Originally posted by: ABBY_JERAN
Today is really felt bad for Mahams mom
The asian culture doesn't allow the mom to stay with the girl after wedding
And if they want to keep the girl at home the Ghar jamai always turns out to be good for nothing
After raising 3 daughters if the mom has to stay all alone by herself in the end....this is so helplessly pathetic
That's why asian parents r so desperate for a son coz at least he will stay
I really wish asian culture comes out of it and normalizes girls single parents to stay with the girl after wedding ....that way no one will be so desperate for a son
And this can only be normalizes if the girl is also shown to be financially independent and taking part in house expenses
It's really too burdensome for the man if he has to bear the financial burden of so many people
If the girl is also earning then she can also req for a room for her mother in the in laws house as she is also paying
I feel really bad seeing this. There is nothing wrong in thinking about ghar damad. A girl's parents also need someone who will look after them in their old age.Even we are 3 sisters mummy hamesha bolti hai ek ko apne paas rakhenge I don't find anything wrong in it. They have full right to think like this.