Why virat shouted on sunny on mentioning sai virat love? - Page 2

Originally posted by: SonuRani

May be you are right but same respect should get to his wife. Why can't fight for his wife respect her emotions . Sai also emotionally weak why can't he see that.

All these sai is just 19 th no one addresses her age everyone treated her like emotionally mentally and in understanding she should be strong than these two. Why expectations only from 19yrs old girl to behave like she is 28-30 and who are 28-30. Behaving like 19 th and she should understand them .

when did he not give respect to his wife? He let her fight her own battles. From the day one! If you go back and check the episode where he brings her home and she overhears his conversation with pakhi, he tells her not to just receive the crap thrown at her by his family. He tells her to fight for herself and never went back on it! He reprimands her if she goes overboard just like a good friend or any spouse does!

Again Him being soft with pakhi doesn’t wash away what he did for sai. I remember his support when he stood by her several times especially for her dreams. He was a true partner supporting her dreams and a true companion who lets her fly. He is not accountable for his family’s bickerings on sai. End of the day it doesn’t matter to both of them. What matters is their life and their dreams, rest are compromises and Brit brats of family life.

Having said that I am not trivializing his ousting of sai in the middle of the night. It is a blunder that came out of a misunderstanding. He identified it and apologized. Virat loses himself in emotions and particularly with sai because what he feels for sai is different from what he shares with others. So the responses to her are also different. And him being experiencing them probably for the first time could push him off the cliff. If it is not repetitive and doesn’t become characteristic of him as they grow then it can be forgiven. 👍🏼

@bold (spoilers)

If you meant her feelings towards him? He is still understanding that part right? He is going to falter again and will be pushing her towards giving up her life. But what can you say about people doing stuff under emotions? 😭 They have to learn, forgive and move on in love. A mistake is a mistake. whether you forgive your husband or not is upto the wife. Sai forgives him. Some might not. Both are valid responses. We can’t judge but just watch and enjoy the ride!

PS: Whatever big events happened in the family like mohit, Shivani bua and Devi tai, virat supported her, which matter the most and also which made him fall for her. Rest of them like Alta, and other petty stuff he let her fight. Even if we come down to kitchen politics, I remember him once asking her to not cook if it is affecting her studies!

Originally posted by: hedwig_potter

If you watch the scene in its entirety, right from the minute Pakhi came inside the room, I felt Virat was feeling like Pakhi is invading his privacy.

He didn't like his private matters (whether his wife loves him, whether he loves her) being discussed in front of her because he knows she will find some way to use it as ammunition.

Just my opinion of course

I see, why did the private person then request her bhabhi to stay back when she was going away. He knows she is pursuing him yet he wants her near him in Samrat’s absence. If she was invading the privacy why did he stop her?

He doesn’t like private matters discussed infront of her? Le he went and told her about his deal and his relation with sai. That was not personal? He did it all. Aur kamal hai abhi bhi usko galat signal de rahi hai. Kya pata uska intentions kya hai

Originally posted by: sadiltl

when did he not give respect to his wife? He let her fight her own battles. From the day one! If you go back and check the episode where he brings her home and she overhears his conversation with pakhi, he tells her not to just receive the crap thrown at her by his family. He tells her to fight for herself and never went back on it! He reprimands her if she goes overboard just like a good friend or any spouse does!

Again Him being soft with pakhi doesn’t wash away what he did for sai. I remember his support when he stood by her several times especially for her dreams. He was a true partner supporting her dreams and a true companion who lets her fly. He is not accountable for his family’s bickerings on sai. End of the day it doesn’t matter to both of them. What matters is their life and their dreams, rest are compromises and Brit brats of family life.

Having said that I am not trivializing his ousting of sai in the middle of the night. It is a blunder that came out of a misunderstanding. He identified it and apologized. Virat loses himself in emotions and particularly with sai because what he feels for sai is different from what he shares with others. So the responses to her are also different. And him being experiencing them probably for the first time could push him off the cliff. If it is not repetitive and doesn’t become characteristic of him as they grow then it can be forgiven. 👍🏼

@bold (spoilers)

If you meant her feelings towards him? He is still understanding that part right? He is going to falter again and will be pushing her towards giving up her life. But what can you say about people doing stuff under emotions? 😭 They have to learn, forgive and move on in love. A mistake is a mistake. whether you forgive your husband or not is upto the wife. Sai forgives him. Some might not. Both are valid responses. We can’t judge but just watch and enjoy the ride!

PS: Whatever big events happened in the family like mohit, Shivani bua and Devi tai, virat supported her, which matter the most and also which made him fall for her. Rest of them like Alta, and other petty stuff he let her fight. Even if we come down to kitchen politics, I remember him once asking her to not cook if it is affecting her studies!

Simple.... usko dono hathon me laddoo chahiye,, wo pakhi ko bhi hint de rha hai aur sai ki feelings bhi janna hai... he wants both as kaku nd elders have no problem with their past relationship😡😡

Originally posted by: sadiltl

when did he not give respect to his wife? He let her fight her own battles. From the day one! If you go back and check the episode where he brings her home and she overhears his conversation with pakhi, he tells her not to just receive the crap thrown at her by his family. He tells her to fight for herself and never went back on it! He reprimands her if she goes overboard just like a good friend or any spouse does!

Again Him being soft with pakhi doesn’t wash away what he did for sai. I remember his support when he stood by her several times especially for her dreams. He was a true partner supporting her dreams and a true companion who lets her fly. He is not accountable for his family’s bickerings on sai. End of the day it doesn’t matter to both of them. What matters is their life and their dreams, rest are compromises and Brit brats of family life.

Having said that I am not trivializing his ousting of sai in the middle of the night. It is a blunder that came out of a misunderstanding. He identified it and apologized. Virat loses himself in emotions and particularly with sai because what he feels for sai is different from what he shares with others. So the responses to her are also different. And him being experiencing them probably for the first time could push him off the cliff. If it is not repetitive and doesn’t become characteristic of him as they grow then it can be forgiven. 👍🏼

@bold (spoilers)

If you meant her feelings towards him? He is still understanding that part right? He is going to falter again and will be pushing her towards giving up her life. But what can you say about people doing stuff under emotions? 😭 They have to learn, forgive and move on in love. A mistake is a mistake. whether you forgive your husband or not is upto the wife. Sai forgives him. Some might not. Both are valid responses. We can’t judge but just watch and enjoy the ride!

PS: Whatever big events happened in the family like mohit, Shivani bua and Devi tai, virat supported her, which matter the most and also which made him fall for her. Rest of them like Alta, and other petty stuff he let her fight. Even if we come down to kitchen politics, I remember him once asking her to not cook if it is affecting her studies!

@bold.... when one live in a joint family or with inlaws it is a duty of husband to ensure the bride or his wife to get due respect from his family same like they want same from DIL to respect them,,,, we have seen virat asking sai many times to respect his family’s as they are dil ke ache gahr wale per zaban ke kadwe.... except two three times mostly virat stand there mute nd watch his kaku nd baba insulting sai,, yes he let sai fight her battle but in between that battle time to time he school her to behave nicely with his ghar wale especially with pakhi,,,

I will not talk about past episodes he supported her or not because that time the marriage was a deal nd he had no feelings for her but what happened last week is making us bash virat is because now he is in love with sai.. sai loves him back or not is not the question coz when u fall in love with someone it’s not necessary that they will love you back,,, not stopping his ex from calling his wife nurse is most disrespecting things from husband side,,, didn’t stop kaku nd ex again when they were talking bad about sai in his room after fight there also he was mute,, he let her fight her battle but say sorry to his ex on behalf of his wife for that fight which was not at all initiated by sai,,, last week he was spineless!!

@blue... calling it blunder out of misunderstanding??? Really... if speaking sai’s action of marrying off devi all by herself a bad things ( didn’t support sai’s action here) then have guts to accept that you threw her out at midnight... but virat is again n again complaining it as sai left me.. really?? Sai left you virat or it was you who threw her out at midnight..?? He can not say truth to himself he is such a spineless ML that can not accept his wrong doings but always ready to show sai’s mistake nd blame her but not accept his mistake😡

Originally posted by: Rose-13

Simple.... usko dono hathon me laddoo chahiye,, wo pakhi ko bhi hint de rha hai aur sai ki feelings bhi janna hai... he wants both as kaku nd elders have no problem with their past relationship😡😡

That's biggest problem ( not easy to like this character as ML) .... he wants to please both.... wants sai with him and pp's attention, too 💔

Otherwise he would have said what sunny had to say..... he would clarify that she broke that relation (if it was ever there !) when she got agreed to marry samrat (or anyone else) before she knew he is virat's bro.....

I think Virat only rebukes Pakhi when they are alone. In front of other people, he has an obligation to be mindful of the fact that Pakhi is his sister in law, the wife of his favourite brother. If he says anything incriminating against her in front of his family or anyone else(at this point, he doesn't know that Samrat is aware of the truth), it will cause irreversible damage, which I think we may get to see (as I'm given to understand from KD viewers) once Samrat comes back and exposes her. Which is why he hoped Sai and Pakhi will be able to get along because they have to stay in the same house or it can break the family, the warring wives of the two elder sons.

On the other hand, instead of expecting Sai to ask her doubts directly in private, he should have just been upfront when they were alone and cleared his stance once and for all and spare her all the heart break and torture. Him acting clueless and that it's a no big deal in front of Sai is getting on my nerves as well. But of course, it's the script. Boo writers..

Even the other day, Pakhi instigated the whole family against Sai(about throwing Virat out of the room at night) which led to Sai firing back and exposing the secret relation between Virat and Pakhi. Virat playing dumb was no doubt a d*c* move as it made Sai look like a fool(and I was hella mad at him), but can you imagine the repercussions if he had said something to substantiate her statement?

The words - (pp ko kiye) uss vaade ka koi vajood nahi hai should have been said by virat to pp and virat to Sai. Sunny bol raha hai but virat didnt let him. First he said- koi faayds hai- i thought ok, so virat has given up on pp. But then he got so mad at sunny so i was like- phirse aagaya humaara bipolar virat jissko sach bolne seh allergy hai. I really dont understand if the makers/writers look at these scenes as audience and think about how confused their character looks and how the viewers will perceive it. I am not sure if they do intend to make Virat ambivalent towards both women. Supposedly he has clarity in his head that Sai is his wife- the woman he now loves and pp is a girl in his past that he thought about a relationship with but it never even got off the ground but had already crashed and burned! Lol. So hes clear that shes only his brothers wife and he will support her as a "friend". But none of that clarity reflects in his actions. Sai, aai, sunny have made it clear what the problem is but virat is like a pendulum. He is asking her to stay in boundaries and not do tulna with his wife repeatedly and but wont let anyone tell pp that she is coming in between a husband and wife. virats dialogues and behavior are a jalebi that I do not understand.

That scene was so contradictory. 🤢I want to believe that he shuts Sunny for two reasons one he doesn't want Pakhi to know what's going on between husband and wife second since he is well aware of Pakhi's intentions so he didn't want to create another problem.

Another thought if Virat truely wanted move ahead with Sai then he should prove that in action

This particular line goes to ph don't leave viewers on the cliffhanger if that irritates them rather than brings interest. I am liking the slow burn but NOT at the cost of some nonsense.Sadly I don't see a bright future of this show .To much Negativity

What I feel virat want to protect sai from pakhi coz he noticed pakhi very well .

Jab jab virat rejected kiya pakhi ko pagalpan ziyada hote gaya woh sai ki nafrat mein do guna agaye hogayi jab pool par pakhi ne bola sai meri halq ka kata bangayi hai virat ke expression us waqt change hogaye.

Jab sai ne kaha pakhi di aap ek muqa nahi chodeti mujeh nicha girane ka tana marne ka tab bhi virat ke expression change hogaye.

Aaj jab sunny ne bola virat aur sai pyaar karte hai unko khush rehne do virat shout kiya par uska expression change hogaye dar ke the ab pakhi sai ke saath kuch aur galat na kare .ab pakhi ka ek hi maqsad hai sai ko virat ki zindagi se nikalna ab jo woh kari sai ke character par haath dala hai .

Mere daddy bolte the pagalo ke variety hote hai pagal usko nahi khete hai jo kapde padhe ball noche .pagal pakhi jise hote hai jo insaan ko nuqsaan pouhchate hai.