Originally posted by: Transference
I can't wait for them to go back to their storeroom and keep building into each other đ
Shiva deciding on to make it squeaky clean because his Phoolkumari has allergies đ¤Ł
Waise, did you guys notice that perhaps Shiva is the most domesticated husband of all the three married brothers right from the moment he got married?
1. He carried her luggage to their room stuffing all Dev gifts đ
2. He also packed her luggage for Kuldevi Trip while she had fallen asleep.
3. Log Cutting
4. Cooking me in help
Etc. So much for hating her đ
These are just Shiva Raavi things đ¤Łđ¤Łđ¤Ł
I think that is the beauty of the character even in the OG. I think the message is kind of that (young, naive) girls generally get carried away with the idea of romance and charming heroes. They fantasize about dinner dates and hand holdings and what not⌠which probably constitutes about 1% of life.
They never think about the rest of the time- when they have to work at home or outside, when all the responsibilities come crashing down, and in many cases they have to fend for themselves. Not many fantasize about boyfriends or husbands helping with house chores⌠it is something trivial- not very thrilling or exhilarating.
But there is something very soothing and beautiful about a caring partner who silently lifts some(or all) of your burdens away. That is Raaviâs character growth- to understand that there are different kinds of love- not just what is shown in Bollywood. Shiva loves her in his own âunromanticâ way.
This is a trope as old as time btw⌠any Mouna Raagam fans in the forum? đ
Also, I have noticed in a couple of shows lately⌠ITV has made âzimmedariâ into some sort of a swear word. Itâs like you should stay with your partner only if you are fully completely in love with them, otherwise your marriage is a sham⌠what BS. As others have mentioned in the thread, loves comes much later in the marriage in many cases. And sometimes love waxes and wanes⌠you fall in and out of love with your partner.
Taking responsibility of someone and following through with it is so powerful- not everyone can do it. Thatâs why we love to hate on Dev. He couldnât take responsibility of Raavi or Rishitha. Rishitha ended up sticking up for him despite everything.
yâall have caught me in the middle of a mood swing. I promise after this mood swing is over I will become accha baccha and only silently stalk the forum đ