Originally posted by: MistyDawn
@bold - do you see that happening without any trigger, need, incentive or urgency/emergency? They should have more of those pool side heart to heart conversations or like the one they had over a cup of coffee when he genuinely seemed interested to know about her. Pallavi kya chahti hai?
Agree. The circumstances under which they got married, don't exactly blame either of them for not being in sync yet.. its gonna take time and I want all the upcoming tracks to work on that aspect and have that one common underlying outcome..with each challenge/MU coming their way they should get to know each other better..
Yes ..very interested in knowing her past especially the identity of the man who died before her wedding..it seems like the makers have worked on a nice plot for the two that is entwined and hence more intriguing.. In response to what you said earlier, I don't think either of them have dwelled in their past.. Amma did and forced her children to do the same but they still came out strong and made a life for themselves.. same goes for Pallavi.. she never let the orphan or widow label be a stigma or a way to get people's sympathy.. but for them as life partners, its important that no chapter is hidden.. they should be like khuli kitaab for each other, good and bad chapters alike..
I would prefer that the conversation about Pallavi's past happen organically between them because he suddenly catches her lost in thought or she has a slip up about her past during a regular conversation, like last time. Knowing the penchant for drama, it is most likely going to be more of an in-your-face trigger that does it, though. 
I am quite sure that through their experiences in upcoming tracks there will not just be character building but also destruction of defense mechanisms, preconceived notions, and just general attitude towards life on both Raghav and Pallavi's side. Stripping away all the layers is the only way they can see each other's true selves. I believe the way a person reacts during crises tells you what they are made of, and these two have to face one that threatens to disrupt their lives now that they seem to be at this status quo.
I was always worried that when Raghav's past would be revealed it would either be too melodramatic or underwhelming (sorry, burnt too many times by ITV), but they surprised me by delivering it just right. The simplicity of the scene, devoid of cinematic props really helped, as did the straightforward dialogues and display of emotions by both Raghav and Pallavi. Most importantly, Raghav's back story seemed believable and relatable, i.e. I could totally understand why such an incident had made him the Raghav Rao he is today. This is what gives me hope that when it comes to Pallavi's past, we will get something truly worthwhile and not contrived, something that has the capacity to blow our minds but that can also be relatable. I don't mean just with Mandaar but overall.
Pallavi seems so sorted, so mature, and strong, but what made her this way? Had she always been like this since childhood or did she have to learn some hard lessons that shaped her? Raghav initially felt insecure about telling Pallavi about his past and feared that she might hate him after that. Will she feel the same way, that he might look at her differently? Or will she proudly wear her battle scars and display them when the time comes? Will Raghav be strong enough to see her fall apart and be there for her when she needs him most, putting aside his own emotions and challenges? That's what I'm eager to watch.