Shouldn’t virat n Sai go n see his nana Nani - Page 2

You are right but I think Bhavani never let Aswini’s parents get due respect and position they deserve. Ninad Ofcourse is useless and may be they kept Virat also away from his maternal grandparents . That is why we never see him worried for his naana or naani. Aswini never tried to take Sai to them or asked Virat to introduce her to them. Proves the point that Bhavani and Ninad might have been the reason for this otherwise maternal grandparents are equally important and in some families they will have a closer bonding with grandchildren.

This is the biggest problem with the show, they do not close the loop. It doesn't have to be a full blown scene, like was mentioned, just a simple phone call or a quick discussion about it will do but no, we get the same dialogues, same expressions and food!

Normal show hote to jate per yeh Ghum hai janha kuch bhi normal nehi hai

Originally posted by: sadiltl

I second you! Not sure what they wanted to show :( there was a disconnect yesterday but today it felt like the saree kaand is to make sai vulnerable to make the decision of giving away the pendant gift. It would have been nice if the dialogues were better to convey this rather than showing sai falling behind pakhi! I still don’t get why sai had to give away the rights … may be they will play this out in future but for now it looked stupid 🙃

To be very honest, though I am joking or trolling or talking about Sairat scenes, I am actually not happy with the way the story is heading. I watched the previous two episodes but not yesterday's. I watched a few clippings on Insta. I have not even been able to move on from the confrontation episodes when Sai was humiliated or when she was harassed during the recent saree drama. Even if Sai gives up her rights I am okay, I would prefer her to walk out of the house than all this that they are showing.

Basically they are trying to show that Sai wants to get rid of this jhanjhat, this torture. It is more like saying leave me alone but she has also not left not knowing how to tell Virat about it, how to end their relationship, if she can even end it, what do they share, what are his expectations from her, what will be his reaction if she says she wants to leave the house and also subconsciously she wants to stay close to Virat. All of these thoughts are not letting her move out even if that is the most logical thing to do. Virat had just stopped her from leaving the house, she even then told him that she will leave one day. She is trying to convince herself that this is the arrangement or the agreement they had made, so she will stay here for now. She will wholeheartedly consider herself as his wife if he clears the misunderstanding, if that is clear, she wouldn't give up on the rights like she did yesterday. As per her, what they are having is some kind of an arrangement (though she wants herself to mean something in his life) hence she has said she will give up on the very little rights that she has as his wife so that they stop troubling her, so that they live in peace and also let her live in peace. She knows her being his wife is the biggest problem for Pakhi and Pakhi is the one who is provoking the family against her.

In all these things, I feel giving away the pendant is nothing. All she wants is her to be his wife, when she can give that up so that they can live in peace also let her live in peace, these are materialistic things. Also, we need to watch the scene to understand why she gives it away. Have to wait for tomorrow's episode. I have still shared what I thought must be the reason.

See sometimes it happens when a wife sees the mother of a husband hurt or when the mother feels ignored or not given attention because the son didn't think of buying them such a gift ever before, the daughter in law would give that away to the mother in law. It is like giving the mother what she deserves, like honouring her husband's mother, not seeing her hurt or disappointed. In this case, she knows how important Kaku is to Virat, if Kaku is hurt by Virat's action, Sai will try to set it right by making her feel better. It is like she is trying to correct what he has done. Ideally he should have got somethig for them and if they say he never got them anything before, she will feel even more bad and to try to stop them from getting diaappointrd with Virat, she can give it away. They have more rights than her is what she will think. Also, their marriage, the marital status is always a big question to her, so she can't even do anything haq se. When a normal wife would do, no wonder Sai does it. It is not to make Kaku get happy with her or so that she stops troubling her, it is to make Kaku, the mother of Virat happy, happy with Virat too because ultimately she gets what her son had bought. I am not sure if I could convey what I wanted to.

Last para is superbly analyzed. I agree!

She is super confused!! I just hope virat tries to understand when she blurts out something in this confusion. She is super frustrated and also can’t leave the place now that virat stopped her. At the same she doesn’t know why she should stay in what capacity ? I feel her agony.

You have worded her frustration so nicely !! 👏

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Last para is superbly analyzed. I agree!

She is super confused!! I just hope virat tries to understand when she blurts out something in this confusion. She is super frustrated and also can’t leave the place now that virat stopped her. At the same she doesn’t know why she should stay in what capacity ? I feel her agony.

You have worded her frustration so nicely !! 👏

Thanks, I think you have worded it too well ❤.

It is natural for him to get hurt too when she gives that to Kaku because he wouldn't have got a full picture. I think Sunny would have given him a good advice and that is why the precap. I really hope they continue to show something like what they showed today. They can give us some good episodes but they are probably being lazy switching back to copy pasting tracks. I don't mind watching Pakhi's story. In fact I would like to watch her redemption track. They could work on that than copy pasting and making Pakhi even more evil than what she already is. It would become impossible for us to see her with Samrat if they don't show her redemption.

Oscar Didi is the lead of the show.. Every scene..every thought of every one on screen should revolve around her..

This is not a character flaw per se, Sai and Virat both are very caring by nature.. This is a writing flaw from the writers of the show..These writers are so damn lazy...to work on that aspect. Virat and Sai both as characters would want to be with their Aayi when she is facing hardships with respect to her parents. We all do that with our parents. They ignore all these traits in their busy schedule of copying and when the actor wants to take a leave they bring up these random scenarios which does not actually go well with the characters as well..

Whenever actor playing Ashwini takes a leave they come up with parents not well part.. Thats why Ashwini was probably not there in Ayesha's birthday celebrations..

Virat Himself should take the initiative...

Sending Sai & Virat somewhere else means keeping them away from Didi and her constant chowkidari. How dare you ask something like that. Don't you know everything should revolve her mahaan Pakhi Devi and her mood swings. Doing something sensible, away from toxic family is completely unacceptable in Ghum land.

Now as they are back in Mumbai, they can show some outing scenes which can be shot in film city. Something refreshing from the toxic Chavan Niwas. They can create so many simple scenes need not be romantic normal sa scenes. Patha nahi in logon ga creativity kaha Jatha hai.