Us vs the world.... Analysis of 25 June episode 228!

Hellooooo!!!!!

kitna pyara episode tha! so happy with it, actually i am always generally happy, positive and patient when it comes to the shoe especially sairat.....

Anyway, let me jump into the anaylsis!

Chaahe sau gardishein ho
Par koi bair nahi
Hum duniya se lad lenge
Par tere bagair nahi…

even if there are a hundred problems, but it still doesn't matter

I'll fight with the world, but not without you

Dil se sun piya ye dil ki daastan
Jo lafzon mein nahi ho bayaan

listen to the story of my heart from your heart

as it can't be expressed in words

Humsafar humraaz tu
Jism main aur saans tu
Rehna mere paas tu yun sada

you're my companion and my soulmate

i'm the body and you're the breath

always stay close to me

Duniya se ladd jayenge par tere bagair nahi......

hayee, these lines suit SAIRAT so well! I am actually out of words today... zyada kuch bolne ko hai hi nahi, in awe of their progression....

Pyaar ho toh aisa ho, jahan parvah hai, umeed hai, bharosa hai, aur abhi kabar takrar bhi hai.....

Sai and Virat two people who are poles apart balance each other like ying and yang ☯️

the happiness she got when he gifted her the pendant, he remembers the details about her, her wishes, desires, dreams, happiness all matters to him! he cannot see her sad or in pain, he makes efforts to see her happy... Today, she takes precedence over everyone in his life! He has put her at the top of his priority list and his heart, so he does everything only for her!

Sai on the other hand, despite doing the same is also keeping the family as a priority... She can fight with them but she wants to stay with him forever and wants to be accepted by the family.... She shows time and again who she really is! Apologizing to pakhi cause she is hungry, giving the gift to kaku openly without any malal, shows her goodness! She could have been selfish and kept it but that is not sai.. she cares a lot about others despite whatever they do to her! she has not been raised to do bad, she will only do good for others! Even at that moment, she thinks about the family, she also does not want another issue at home with the family taunting her for the change in virat and says it out loud!

The ability the two have to share and be honest with one another is what builds a strong relationship... She is open to him about what happens and how she is taunted without defaming anyone and he also openly tells her what happened behind her back and how he handled it making his wishes clear....

The ability the two have to care about others is heartwarming....

Today virat clearly says to sai, why do you care if pakhi has eaten or not, when she eats waht she eats, we are not her parents and she is grown up enough to eat when she is hungry.. she does not need to be childish and he is right, he sees through what she is doing.. playing the sympathy card and victim to show others...

It is actually a big thing when someone in the family is not eating food... How many times in my anger i have said no i will not eat and my mom or my dad will bring a plate of food and do everything they can to make me eat, food it actually a way to show care and concern, an unspoken language of love! Who better to understand this than a chef!!!

They joke and share matters in a light hearted way with one another, they have grown! he wants to make her apart of every decision in his life...

"Chahe dukh ho, chahe sukh ho Dil ne tujhko hi pukara Toone hamko hai banaya Toone hamko hai sanvara Jahan ko Rab ka hai Hamein tera hai sahara Bas tera sath ho, chahe jo baat ho Tere kehne se kar jayenge."

In every step of life for better and for worse, they want to be each other's companions!

Today I understood the reason for Sai's breakdown infront of the family.... she felt empty without him! her worry for him overpowered her emotions leading to her breakdown! it is so common, we feel something and generally, an issue that might not affect us makes us break down because subconsciously we are thinking about something else that is bothering us! Some might not agree and will say no she is being abused, perhaps, but she is in love and love is like that... you don't see anything but the person you love.. why should she leave? she loves the man, he loves her... there will be hurdles on the way but aren't there for everyone, are we all not flawed! those flaws make us human and beautiful, i have said so many times SAIRAT are not characters, they are more human, there is no perfection with them they are as flawed as you and me! Why do you think we are so attached to the two?

The family is perhaps not the ideal family to live in, I am not defending their actions but that does not mean that you give up on love! Love has the ability to overcome any hurdle and they also do... He has never forced her for anything, never.... he respects her wishes, she wants to be with him... that smile she gave when he stopped her, the relief she got said everything!

she is hiding behind her words cause she is not aware of her love! Mujhe virat sir ke bina itna khali mehsoos kyun huaa aur abh mujhe aacha lag raha hai, isiliye kya kyunki mujhe unki adat hogayi hai..... these are her words today! she missed him even though he was gone just for a day... that is love!

She is also concerned about others. who is a good human being? the one who cares or the one who does not. Sai does not let injustice happen yet she cannot do any herself! she felt pakhi did not eat because of her and she worried about her health, she wanted her to eat and not get ill.... just because someone hates you, you should not stoop to their level and prove them right!

By calling her father and explaining she showed how much she cares... pakhi is blind not to see her goodness... she thought it was virat but I am glad shailesh told her it was sai who informed him... Shailesh was grateful to sai that despite the taunts and insults she got by his wife and daughter, sai cared about pkahi....

koi apki parvah kare toh accha lagta hai!

The latter bit of the episode also showed the dynamics of relationships....

on one hand we have a husband who is abusive to his wife- niand and aai

on the other hand we have a husband who is supportive of his wife- virat and sai

the difference in the two dynamics is interesting... aai never changed despite the abuse, she did not let her goodness be overshadowed by her husbands abuse, this shows in the upbringing of virat...

Today virat says to his wife, you are not alone, i am here for you and whenever you need me I will jump in. I am standing by your side....

Sai knows that, she does need him to fight her battles, she can do it herself, and he does support her! I loved yesterday when sai said virat sir SAI ka nahi SAHI ka saath dete hai... She knows the man has a clear heart, he makes mistakes but he is human and also rectifies it.... we all get influenced in the moment of anger, act unlike ourselves but to realize and rectify it is what makes us a good person...

Virat apologizes for the mistake made. He knows sai was not at fault, she asked him and he did not see that this would be an issue, she has never lived in a joint family and does not know how the dynamics worked, so she asked her husband and he was confident that all this would not be an issue.. He understood his mistake and apologizes for going against the rule of the family, but also spoke about it not being such a big issue... He was right and hence no one said anything to him.... now tell me if virat said the exact same things in anger would the situation not escalate! that is the difference between sairat and others... they don't provoke or fight until provoked, they are peacemakers who will join a family not break one...

Call me old school but I believe in joining a family rather than breaking one.... I can forgive someone if they are willing to change and make efforts, we are all imperfect and will make mistakes... Family is so important and someone like Sai who has none understands the importance of family....

Pakhi asks sai how does she know what virat thinks or feels, virat says ofcourse she understands me as she is my wife... sai continues that they both are open and honest with one another no matter how bitter the truth is, they share everything, knowing it can hurt the other but they let it out, and move on, they don't bottle it up and when they do it turns into their frustration which leads to the breakdowns they have...

Living in the same room, observing each other, talking, sitting in silence all adds to the build of a relationship. Your comfort with an individual is shown when you can sit with them in silence in the comfort of their peace....

that is Sairat... flawed yet beautiful! they are beautifully written, layers added to each, and now it is even more interesting since they are in love.. Love has the ability to change anyone, it does!!!

Sai giving away the pendant to kaku shows her love for the family regardless of their behavior, she wants to be accepted to live with them because her husband the love of her life's world revolves around his family... she knows the way to his heart is through his family and hence always tries to join his family rather than break it.... yet she will not leave her self respect and dreams!

For virat today his wife matters more than anyone, he keeps her on the pedestal hence only she has the ability to break him or make him act impulsively!

They are each others extremes, bringing the best and the worst out in one another!

I had told Roch yesterday that Virat will feel bad when she gives the pendant but will actually understand (hi sunny) and will go and bring the pendant back for her.... I knew he would see her POV and try to know why she did what she did... only then would he take his step... he was hurt but sunny helps him and explains (how we will see) and he brings it back to her! But banda is also jealous when it comes to his baiko so her talking to some other guy especially someone her age will affect him... when she says yaar, he repeats yaar... she will never call him yaar, even though they might be friends the age between them will never let sai say yaar to him, she will always address him as aap! That will make humara jal kukad virat act in ways to gain her attention and show he is also capable of being like those guys!

He's a man and men get so jealous when their wife speaks lovingly to another man, for virat wants sai's undivided attention towards him and no one else! It is super cute.... all this is not in a bad way it is a good way of jealousy, and I want to see how they address this aspect of a realtionship!

As I always say they have built two beautiful and realistic characters in sai and virat, hence we relate to them so much more!

I will say again, we need to let the tracks unfold and not judge on a precap, promo or a single episode.... there is always a reason for someone to behave in that manner.

Again these are my opinions and POV! I will always look at the bright side in every situation no matter how bad it is... Feel free to agree to disagree, I will not mind!

(positivity, faith and patience goes a long way)

much love ❤️

stay safe xx