Raghav is clear with his Feelings he just accepted the marriage wanted to give all te rights at the same time he don't want to force Pallavi as u mention above
he feels he is not worth of it. 
He feels so as all the questions from him to pallavi got only silence as answer from her side...
Today episode the way he asked not to keep vrat for society pressure this is what I expected from.him and he said so..
This quality of him makes him more special and pallavi is falling for this only. 
When Pallavi said why can't she keep vrat on force. And she got amma in saying amma nae kaha that if i feel for u genuinely keep vrat
So he was curious to know abt her feelings towards him.
Again he got silence as answer but her silence said that she indeed had feeling this time. As she clearly said i will keep vrat only if i have feelings.
So Pallavi is the one who started to accept the feelings and she is taking lead...and wanted to convey it to him at any cost. 
Raghav is now hiding his feelings.
But not for longer period of time.
Today's RaghVi scene gave more insight abt their feelings to each other
The way Pallavi went to her room and tried that saree on her adoring her mangalsutra so beautiful she stated accepting herself as suhagan of Raghav Rao. 