If Virat feels guilty for Pakhi’s condition, why not the same for Sai? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Antaramantara

Ok fine..but tell me one thing... When sai's pmt results was out...before that she had all those insults from his family... If she thought that virat was a abusive husband , why didn't she leave for hostel.... Please don't give that illogical reason that virat stopped her...so what?? She herself was a witness of all those 'verbal abuse and assault' and all those taunt she had day in and day out...plus before her pmt rest ,she herself was doing household chores,still getting taunt of not doing anything in house...

But still she chose to remain in CN...not in hostel....

First you need to stand up for yourself when you claim that you put your self respect above anything other... She herself invited all these things upon herself... Even after all those insults on that day ...why she went to college then pulkit house...if she care about her self respect so much why not immediately pack your bags and leave for hostel... Why did she wait for his call or msg in pulkit's house??

If virat is added up to her misery..she herself is the prime reason for that

How can you say that sai didn’t stand for herself in any episode whenever there was arguments/allegations with her nd chavans coz what I have seen is that it is only sai who speaks for herself..ashwini nd mohit support is not that strong who can make chavans silent,,,, only two three times sai got support from virat but most of the time virat is directly or indirectly supported sai’s verbal abuse sometimes silently sometimes speaking with his family,,,,

@bold... she is bound to do those things bcoz chavans ki parampra hai ghar ki bahu ghar ke sare kaam karti hai... agr sai mana karti to virat usko galat samjhta ki tum mere parivar ka khayal nhi karti ho,,, jab virat ko apni maa ka khayal nhi aya to wo biwi ka kya khayal karega,,, he never noticed that ashwini being elder from sonali is serving food to everyone on table he never raised this question publicly or privately to his mom,,, like it doesn’t bother him much it is very normal thing for him...,, she was newly wedded when kaku asked her before leaving for college you have to do all house hold work nd food preparation then tell me why virat was silent why he didn’t speak that sai is too young to hold this responsibilities,,, it was virat’s responsibility to ensure sai to have good environment for her medical studies as he has promised her aabha to take care of her nd her studies,,, yes sai could have easily said no but again it was virat who has told sai this thousand times that mere ghar wale dil ke bhut ache hai unki baton ka bura na mana karo... nd thousand times these chavans has told sai that she is getting all these luxuries for free,,, agr wo mana kare to bhi buri agr kaam kare to bhi galat

Here we are talking about a 18/19 year old girl who has lost her father and got forcefully married to a man to whom she has started some emotionally secure bonding after her father,, in beginning episode we have witnessed sai comparing virat with her aabha,,, she was in-debt to listen virat’s family’s conditions as virat has given her that emotional security after her aabha,,, but i will again say it was virat’s responsibility to ensure sai a safe nd secure house without verbal abuse not just bcoz he is married to her but bcoz as a police officer it is his responsibility to take care of a 18/19 year old girl who has no one called relatives where sha can go..,,even hostel option for sai virat as a police officer has responsibility to take care of her well being,, not only virat but whole police department has responsibility bcoz she is the family of police officer who lost his life while doing his duty nd more to virat coz KJ took bullet to save virat

Her baat/jhagde pe ghar chodh dena sahi chiz nhi hoti agr risthe itni asaani se judte aur tudte to phir kya baat thi her husband wife ki pahli fight pe divorce ho chuka hota,,, if you are talking about why she didn’t left after last week fight then i can only conclude my view that now sai is attached to virat as a wife not as a deal anymore... aur jab dil se kisi ke sath attachment ho jati hai to hum unse naraz to hote hain per unko chodh de aisa soch bhi nhi sakte☺️

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Virat felt for Sai a couple of times but mostly he didn’t seriously give it a thought as to how an 18 year old girl with no parents to take care of her feel when she is receiving worst kind of abuses 24/7 ,even without her trying to do whatever she can before going to college and also after coming back. Aswini acknowledged her hard work but not Virat, For him it is ok to do household chores because other Bahus are doing it. For a girl who is studying the toughest course ,how difficult it is to cope up with his dil ki ache bade who never let her go to college without serving the daily dose of abuse,he didn’t bother to understand. On top of it Sai has to adjust with the EX who leaves no stone unturned to insult her and intrude in her private space. Virat dilutes these things and lives in delusion that is why he has the audacity to ask Aswini to tell Sai how to live in a joint family miljul ke rehana sikhna hai? Sai ko? Is he serious? This is the kind of empathy or sympathy he has for his young wife,a medical student who always tried to adjust and help the members of the family.

It is Sai’s nobility and magnanimity that she bears with everything the CN gang do to humiliate her and still never entertain any disrespect in her heart. Who will tolerate being called ye ladki,Jungli mulgi all the time and questioned every minute when are you leaving or why are you still here or you have no right over your own husband.

Only a golden hearted girl could tolerate a husband who was tied up with a vada,his EX who is mentally sick and the whole gang who are criminals for domestic abuse ..I am leaving kidnapping since makers themselves deleted that from their screen play by now.

@blue... yes i also noticed this time to time virat has schooled sai how to behave with his dil ke ache per zaban se kadwe ghar wale but never ever he spoke to them dont call her with bad names, never stop them from putting sai down by always asking about her using virat’s money whether it was college fees or eating in canteen,, a wife has to answer in laws when nd where she is spending her husband’s money.. doesn’t anybody find this a torture for a wife? If anybody will argue that sai should stand of her self respect nd leave that chavans nd virat nd go to hostel then to them i will only say that it is husband responsibility to make sure that his wife is getting due respect by his family members,,, yes one should( bahu) stand for herself but without your husband support you will end up as sai who is now labelled as munh fat nd ladako ladki even virat also thinks her like that sometimes..nd that is why he is always always asking only sai to behave properly he never stop pakhi even whenever she spoke rudely with sai

Originally posted by: Rose-13

How can you say that sai didn’t stand for herself in any episode whenever there was arguments/allegations with her nd chavans coz what I have seen is that it is only sai who speaks for herself..ashwini nd mohit support is not that strong who can make chavans silent,,,, only two three times sai got support from virat but most of the time virat is directly or indirectly supported sai’s verbal abuse sometimes silently sometimes speaking with his family,,,,

@bold... she is bound to do those things bcoz chavans ki parampra hai ghar ki bahu ghar ke sare kaam karti hai... agr sai mana karti to virat usko galat samjhta ki tum mere parivar ka khayal nhi karti ho,,, jab virat ko apni maa ka khayal nhi aya to wo biwi ka kya khayal karega,,, he never noticed that ashwini being elder from sonali is serving food to everyone on table he never raised this question publicly or privately to his mom,,, like it doesn’t bother him much it is very normal thing for him...,, she was newly wedded when kaku asked her before leaving for college you have to do all house hold work nd food preparation then tell me why virat was silent why he didn’t speak that sai is too young to hold this responsibilities,,, it was virat’s responsibility to ensure sai to have good environment for her medical studies as he has promised her aabha to take care of her nd her studies,,, yes sai could have easily said no but again it was virat who has told sai this thousand times that mere ghar wale dil ke bhut ache hai unki baton ka bura na mana karo... nd thousand times these chavans has told sai that she is getting all these luxuries for free,,, agr wo mana kare to bhi buri agr kaam kare to bhi galat

Here we are talking about a 18/19 year old girl who has lost her father and got forcefully married to a man to whom she has started some emotionally secure bonding after her father,, in beginning episode we have witnessed sai comparing virat with her aabha,,, she was in-debt to listen virat’s family’s conditions as virat has given her that emotional security after her aabha,,, but i will again say it was virat’s responsibility to ensure sai a safe nd secure house without verbal abuse not just bcoz he is married to her but bcoz as a police officer it is his responsibility to take care of a 18/19 year old girl who has no one called relatives where sha can go..,,even hostel option for sai virat as a police officer has responsibility to take care of her well being,, not only virat but whole police department has responsibility bcoz she is the family of police officer who lost his life while doing his duty nd more to virat coz KJ took bullet to save virat

Her baat/jhagde pe ghar chodh dena sahi chiz nhi hoti agr risthe itni asaani se judte aur tudte to phir kya baat thi her husband wife ki pahli fight pe divorce ho chuka hota,,, if you are talking about why she didn’t left after last week fight then i can only conclude my view that now sai is attached to virat as a wife not as a deal anymore... aur jab dil se kisi ke sath attachment ho jati hai to hum unse naraz to hote hain per unko chodh de aisa soch bhi nhi sakte☺️

The condition in which she is living is not at all good for a medical aspirant.... Agr sai pe biwi hone k zimmedari h to sai p doctor banne k bhi zimmedari h... Koi bhi subh kaam kr k college attend kr k raat me kaam kr k padh nhi skta h... So simply she needs to stand up for herself and opt for hostel as simple as that...even pgs are available

Aur jaha tak rhi baat apne lie khade hone k.... To hr baat p ladna aur khud apna time aur mental peace kharab Krna is not called standing up for yourself,....if you do this on a regular basis, while you have a mentally hectic schedule in college you will be called dumb.. You need to be clever in this ... That better opt for hostel ... Ek baar ko smjh aata h virat ne bol dia to ruk gae but then what about virat ne ghr se bahar nikal dia tha..... And even now... Again she will ultimately reach CN ....jab kisi ko khud k time k value nhi h...self respect k value why to expect from other.... Hostel jao n aana bhi ho to proper condition rakh k aao, k this is the last chance ek bhi baar badtameezi hui then I'll leave forever

Even many people who are persuing mbbs are living in joint family in the same city prefer hostel in this profession.... that's called standing up for yourself....

@ bold.... Its first sai's duty to put herself and her studies, her aabha's sapna above everyone...above virat too... Then it's virat responsibilty......for me both have equal fault ...if virat is not supporting her.. she herself chose to come here back again n again after all those insults....

Rahi baat rishte aasani se judte aur tut te nhi h... Agr aapke in laws aise h... husband stand nhi leta(according to you)..... SIL husband ka kuch h... And husband ne phle h bol dia h k don't expect anything from this marriage...to bacha kya jod k rakhne ko.... Then you are idiot who is still there in that relationship ,doing all household chores, still getting abuse n taunt... Bs lad lena standing up for yourself nhi hota h.... Agreed she is 18, she has lost his father.. to 18 p itni aqal nhi h k baar baar insult hone p hostel opt kr le .... Lekin insult/taunt p 2 ghante waste kr de wo thik h wo bhi un logo p jo pov h nhi smjhenge

Originally posted by: Antaramantara

The condition in which she is living is not at all good for a medical aspirant.... Agr sai pe biwi hone k zimmedari h to sai p doctor banne k bhi zimmedari h... Koi bhi subh kaam kr k college attend kr k raat me kaam kr k padh nhi skta h... So simply she needs to stand up for herself and opt for hostel as simple as that...even pgs are available

Aur jaha tak rhi baat apne lie khade hone k.... To hr baat p ladna aur khud apna time aur mental peace kharab Krna is not called standing up for yourself,....if you do this on a regular basis, while you have a mentally hectic schedule in college you will be called dumb.. You need to be clever in this ... That better opt for hostel ... Ek baar ko smjh aata h virat ne bol dia to ruk gae but then what about virat ne ghr se bahar nikal dia tha..... And even now... Again she will ultimately reach CN ....jab kisi ko khud k time k value nhi h...self respect k value why to expect from other.... Hostel jao n aana bhi ho to proper condition rakh k aao, k this is the last chance ek bhi baar badtameezi hui then I'll leave forever

Even many people who are persuing mbbs are living in joint family in the same city prefer hostel in this profession.... that's called standing up for yourself....

@ bold.... Its first sai's duty to put herself and her studies, her aabha's sapna above everyone...above virat too... Then it's virat responsibilty......for me both have equal fault ...if virat is not supporting her.. she herself chose to come here back again n again after all those insults....

Rahi baat rishte aasani se judte aur tut te nhi h... Agr aapke in laws aise h... husband stand nhi leta(according to you)..... SIL husband ka kuch h... And husband ne phle h bol dia h k don't expect anything from this marriage...to bacha kya jod k rakhne ko.... Then you are idiot who is still there in that relationship ,doing all household chores, still getting abuse n taunt... Bs lad lena standing up for yourself nhi hota h.... Agreed she is 18, she has lost his father.. to 18 p itni aqal nhi h k baar baar insult hone p hostel opt kr le .... Lekin insult/taunt p 2 ghante waste kr de wo thik h wo bhi un logo p jo pov h nhi smjhenge

First of all doc bana kissko hai , had u seen sai doing anything 4 her own dream , it's just name sake dream , she will become doc just like aise hi , she herself hardly study bas book khol ke baith jati , college bhi gossiping ke liye jaati hai pulkit se , exam dete samay unhe devkit ke baare mein sochti rehti hai . She herself said without virat this dream was not possible as she would had opted 4 some other course in GC. Infact for her admission also it was virat who took stand she only ranted about becoming doc , when kaku started troubling too much sai while going to college then virat only said to kaku leave sai as she( episode where kaku snatch her breakfast plate ) is after that kaku stopped troubling sai while going to college.

She more in too samaj seva both Ashwani & virat why she only has to do everything . Virat very clearly said jitna tumse ho sake utna karna jo na ho vo mat karna( chocolate feeding episode ) Ashwani is always there to assist sai , so she is not working alone .

Regarding taunting she herself answer back so it's like a badminton match . When she don't consider virat as her husband & Cgang as her family why she keep interfering in their family matter.

Sai herself is not clear what she want , she has toxic abusive husband , toxic in laws , scary SIL then why she stay back everytime.

Originally posted by: Antaramantara

The condition in which she is living is not at all good for a medical aspirant.... Agr sai pe biwi hone k zimmedari h to sai p doctor banne k bhi zimmedari h... Koi bhi subh kaam kr k college attend kr k raat me kaam kr k padh nhi skta h... So simply she needs to stand up for herself and opt for hostel as simple as that...even pgs are available

Aur jaha tak rhi baat apne lie khade hone k.... To hr baat p ladna aur khud apna time aur mental peace kharab Krna is not called standing up for yourself,....if you do this on a regular basis, while you have a mentally hectic schedule in college you will be called dumb.. You need to be clever in this ... That better opt for hostel ... Ek baar ko smjh aata h virat ne bol dia to ruk gae but then what about virat ne ghr se bahar nikal dia tha..... And even now... Again she will ultimately reach CN ....jab kisi ko khud k time k value nhi h...self respect k value why to expect from other.... Hostel jao n aana bhi ho to proper condition rakh k aao, k this is the last chance ek bhi baar badtameezi hui then I'll leave forever

Even many people who are persuing mbbs are living in joint family in the same city prefer hostel in this profession.... that's called standing up for yourself....

@ bold.... Its first sai's duty to put herself and her studies, her aabha's sapna above everyone...above virat too... Then it's virat responsibilty......for me both have equal fault ...if virat is not supporting her.. she herself chose to come here back again n again after all those insults....

Rahi baat rishte aasani se judte aur tut te nhi h... Agr aapke in laws aise h... husband stand nhi leta(according to you)..... SIL husband ka kuch h... And husband ne phle h bol dia h k don't expect anything from this marriage...to bacha kya jod k rakhne ko.... Then you are idiot who is still there in that relationship ,doing all household chores, still getting abuse n taunt... Bs lad lena standing up for yourself nhi hota h.... Agreed she is 18, she has lost his father.. to 18 p itni aqal nhi h k baar baar insult hone p hostel opt kr le .... Lekin insult/taunt p 2 ghante waste kr de wo thik h wo bhi un logo p jo pov h nhi smjhenge

baat sari to yahi hai ki iss baat ko hum aur aap aise soch sakte hai aur samjh sakte hai but makers nhi wo sai ko aise hi har time bas endless or result less argue karte dikhayenge but to act cleverly kabhi nhi show karenge and wait for more episodes where sai wants to leave but virat will use all his power nd emotions to stop her form leaving if makers will go same as original story KD which actually they are doing exact copy nd paste,,

Kahte hai na nakal ke liye bhi aqal chahiye.... same goes to makers of this show they are blindly following original version without giving a thought what they are showing like last sat episode where they shown us that elders of chavans are ok with pakhi nd virat’s past relations.. aisa kahan hota hai 😡 they didn’t think rationally bass original me tha to yahan bhi dikha diya but viewers of hindi version are watching it from every part of world be it from india or abroad and we are not ok with it,, we ar not ok with the characterisation of sai being medical student is the only one who can solve every matter be it cheating, mohit’s jobless things nd his dreams or devi (a mentally abnormal girl)’s marriage... she should not be that achi bahu of ITV who fights all alone without any one’s support not even her husband... typical ITV things 🙄

And virat’s character again typical ITV ML who will stand mute on his wife’s insult but speak when his wife say anything againt his family or his ex

I agree with you agr hum sai ki jagah hote to kab ka chavans or virat se alag ho chuke hote for our mental peace

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

First of all doc bana kissko hai , had u seen sai doing anything 4 her own dream , it's just name sake dream , she will become doc just like aise hi , she herself hardly study bas book khol ke baith jati , college bhi gossiping ke liye jaati hai pulkit se , exam dete samay unhe devkit ke baare mein sochti rehti hai . She herself said without virat this dream was not possible as she would had opted 4 some other course in GC. Infact for her admission also it was virat who took stand she only ranted about becoming doc , when kaku started troubling too much sai while going to college then virat only said to kaku leave sai as she( episode where kaku snatch her breakfast plate ) is after that kaku stopped troubling sai while going to college.

Sai will become a doc just like how Virat babu is an IPS officer. Oh atleast sai goes yo college and does her work unlike police officer who let go of criminals because they are his family of their wife is crying.

Without Virat her dream was coming true only- with aabas pension money she would have manged. Her father had just passed away when she said she will stay in gc, so that wasn’t her final plan . But He got her mired into this toxic family. And family makes her work like a slave from 4.30. No wonder if the poor girl gwts no time to study. Husband hardly cares anyway.

Virat took a stand that’s why she joined college- she proudly announced she will live in a hostel if thwy dont let her study. It was her decision. viRat gets no brownie points for that. Even after she was ousted unlike the looser husband she didn’t stand and cry. She collected aabs money and went back to college because she has her dreams. Last day too evn after such a big fight she went to college so that she can fulfill her aabs dream. Virat can take credit in his dreams. If anything he only tried to sabotages her dreams by throwing her our

She more in too samaj seva both Ashwani & virat why she only has to do everything . Virat very clearly said jitna tumse ho sake utna karna jo na ho vo mat karna( chocolate feeding episode ) Ashwani is always there to assist sai , so she is not working alone .

Unlike Virat she values and loves others. So she will help them. Common Virat is the spineless person who didn’t question family when her hands were wounded while making mahabhoj. He also wanted her to work like a maid only. Said one or two lollipop lines bus

Regarding taunting she herself answer back so it's like a badminton match . When she don't consider virat as her husband & Cgang as her family why she keep interfering in their family matter.

She doesn’t engage in a badminton match lol. She’s standing up for herself because the mute, dumb husband can’t handle his ex. She considers him to her husband. Its Virat who didn’t and threw her our. She respects relations unlike viRAT

Sai herself is not clear what she want , she has toxic abusive husband , toxic in laws , scary SIL then why she stay back everytime.

Sai is clear. She said Virat can’t have bhabhi and biwi both. But as you said toxic, abusive husband is just mute and dumb. She comes back because this moron goes after her and emotionally manipulates and traps her. We saw how she was leaving everyttime and he went with his fake tears and apologises?

If anyone isn’t clear that is viRAT that too woth his bhabhi and biwi both. Voh chahte kya hai?

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

First of all doc bana kissko hai , had u seen sai doing anything 4 her own dream , it's just name sake dream , she will become doc just like aise hi , she herself hardly study bas book khol ke baith jati , college bhi gossiping ke liye jaati hai pulkit se , exam dete samay unhe devkit ke baare mein sochti rehti hai . She herself said without virat this dream was not possible as she would had opted 4 some other course in GC. Infact for her admission also it was virat who took stand she only ranted about becoming doc , when kaku started troubling too much sai while going to college then virat only said to kaku leave sai as she( episode where kaku snatch her breakfast plate ) is after that kaku stopped troubling sai while going to college.

She more in too samaj seva both Ashwani & virat why she only has to do everything . Virat very clearly said jitna tumse ho sake utna karna jo na ho vo mat karna( chocolate feeding episode ) Ashwani is always there to assist sai , so she is not working alone .

Regarding taunting she herself answer back so it's like a badminton match . When she don't consider virat as her husband & Cgang as her family why she keep interfering in their family matter.

Sai herself is not clear what she want , she has toxic abusive husband , toxic in laws , scary SIL then why she stay back everytime.

Yeah actually...when you are persuing a career which require time,hard work... first thing you need is mental peace... I have certain friends persuing mbbs who opted for hostel while their parents live literally just 4-5km distance...yet they prefer hostel and visit their home on sat sun just to concentrate on their studies because their families are normal joint families

And a home like CN where pp ,kaku having nothing to do....all the time they do is backbiting/taunting.... trying to pick fight with you...you need to be cleaver and work smartly in that situation if you need your mental peace... Either try to avoid their taunts as much as possible or opt for hostel simple as that....for me that's called being smart....giving them back 1-2 time is fine... But you cannot pick every fight and waste your time on them.... Coz you are on a loss

But because it's show , it needs drama... So all these fight looks good for trps.... I have stopped relating to these character with real life after mirchi episode....after that I just enjoy it for sairat...sometime bash them ..sometime ship them... And for me virat did certain things which are not redeemable...I agree on this point...but sai is the one who forgave him...and moved on ... So if bash virat for those things..I held sai also accountable for letting it go

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

First of all doc bana kissko hai , had u seen sai doing anything 4 her own dream , it's just name sake dream , she will become doc just like aise hi , she herself hardly study bas book khol ke baith jati , college bhi gossiping ke liye jaati hai pulkit se , exam dete samay unhe devkit ke baare mein sochti rehti hai . She herself said without virat this dream was not possible as she would had opted 4 some other course in GC. Infact for her admission also it was virat who took stand she only ranted about becoming doc , when kaku started troubling too much sai while going to college then virat only said to kaku leave sai as she( episode where kaku snatch her breakfast plate ) is after that kaku stopped troubling sai while going to college.

She more in too samaj seva both Ashwani & virat why she only has to do everything . Virat very clearly said jitna tumse ho sake utna karna jo na ho vo mat karna( chocolate feeding episode ) Ashwani is always there to assist sai , so she is not working alone .

Regarding taunting she herself answer back so it's like a badminton match . When she don't consider virat as her husband & Cgang as her family why she keep interfering in their family matter.

Sai herself is not clear what she want , she has toxic abusive husband , toxic in laws , scary SIL then why she stay back everytime.

@bold... agreed 100% mujhe bhi ye nhi samjh aa rha hai being 18/19 year old how she can be able to do all these stuff all by herself.. mujhse to na hota😐

Originally posted by: Rose-13

baat sari to yahi hai ki iss baat ko hum aur aap aise soch sakte hai aur samjh sakte hai but makers nhi wo sai ko aise hi har time bas endless or result less argue karte dikhayenge but to act cleverly kabhi nhi show karenge and wait for more episodes where sai wants to leave but virat will use all his power nd emotions to stop her form leaving if makers will go same as original story KD which actually they are doing exact copy nd paste,,

Kahte hai na nakal ke liye bhi aqal chahiye.... same goes to makers of this show they are blindly following original version without giving a thought what they are showing like last sat episode where they shown us that elders of chavans are ok with pakhi nd virat’s past relations.. aisa kahan hota hai 😡 they didn’t think rationally bass original me tha to yahan bhi dikha diya but viewers of hindi version are watching it from every part of world be it from india or abroad and we are not ok with it,, we ar not ok with the characterisation of sai being medical student is the only one who can solve every matter be it cheating, mohit’s jobless things nd his dreams or devi (a mentally abnormal girl)’s marriage... she should not be that achi bahu of ITV who fights all alone without any one’s support not even her husband... typical ITV things 🙄

And virat’s character again typical ITV ML who will stand mute on his wife’s insult but speak when his wife say anything againt his family or his ex

I agree with you agr hum sai ki jagah hote to kab ka chavans or virat se alag ho chuke hote for our mental peace

See all I am saying k there are certain things which virat did is actually not redeemable... He did blunders... N there is no redemption for all those things.(though I also believe he did stand up for her on multiple occasions, I just cannot brush it off k aisa kabhi hua h nhi)... But it is sai who forgave him and moved on..and this is not standing up for yourself... Sometimes you need to give back to some people....but not everytime.... But humne typical FL k 2 perception bna lie h...either ya to wo Gopi bahu types hoti h jo kisi ko jawab na de...ya wo aisi hoti jo hr kisi ko jawab de... And use h hmne lebel de dia h 'standing up for herself' ka... for me agr fault p jaae to both are in faults ....though virat did some blunders ..I am not counting those blunders in these fault ....but this is a drama ....for trps it will go like this... Bus hmara khud ka perception galat aur sahi ka correct hona chahiye

Originally posted by: Antaramantara

Yeah actually...when you are persuing a career which require time,hard work... first thing you need is mental peace... I have certain friends persuing mbbs who opted for hostel while their parents live literally just 4-5km distance...yet they prefer hostel and visit their home on sat sun just to concentrate on their studies because their families are normal joint families

And a home like CN where pp ,kaku having nothing to do....all the time they do is backbiting/taunting.... trying to pick fight with you...you need to be cleaver and work smartly in that situation if you need your mental peace... Either try to avoid their taunts as much as possible or opt for hostel simple as that....for me that's called being smart....giving them back 1-2 time is fine... But you cannot pick every fight and waste your time on them.... Coz you are on a loss

But because it's show , it needs drama... So all these fight looks good for trps.... I have stopped relating to these character with real life after mirchi episode....after that I just enjoy it for sairat...sometime bash them ..sometime ship them... And for me virat did certain things which are not redeemable...I agree on this point...but sai is the one who forgave him...and moved on ... So if bash virat for those things..I held sai also accountable for letting it go

agreed we should watch it just as a show don’t relate it to real life,,, real life me thoda sa bhi inlaws ke side se prblm ho aur hubby support na kare to sab pyaar vyaar tel lene gaya pahle apna haq chahiye hume... ye wife ka stand hota hai 😆 aur pati ko maafi bhi bhut mannate karne ka baad milti hai hai aise hi thode na ki candy floss diya aur biwi maan gayi 😏 😜