t leave him only due to pregnancy when it is not cheating and if my partner is truthful.

I am still hoping here that Ahaan is planning to tell the truth. It’s just a day that he got to know and even he doesn’t remember it. He can take soem time to tell ishqi. But yes, he needs to tell her. But as it is show, ishqi will get to know from someone else before Ahaan tells her.


Ahaan had always thought he woke never have sex. He thought, he would have a potted plant in his bedroom after marriage and he will become a proud father 😆


Sanskars don’t allow sex🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose


That depends on the society you live in; the kind of people you interact with. Divorces are more common today than they used to be but they are till a taboo.


The problem with Ahaan here is, he has held high ideals for others and now he himself is falling short of it. He has made a mistake in his perfect world. He is going through a lot of dissonance IMO. I’m pretty sure that he had always thought of himself and his sister as infallible . The power of Daadi’s sanskars always protect him.

maybe that’s the concept of the show, tell people that you should be open to changes and not preach things to others because you are human too and will make mistake sometime in life


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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose


Ahaan had always thought he woke never have sex. He thought, he would have a potted plant in his bedroom after marriage and he will become a proud father 😆


Sanskars don’t allow sex🤣

sanskaars make sex a taboo but want grand kids and great grandchildren asap


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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: kankabhor

Personally I will have more problme if my partner doesn’t tell me the truth than the kid itself. If two people are in relationship for two years and are about to get married obviously they would have sex. And in some situation it can lead to pregnancy even in genuine case. If abortion is not an option or choice of mother, I will have to respect it.

If I think he is the right partner for me, I wouldn’t leave him only due to pregnancy when it is not cheating and if my partner is truthful.

I am still hoping here that Ahaan is planning to tell the truth. It’s just a day that he got to know and even he doesn’t remember it. He can take soem time to tell ishqi. But yes, he needs to tell her. But as it is show, ishqi will get to know from someone else before Ahaan tells her.


These days people will assume there is something wrong if a couple has been together for years and not been physical at all. 😆


Personally, I’m too conservative for pre marital sex but to expect the guy to be a virgin.. might be unrealistic especially if they have been in a long term relationship.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Sone janedo yaar. You guys bring something up and make me stay 😙

bye ab


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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose


Ahaan had always thought he woke never have sex. He thought, he would have a potted plant in his bedroom after marriage and he will become a proud father 😆


Sanskars don’t allow sex🤣

🤣🤣

Ahaan ko existential crisis ho raha ahi. All the principles he held for life are falling apart.


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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: kankabhor

Personally I will have more problme if my partner doesn’t tell me the truth than the kid itself. If two people are in relationship for two years and are about to get married obviously they would have sex. And in some situation it can lead to pregnancy even in genuine case. If abortion is not an option or choice of mother, I will have to respect it.

If I think he is the right partner for me, I wouldn’t leave him only due to pregnancy when it is not cheating and if my partner is truthful.

I am still hoping here that Ahaan is planning to tell the truth. It’s just a day that he got to know and even he doesn’t remember it. He can take soem time to tell ishqi. But yes, he needs to tell her. But as it is show, ishqi will get to know from someone else before Ahaan tells her.


Agree with you. It may be hard to accept and love someone with their past always being in front of you in some form or other but we all come with different baggage in a relationship. It's difficult to accept but it's doable. For me, I wouldn't be bothered if my partner has a past (because that would make me a hypocrite) but I would be bothered if he is not truthful about it when the past comes knocking at our door. As long as he is faithful and mature about what we have at present, everything else can be handled.

I'm genuinely hoping Ahaan gets to tell the truth to Ishqi. Yaar I haven't been getting any revelations the way I want, except for Ishqi's kidnapping incident. Karthik had to clear up the doubts even there by talking to Ishqi. If Ishqi learns everything from everyone else except for Ahaan and they never have face to face confrontations, how will they ever learn to face any storm as a couple?

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Posted: 4 years ago

Ohhh yahan kya kya discuss hogaya itni der mei. I left at 96-97 I guess.

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