If Virat feels guilty for Pakhi’s condition, why not the same for Sai?

He married Sai and consequently she has gotten abusive in laws and Pakhi, why doesn’t he feel guilty for that? Why doesn’t he feel guilty for Sai’s condition? The abuse she’s subjected to everyday? Her teenage years are passing by and here they’ve made her a 30 year old “bahu” of the house. She’s not getting to live a normal teenager’s life, she might if he lets her leave for hostel now without holding back. Love is - prioritising loved one’s physical and mental wellbeing.

He does feel guilty and he even expressed it during the Ladakh trip family drama and he spoke to Sunny the day they came to CN first time after his marriage.

He feels guilty about Sai's state sometimes like during ladakh track but other than that because pp is always getting too much footage shedding fake tears claiming how "alone", "sad" she is, there is no chance to actually address how Sai really feels being constantly namecalled and abused. Virat should also feel guilty about Samrats condition. thanks to the laalach of the vaada made by him, pp decided to marry his jeeva even though she cares 2 hoots for him. His Jeeva's life was 100 % ruined by pp. But honestly virat was also wrong to hide such a truth from Samrat. If Samrat was marrying some other girl and virat learnt that the girl still had feelings for another man and didnt want to marry Samrat, what would he do? either reveal truth to samrat or maybe talk to the girl and tell her to be honest with Samrat before marriage. But here he did none of those things. He didn't want Samrat's alliance to break because he loves his brother but he never thought about how his jeeva's wedding- the start of a lifelong partnership- was going to be on a foundation of lies.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

He does feel guilty and he even expressed it during the Ladakh trip family drama and he spoke to Sunny the day they came to CN first time after his marriage.

Oh yes, he feels gulity and hence he adds to the abuse as well.

Ladakh trip mei natak kar rahi thi. If he was guilty of her condition how can he literally throw her out onto streets aat midnight? How can he deny a teenager food and water? Oh that’s actions arising of his gulit, I see. Just saying 2 lines isn’t enough. One should act on it if he’s guilty- did Virat act on ever? No. That teenager is made to work like a slave ftom early morning and he hardly cares

He speaks a lot and acts exactly in the opposite. His guilt is constricted to a one or two words. And he will actively participate in abusing and torturing the teenager wife. He’s not guilty at all. As long as his ego is satisfied be will be nice to her, otherwise he throws her out as we saw

Originally posted by: Niranjan256

Oh yes, he feels gulity and hence he adds to the abuse as well.

Ladakh trip mei natak kar rahi thi. If he was guilty of her condition how can he literally throw her out onto streets aat midnight? How can he deny a teenager food and water? Oh that’s actions arising of his gulit, I see. Just saying 2 lines isn’t enough. One should act on it if he’s guilty- did Virat act on ever? No. That teenager is made to work like a slave ftom early morning and he hardly cares

He speaks a lot and acts exactly in the opposite. His guilt is constricted to a one or two words. And he will actively participate in abusing and torturing the teenager wife. He’s not guilty at all. As long as his ego is satisfied be will be nice to her, otherwise he throws her out as we saw

Well said!! About time we stop romanticising abusive relationships and giving free pass to abusers. It’s what patriarchal society expects from a woman but this narrative has to be overturned.

Originally posted by: idkwhattoput

Well said!! About time we stop romanticising abusive relationships and giving free pass to abusers. It’s what patriarchal society expects from a woman but this narrative has to be overturned.

Ok fine..but tell me one thing... When sai's pmt results was out...before that she had all those insults from his family... If she thought that virat was a abusive husband , why didn't she leave for hostel.... Please don't give that illogical reason that virat stopped her...so what?? She herself was a witness of all those 'verbal abuse and assault' and all those taunt she had day in and day out...plus before her pmt rest ,she herself was doing household chores,still getting taunt of not doing anything in house...

But still she chose to remain in CN...not in hostel....

First you need to stand up for yourself when you claim that you put your self respect above anything other... She herself invited all these things upon herself... Even after all those insults on that day ...why she went to college then pulkit house...if she care about her self respect so much why not immediately pack your bags and leave for hostel... Why did she wait for his call or msg in pulkit's house??

If virat is added up to her misery..she herself is the prime reason for that

He did acknowledge Sai's missery . But it vanished into the thin air seeing his best friends loneliness 🤢.because he is guilty that atleast Sai has him and when he could move on with his wife but Pakhi couldn't

Pakhi is 200% responsible for what is happening to her and also all the misery she caused for Samrat.thankfully after Sai it's Sunny who acknowledged Samrat's pain.

Virat has provided sai with all tangible needs.But in return he is giving her a torturous life.

Originally posted by: Antaramantara

Ok fine..but tell me one thing... When sai's pmt results was out...before that she had all those insults from his family... If she thought that virat was a abusive husband , why didn't she leave for hostel.... Please don't give that illogical reason that virat stopped her...so what?? She herself was a witness of all those 'verbal abuse and assault' and all those taunt she had day in and day out...plus before her pmt rest ,she herself was doing household chores,still getting taunt of not doing anything in house...

But still she chose to remain in CN...not in hostel....

First you need to stand up for yourself when you claim that you put your self respect above anything other... She herself invited all these things upon herself... Even after all those insults on that day ...why she went to college then pulkit house...if she care about her self respect so much why not immediately pack your bags and leave for hostel... Why did she wait for his call or msg in pulkit's house??

If virat is added up to her misery..she herself is the prime reason for that

Because “Star Plus.” Show has to go on.

Virat felt for Sai a couple of times but mostly he didn’t seriously give it a thought as to how an 18 year old girl with no parents to take care of her feel when she is receiving worst kind of abuses 24/7 ,even without her trying to do whatever she can before going to college and also after coming back. Aswini acknowledged her hard work but not Virat, For him it is ok to do household chores because other Bahus are doing it. For a girl who is studying the toughest course ,how difficult it is to cope up with his dil ki ache bade who never let her go to college without serving the daily dose of abuse,he didn’t bother to understand. On top of it Sai has to adjust with the EX who leaves no stone unturned to insult her and intrude in her private space. Virat dilutes these things and lives in delusion that is why he has the audacity to ask Aswini to tell Sai how to live in a joint family miljul ke rehana sikhna hai? Sai ko? Is he serious? This is the kind of empathy or sympathy he has for his young wife,a medical student who always tried to adjust and help the members of the family.

It is Sai’s nobility and magnanimity that she bears with everything the CN gang do to humiliate her and still never entertain any disrespect in her heart. Who will tolerate being called ye ladki,Jungli mulgi all the time and questioned every minute when are you leaving or why are you still here or you have no right over your own husband.

Only a golden hearted girl could tolerate a husband who was tied up with a vada,his EX who is mentally sick and the whole gang who are criminals for domestic abuse ..I am leaving kidnapping since makers themselves deleted that from their screen play by now.

He's sweet when he wants something and then abusive when he does not get his way. At the end of the day, he has learnt it from his Kaku and gang. It is not romantic, just pathetic. Also he needs to ask Pakhi to not come into his room when he is alone or with others, it is yucky.