Originally posted by: janecastle
Virat has seen these things happen with his mother for years. Despite the horrible way Chavans behave with her, Ashwini still stuck on to CN. So may be he is not understanding the intensity of these taunts or the effect it has on a person. May be he is not fully understanding things because he was never subject to such verbal abuse everyday. Ashwini should have taken an initiative to make him see the pain she went through for years. I am not saying Virat is completely blameless in letting go off his family's behavior, but may be this is a reason to it.
I believe he was in the delusion that Ashwini is happy ..and he held his father really high if you see the initial episodes. But recently he came to know she has been supressed. But then they dont let that character grow.. He has seen his mother being vocal about it...But then that just happens in one episode, thankfully Neil portrays the guilt or shock well so we know he is shocked. But next day we are back to pavilion with respect to his understanding of the abuse or the intensity of it... Ashwini has been a person who came from a poor family and accepted her fate and yet tried to keep her son and other children away from her miseries.. Adjusted and accepted becoming the second person in her husband's & son's life...However the son is a sweetheart and loves her a lot in general.. There is certainly a communication gap where both Ashwini and Virat have failed to understand each other in their quest of protecting each other from the truth, have not communicated much about their hurt.
Virat really likes to be in a bubble of big happy joint family so he lets things go till they can be evaded. The problem is he is not realising how venomous that family is towards his wife's mental health...
But I am sure he has not seen her breaking down the way she did in morning...if he was there he would not have let them go to that extent.. The only problem is he is not realising they have the tendency to go to that extent in his absence and Sai is breaking and she will not let him know as well..because it will come back to her the next day in his absence again...He might have to use his intelligence of understanding without any bias of belonging to that family. He believes Sai can handle and she does it quite many times, so he stays out of it. However does not realise that its affecting her mentally.
PS: My thoughts are all scattered here.. Havent watched the episode since Tuesday..Aslo I am in a hurry..Work calls 🤓 My writeup based on what I have seen before and also the WUs. I hope I made some sense here.
Edited by asmi_joya - 4 years ago