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I am happy that this being noticed. The way she is treated in the house and the way they show Virat getting irritated by the mention of it terming it as a taunt to him..is not a great writing. They really need to understand with the ways of the world right now, if they want their ML to come across positive , they will have to have him address this issue..Other shows on the same channel have subtly or suddenly changed the angle of ML to cater the audience.. There was news on how after lockdown the cases of domestic abuse on well educated women , some even doctors have increased 10 folds , not just in India but in other countries as well.. and these women and men and the family are certainly watching these shows. How would it feel to these women??

Such shows are being watched by people in other countries as well..They need to tone down the toxicity and also make their ML develop some spine..Its not okay for Men to ask women to get out of the house at their whims and fancies and the other members watch it with pride and glee. Enough is ENough!!!

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I am happy that this being noticed. The way she is treated in the house and the way they show Virat getting irritated by the mention of it terming it as a taunt to him..is not a great writing. They really need to understand with the ways of the world right now, if they want their ML to come across positive , they will have to have him address this issue..Other shows on the same channel have subtly or suddenly changed the angle of ML to cater the audience.. There was news on how after lockdown the cases of domestic abuse on well educated women , some even doctors have increased 10 folds , not just in India but in other countries as well.. and these women and men and the family are certainly watching these shows. How would it feel to these women??

Such shows are being watched by people in other countries as well..They need to tone down the toxicity and also make their ML develop some spine..Its not okay for Men to ask women to get out of the house at their whims and fancies and the other members watch it with pride and glee. Enough is ENough!!!

Jo hogaya voh hogaya. The ML kicking Sai out is now done and dusted. Thankfully the earnestness of Virats apology to Sai was written and performed very well by both actors. They tweaked the GC scene compared to original and it turned out MUCH better. So I can let it go now because its behind us.

But they need to write scenes better and treat the same tracks differently. Same scene written/directed with certain changes compared to KD can make ghkkpm stand out. their zillat arena scenes need to be better written. Its fine if its taana, nok jhok but when they cross the line repeatedly and abuse Sai to the point that shes on her knees crying, calling her vile names, abusing her dead parents, etc and they always look unmoved with no guilt, with smug expressions then its just inhumane. So if they show that and then don't even show guilt/apology etc then thats not cool. They need to be careful thay they dont normalize abusive behavior as just manmutaav and regular disagreement due to generation gap/conservative old fashionedness of elders etc.

Thats why i hope that this time we create noise BEFORE the track is shot/aired so that we feel we did our part and makers cant say they didnt get any feedback from audience. We are clearly telling them what we dont want. If they still do whatever they please then I will feel very disheartened as a viewer.

Originally posted by: Nja91

Jo hogaya voh hogaya. The ML kicking Sai out is now done and dusted. Thankfully the earnestness of Virats apology to Sai was written and performed very well by both actors. They tweaked the GC scene compared to original and it turned out MUCH better. So I can let it go now because its behind us.

But they need to write scenes better and treat the same tracks differently. Same scene written/directed with certain changes compared to KD can make ghkkpm stand out. their zillat arena scenes need to be better written. Its fine if its taana, nok jhok but when they cross the line repeatedly and abuse Sai to the point that shes on her knees crying, calling her vile names, abusing her dead parents, etc and they always look unmoved with no guilt, with smug expressions then its just inhumane. So if they show that and then don't even show guilt/apology etc then thats not cool. They need to be careful thay they dont normalize abusive behavior as just manmutaav and regular disagreement due to generation gap/conservative old fashionedness of elders etc.

Thats why i hope that this time we create noise BEFORE the track is shot/aired so that we feel we did our part and makers cant say they didnt get any feedback from audience. We are clearly telling them what we dont want. If they still do whatever they please then I will feel very disheartened as a viewer.

I talked about Ninad and Ashwini today.. not Virat and Sai.. In general such dialogues cannot be normalised in the name of drama and ITV. Also I dont like when Virat calls Sai out as taana mat maaro ya adjust karo , when she talks about the torture she endures..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I talked about Ninad and Ashwini today.. not Virat and Sai.. In general such dialogues cannot be normalised in the name of drama and ITV. Also I dont like when Virat calls Sai out as taana mat maaro ya adjust karo , when she talks about the torture she endures..

The way Ninad talks to Ashwini is appalling. He had no respect or regard. Even after all these years and her age, in front of the youngsters of the house he talks about not going to stop her if she leaves, being ok with it, telling her she has no brains, that she should be happy he is not forcing her to stay back. Which ex army officer speaks with such callousness. Ugh. Its incredibly sad that even shivani and mohit didnt tell him to mind his tone.

And yes, they need to write ML dislogues better. Telling her to adjust when shes letting him know they hate her and dont even regard her as a person worth talking to is not ok.

Originally posted by: Nja91

The way Ninad talks to Ashwini is appalling. He had no respect or regard. Even after all these years and her age, in front of the youngsters of the house he talks about not going to stop her if she leaves, being ok with it, telling her she has no brains, that she should be happy he is not forcing her to stay back. Which ex army officer speaks with such callousness. Ugh. Its incredibly sad that even shivani and mohit didnt tell him to mind his tone.

It would be good to see Ashwini leave and Ninad learn a good bitter lesson! Even Omi for that matter and Sonali also need to learn to behave civil, Shivani but was good today but it would be nicer if she would have continued to bash Sonali for a couple of minutes longer.. in totality they need to tone down the intensity of the dialogues of the bk gang!

I hope they change the suicide track but tbh I’m not convinced they will. But that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t try.

Completely agree that there must be so many people going through these vile atrocities…why not set good examples and help these people.

The vile way Sai is treated at CN is 😢 if I ever see anyone in that position I hope I step u to help💕

Yes drama increases TRPs but personally I’m skipping all the toxicity and some episodes they are too cruel.

I have come across more toxic drama. But this one is going overboard without being addressed. Which is very very disappointing.For example Ashwini's matter no one seems to care much what she is enduring. Glad at least Sai snapped.But next day she is inviting Ninad for her fest as so called family members. Does this make sense 😕.She is giving so much undue respect to those who don't deserve a bit. 😲

Fans should keep protesting for upcoming dreaded track. At this dire situation showing such staff would be very cruel by the channel and PH.🤢

Originally posted by: Shaome

I have come across more toxic drama. But this one is going overboard without being addressed. Which is very very disappointing.For example Ashwini's matter no one seems to care much what she is enduring. Glad at least Sai snapped.But next day she is inviting Ninad for her fest as so called family members. Does this make sense 😕.She is giving so much undue respect to those who don't deserve a bit. 😲

Fans should keep protesting for upcoming dreaded track. At this dire situation showing such staff would be very cruel by the channel and PH.🤢

That's the problem ..they are not addressing the toxicity at all..

Originally posted by: Nja91

The makers need to realize that they have some social responsibility. The show is for entertainment. Yes, they cant show only happy stuff all the time but if they cant handle serious/sensitive issues innan appropriate manner, they shouldn't bother! Just steer clear. If despite this noise they go ahead show suicide track n show zillat scenes that cross the line, i will feel very letdown. It'll tell me they are not listening.

I think we should keep the pressure on no suicide track up for some more time so makers don't forget. Theres college track this werk, sais birthday next week n only then "suicide" in KD. So we should do this SM trend thing at same time at least one more time.

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completely agree with you !!

Originally posted by: Shaome

I have come across more toxic drama. But this one is going overboard without being addressed. Which is very very disappointing.For example Ashwini's matter no one seems to care much what she is enduring. Glad at least Sai snapped.But next day she is inviting Ninad for her fest as so called family members. Does this make sense 😕.She is giving so much undue respect to those who don't deserve a bit. 😲

Fans should keep protesting for upcoming dreaded track. At this dire situation showing such staff would be very cruel by the channel and PH.🤢

With the current covid world,they should be very careful about what they are showing on prime time on tv. Same pinch did not like the way sai challenged the chakrams to come to her fest. Those who does not even treat or respect her as a human being, and she is giving them more importance than her own husband just to get their approval is underwhelming at all costs. Less said about KBA the better, since mirchi scene,hate for her bakwas went roof top day by day.