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edited- HAPPY july!!!! Wow time flies fast
I guess Today I need to write after a hiatus of 3 days! Hope I was missed..
This might be a long post, I will try and add all four episode analyses here to join the track and understand it better.
Ego, jealousy, insecurity, anger, pride, greed, laziness etc are some of the biggest vices an individual can possess... we aren't perfect for sure, but our journey is to grow and evolve from these vices especially in relationships!
When there are two individuals involved there is usually a clash of opinion and feelings! Feelings are a big thing here, cause and reaction to every issue.... feelings ruin situations as much as they make a situation.... Its true, sometimes you stop your heart from doing a certain thing but you heart odes not stop....
That's what happened here.... LOVE! the heart eventually took over the mind.... the feelings came despite trying to stop it! abh usme koi kuch nahi kar sakta! pyaar hai hi aisi cheez jo insaan ko bandhti bhi hai lekin azadi bhi deti hai!
The struggle to confess and accept one's love always causes an issue..... one isn't ready to understand and realize and one despite knowing is not ready to confess! well this is so common, something always stops us.... but when we do confess it is beautiful!
So we see the insecurity of Virat rise, it is the same that sai has in terms of pakhi! The difference being she has to live with her insecurity under one roof! The issue with virat's insecurity is simple, if sai is to address it there will not be anything to think about! lack of communication creates barriers in a relationship! Monday the conversation was blown out of proportion, both were wrong with their behavior! (there is not much to say here because it was over by the night.... they argue and get over it by the next minute, isme main kya pakadke baithoon, they are over it so am i 🤣)
Family ko invite karne ka bhi reason hai uska, seh craves that attention! see no matter what one is to say she is 19 living for so long with a family, despite the clashes is attached to them because she perhaps sees them as humans who will make mistakes and learn, she wants to be part of their family! she will try her best to gain their affection... (again its an individual choice, she chooses to stay, that is her decision! she doesn't lack the courage to walk out but she wants to stay and make an effort to actually build a family life)
anyway, coming back to sairat..... I love their ability to get over small arguments and not hold grudges, what i want though if for them to communicate better, half their issues will be solved alas if they communicate there won't be drama and the show will not run 🤣
He is trying hard to impress her, he only sees her! Laughs like a child behaves like a child and gets affected like a child..... when one is in love anything that the person you love does or doesn't do affects you a lot!
He isn't insecure perhaps as much as we think, it is more of his inability to confess and the feeling she might never fall in love with him... actions and words differ which confuse a person!
the intention might be right like sai's to give the pendant to kaku but feelings hain na... when feelings are involved one has no control on self....
Sai ki problem hai that she is stubborn and impulsive, what she thinks is right is right and then she doesn't listen, its a teenager trait! I see my sister like that also, perhaps so was I a few years back (not that long ago).... Like any teenager vary of their feelings she is highly confused... she also has no one to guide her like virat has sunny.... Her insecurity has also deepened with his "JAB TAK"... it might not affect her consciously but subconsciously it does... Like virat gets affected when he says i will leave the house.....
Virat when in anger does not think properly, anger takes over his logical functioning. Not sure if anyone read my in-depth post on anger and its effect on our mind during the ousting track but it is true! we make grave mistakes and utter words we don't mean in anger.... gusse main kabhi aisa kuch nahi kehna chahiye which you regret! words said in anger leave an imprint on the other person's mind for a long time....
Her feelings are causing an issue currently! she is behaving like a teenager in love who is not ready to accept her love.... she does not know what to think or say... she feels stuck for sure! In this she tries to gain his attention by trying to make him jealous of ajinkya, subconscious hai yeh bhi.... maine bhi kitna kiya hoga to gain the attention of the guy I liked in school... I was stupid then! should have gone and just told him but nahi, brain stops the heart! Fear of rejection is real!
They are heading from an indifferent relationship to friendship to a platonic relationship to a romantic one not easy for either! both are tube lights, 1 & 2 as I have named them! batti badh main jalti hai inke dimaag ki.... isiliye they are perfect for each other!
She isn't aware of his insecurities, kaise samajh ayega usse, aai says time and again tum kabh samjhogi rishte kaise sambhalte hai... she has never seen a couple co-exist together! For her it was her abba alone with her, he too has perhaps never seen a healthy relationship.... these things affect us in one way or another!
He matters to her A LOT!!! that is why his family and their acceptance matters to her, bolegi nahi but that is what bothers her.... she craves their love no matter how they are... She won't see whether they are criminals or not, jab pyaar hai toh hai... no one can change that opinion.... I am not defending them but I am seeing it as a person who loves unconditionally despite everything the other puts you through! Love is so, it makes you behave this way......
She doesn't get what he wants that is because she herself is not understanding her feelings.... imagine being in her spot having no one to talk to about what is on your mind openly, virat has sunny to fall back on... she too needs a friend an outsider who can guide her!
Family won't help even if they try because either will feel they are siding with the other...
Aaj jo hua inke beech hota hai common hai.... she is indifferent, walls come up and go down as she feels since she isn't understanding her own heart... he, on the other hand, when gets angry loses control on himself....
she did not mean to hurt him nor was he hurt in any manner... he is actually understanding her consistent behavior of not saying what is on her mind... aap toh nahi aayenge- i want you to come, app ko farak nahi padta- I want you to care..... slowly he is trying to understand what she says and does....
Kal when she didn't compliment him he was like hogaya, itna acha nacha but isse farak hi nahi pada... not that she used ajinkya's name, he will never doubt her, he knows she isn't someone to stray or indulge in something like that..... This is just going to cause him to try and impress her more which she will get impressed by!
As always I don't judge a track by a single episode, I wait for the entire track to play out before drawing a conclusion on what they feel.... The build of their emotions is now evident.... she has to understand her own feelings before she can pay attention to his!
I will not comment on the dreaded track, they have removed the fake one here also so I hope they understand what the FD is saying, we have made it loud and clear not once multiple times and will keep doing it!
Sabr karo thodu sa, let the track play out to know why a certain person behaves that way..... it is their story together, yeh sabh hona hi hai inke beech and only through this will they actually grow! These will be instances they will look back on and remember to have helped them grow....
See insecurities will be there till there is security and that happens with time, that is the growth, they are exploring different relationship dynamics and how it affects an individual... I see it done nicely tbh... that is my POV! (not talking about the dreaded track at all, concentrating on what is happening currently)... I find their relationship to be very realistic and hence i relate... I am and will always be a neutral viewer of sairat! not separate but one!
Patience my Forumwasiyon..... Mere main pata nahi kyun par bohot hai especially with sairat and their behavior I have a lottt of patience! I am also positive they will not ruin either of them, they understand the stakes these two hold and they know they are currently running the show! thodu sa faith not on them but on me!
PS- I love mansi and shivni bua, khoob bezzati ki humari pyaari mature susheel dignified didi ki! I think they are trying to bring a balance like we complained at least with the family...
I am super pumped for the college fest, it is going to be superb! this track is light and is not heavy so lets not overthink it!
Also, lets not make it SAI vs. VIRAT, bezzati humari hi hogi phir... sai has chosen virat and virat has chosen sai as their humsafar toh humara kya kehna..... jab miya biwi razi toh kya karega kaazi!
unka relationship hai, why question why she is with him or he is with her... they are fine with it toh hume kya, show dekho aur apna khoon mat jalao.... We have complained a lot, they are reading we need to give a little time to let them fix these issues, change cannot be brought oer night.... Costumes, editing, dialogues (to an extent) have become better so thodu sa patience and faith ( in me if not them) and we can continue to raise our voice nicely!
tubelight 1 and tubelight 2 will be each others ying-yang, jeevan saathi, humsafar jo kehna hai woh, toh karo sairat not sai vs virat!
Much love always ❤️
hope you are all staying safe xx
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