Do Sai have any self respect? - Page 2

I’m new to this show & binge watching it (still on Davi wedding episode) but I think I can understand her coming back to CN so easily. She’s just 18-19 yrs old & was raised by her beloved father. She craves for love & attention of someone who cares for her (virat, aai, mohit & bua) and where ever she’ll go she’ll always come back for the love. And a soft hearted teenage girl like her don’t bottle up the previous taunts or hateful things. She loves to move forward & stay close to her loved ones.

I seriously wants her to grow some self respect & pride for herself. Virat always says sorry after every single mistake & I for one person who hates people who repeatedly makes mistakes and thinks it’s ok just to say sorry afterwards. Still now Sai is leaving like a princess but I want to see her as a QUEEN!

She is Sai Chavan now. Sai Joshi and her dreams have long died a painful death in the midst of CN drama.

No she doesn’t . She is just like Virat who lacks self respect and keeps going back to the same women who questions his character at the drop of the hat .

Originally posted by: bubbly12

I watched this show after a long break of 10 years and it has again successfully made me lose interest in ITV serials. All are gone cases. Back to my American and Korean series.

Same here

First of all new concept of bringing school pass outs as bahu and then roj ka chikhna chillana

Btw do suggest some K drama 🙂

The whole show runs on Sai v/s Chavans & Pakhi. They will have to shut the show down if Sai starts behaving realistically and pack her bags and leave Chavan madhouse. 😆

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

You know what, there is no Top show on ITV right now where the Bahu forgets these things in a night or where the in laws are so evil or where the bahu is abused so frequently. It happens every day on this show. 😵😵

This is true. The other top shows like Anupama and Imlie have really supportive in-laws and there is no usual saas-bahu nonsense going on. Whatever problems they face come from outside forces. But in this show, they have turned the in-laws so vile and abusive. Only thing lacking in this show at this point is active physical abuse from the in-laws. It is high time they tone down the negativity that Sai has to face everyday. This daily fights are such a turn off. These fights once in a while is tolerable. But showing that on a daily basis is so ridiculous.

I wonder if the storyline and FL characterization is one dimensional and uninteresting that to attract audience they need to butcher every single character in the show to highlight the FL .

Though I am only watching clips on IG these days, and have stopped watching the show as such, for me, Sai's self-respect died long, long back.

I have personally always believed that the only person who is capable of hurting your self respect is you. Its the respect you have for yourself, and only you can lessen it.

So when Chavans insult her, I have never felt her self respect was hurt. Its when she decided to keep staying there, keep coming back there, she is herself hurting her self respect. I know I am going to get bogus reasons by *edited by DT* Sai supporters that she is just 18, she doesn't have parents, she craves love. And while all of that is true, Sai is not dumb. She herself believes that Virat loves Pakhi, herself realizes Chavans are abusive as hell and herself decided to go and live in hostel. She was courageous enough to realize the truth and understand that she needs to go and went away, but then came back. She herself threw away her self respect.

Me too. I have stopped watching. I just read written updates.

Originally posted by: hedwig_potter

Though I am only watching clips on IG these days, and have stopped watching the show as such, for me, Sai's self-respect died long, long back.

I have personally always believed that the only person who is capable of hurting your self respect is you. Its the respect you have for yourself, and only you can lessen it.

So when Chavans insult her, I have never felt her self respect was hurt. Its when she decided to keep staying there, keep coming back there, she is herself hurting her self respect. I know I am going to get bogus reasons by blind Sai supporters that she is just 18, she doesn't have parents, she craves love. And while all of that is true, Sai is not dumb. She herself believes that Virat loves Pakhi, herself realizes Chavans are abusive as hell and herself decided to go and live in hostel. She was courageous enough to realize the truth and understand that she needs to go and went away, but then came back. She herself threw away her self respect.

If she needs love I think an 18 years old who needs love would want to stay with Pulkit and Devi that's the only place where she was taken care of like a teenager and a family member

Sai is used to chaos in her life after a point people stop ignoring provocations but she gives in because she craves argument