virat did everything in his hands to push off....

women like pakhi can ruin any man's life....pathetic is her life....

her character has hit the deepest ground...with no morals...nothing ....

virat has shown pakhi her place many times...he didn't give into her emotional drama...

she tries to guilt trip him...quoting samrat...

virat has been stern with pakhi...she has no shame

virat has been indifferent with her....she doesn't budge

virat tries to reason with her...she is no mood to listen

virat tries to be calm and logical with her...she takes advantage of his goodness...

virat tried every method with her...but women like pakhi are so shameless that...they won't understand all this....

What can any man do with such a woman...unfortunately here happens to be his sis in law...and it really cost him his brother...he is guilty...but till samrat comes..virat is trying every way to be civil ....

somewhere i understand his helplessness...he is in a very bad state...

Yea true. But since hes tried everything and nothing is working, best option is talk to his wife honestly, lock the door of his bedroom, stop feeling guilty and be consistent in indifference/curtness to pp in public and private to avoid any mixed signals to pp or her supporters and stop trying all the other tactics to reason with her.

Originally posted by: Athiraachu

women like pakhi can ruin any man's life....pathetic is her life...

her character has hit the most bottomless ground...with no morals...nothing...

Virat has shown pakhi her place many times...he didn't give in to her emotional drama...

she tries to guilt-trip him...quoting Samrat...

Virat has been stern with pakhi...she has no shame

Virat has been indifferent with her....she doesn't budge

Virat tries to reason with her...she is in no mood to listen

Virat tries to be calm and logical with her...she takes advantage of his goodness...

Virat tried every method with her...but women like pakhi are so shameless that...they won't understand all this...

What can any man do with such a woman...unfortunately, there she happens to be, his sis-in-law...and it cost him his brother...he is guilty...but till Samrat comes...Virat is trying every way to be civil...

Somewhere i understand his helplessness...he is in an awful state...

I completely agree with you. But Sai doesn't seem to understand his condition. However, her questions are valid. Yes, Virat promised Pakhi that he wouldn't love or marry any other girl. But he hasn't told them that she could have EMA with him.

I think Virat should do something more.

He should talk to her bluntly & let her go back to her mother's place.

there is nothing virat can do when it comes to didi becos her brains are fill with rocks,she will not understand a single thing even after virat told her directly that he has moved on and has fallen in love with sai and this women doesn't get it on her head

even aai,sai has done her beizatti and her parents too advice her but still it doesn't get into her head after a point virat can't do anything to explain her and there is one more reason too for her audacity becos samrat is not there. She is stubborn and obsessed holding on to her 2 days past which is actually non-existent in her life,the fact is she was never in love with virat it was a infatuatiom which she thinks its love and destroying her own life

now all virat can do is ignore didi and focus in sai. He needs to clear the commitment and vaada bullshit to sai and confess his love to her furthermore lock his room and sairat needs to build up their communication skills together becos thats the department they lack and didi & C-🐍gang takes advantage of it. Virat now needs to focus on his married life

I understand his position and guilt. It is high time for him to be stern with her all the time. The day when Sai was stopping Virat, Pakhi stopped Sai, he should have stopped Pakhi to come in between him and Sai before Sai had stopped Pakhi saying Bas. He needs to show Pakhi, her place especially when she interferes in the matters of him and his wife even if that means that she is his brother's wife. He has stop feeling guilty to some extent. Guilt is something one has to come out on their own, it is very difficult to come out of otherwise.

Also, I have always thought that even if she wants to go to her maayka, he should let her. Even in the past, it was the right thing to do because he was stopping her from moving forward in her life for his brother's sake. In the present, he knows that she has absolutely no feelings for his brother, so he should let her leave if she wants to. We all know that she is trying to use that as a weapon but her going to her maayka could also help her get rid of the feelings she has for him. If he lets her go, she will also be compelled to think that she doesn't matter to him at all (not as Samrat's wife but as his lover), she will be made to face a harsh reality. At the moment she keeps discarding everything that he is saying thinking his feelings might get rekindled or that he might again develop some feelings for her looking at her care and concern for him. If he lets her go to her maayka, she will know that he doesn't want her anywhere hear him and her not staying in the house doesn't matter to him.

I am not blaming Virat but Virat cannot decide for her. She is not just his brother's wife, she is a woman who deserves to move on in her life if her husband is MIA and especially when she has hardly lived a day with her husband. In real life, parents would have taken their daughter away. Some might wait and some might not and in this case Virat knows that Pakhi has no hopes or interest in her marriage, so it doesn't make sense to stop her from leaving to her parents place. She will have more freedom in her place. Even if she decides to wait for Samrat, it should be her decision, not Virat's wish.

Also, it is not just enough if Virat draws a line with Pakhi or acts stern whenever he is upset with Sai. He should be strict and stern with her even when everything is going on smooth between him and Sai. He should not be trying to provide any emotional support to her until he is not sure that she has no feelings for him. He should let other people including his Aai to help Pakhi or to convince or console Pakhi even when something goes wrong. He cannot act like a friend with her when she has feelings for him, he just cannot. It is not going to help him.

Originally posted by: laksh

I understand his position and guilt. It is hight time for him to be stern with her all the time. The day when Sai was stopping Virat, Pakhi stopped Sai, he should have stopped Pakhi to come in between him and Sai before Sai had stopped Pakhi saying Bas. He needs to show her her place especially when she interferes in the matters of him and his wife even if that means that she is his brother's wife. He has stop feeling guilty to some extent. Guilt is something one has to come out on their own, it is very difficult to come out of otherwise.

Also, I have always thought that even if she wants to go to her maayka, her should let her. Even in the past, it was the right thing to do because he was stopping her from moving forward in her life for his brother's sake. In the present, he knows that she has absolutely no feelings for his brother, so he should let her leave if she wants to. We all know that she is trying to use that as a weapon but her going to her maayka could also help her get rid of the feelings she has for him. If he lets her go, she will also be compelled to think that she doesn't matter to him at all (not as Samrat's wife but as his lover), she will be made to face a harsh reality. At the moment she keeps discarding everything that he is saying thinking his feelings might get rekindled or that he might again develop some feelings for her looking at her care and concern for him. If he lets her go to her maayka, she will know that he doesn't want her anywhere hear him and her not staying in the house doesn't matter to him.

I am not blaming Virat but Virat cannot decide for her. She is not just his brother's wife, she is a woman who deserves to move on in her life if her husband is MIA and especially when she has hardly lived a day with her husband. In real life, parents would have taken their daughter away. Some might wait and some might not and in this case Virat knows that Pakhi has no hopes or interest in her marriage, so it doesn't make sense to stop her from leaving to her parents place. She will have more freedom in her place. Even if she decides to wait for Samrat, it should be her decision, not Virat's wish.

Also, it is not just enough if Virat draws a line with Pakhi or acts stern whenever he is upset with Sai. He should be strict and stern with her even when everything is going on smooth between him and Sai. He should not be trying to provide any emotional support to her until he is not sure that she has no feelings for him. He should let other people including his Aai to help Pakhi or to convince or console Pakhi even when something goes wrong. He cannot act like a friend with her when she has feelings for him, he just cannot. It is not going to help him.

He should stop perserving her for his dear brother. 😡

You know what he could have done

Pakhi was going to her home, he shouldn’t have apologised and asked her to stay back when her husband isn’t around

He could have not gone behind her and requested to attend bday party

He could have not held her hand while hugging his wife for the first time

He could have sternly warned her off again when he visits his room without knocking like today. He was polite that wasn’t required

He should stop calling her his friend

Strat calling her Vahini

He can reveal her intentions infront of the whole fam(they know about tge past, not present) but he’s tight lipped

It’s easy to blame Pakhi and she should be blamed

Let’s not forget this pakhi is Virat’s creation. He gave the leverage for her to interfere in his life. Well at least now buckle up and stay away

I find no god reason for him asking Pakhi to stay back after knowing her intentions. He know she doesn’t care about Samrat. He knows she is only into him. Also Samrat deserves better than this lustful bhabhi. Toh he had no reason to stop her. It would have been better for Pakhi too to stay away. But nah! He apologised after knowing her immoral intentions. He can’t travel in two boat. He can’t give mixed signals

And most importantly come clear to his wife on his past and present without being ashamed or in self denial

I have no sympathy. He got this on himself.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

He should stop perserving her for his dear brother. 😡

Exactly, I have actually not liked that. He has not thought it from Pakhi's angle from the beginning. I will understand that he felt bad that she left only because she felt insulted by him or his wife but when she or her parents said that Pakhi cannot stay there waiting for Samrat or Pakhi needs a change, he should have thought about it. She is not just his brother's wife, she has her own identity, has all rights to live the way she wants. Not be bound to act as a bahu or stay at Cn because she is married to Samrat.

Originally posted by: Mages

there is nothibg virat can do when it comes to didi becos her brains are fill with rocks,she will not understand a single thing even after virat told her directly that he has moved on and has fallen in love with sai and this women doesn't get it on her head

even aai,sai has done her beizatti and her parents too advice her but still it doesn't get into her head after a point virat can't do anything to explain her and there is one more reason too for her audacity becos samrat is not there. She is stubborn and obsessed holding on to her 2 days past which is actually non-existent in her life,the fact is she was never in love with virat it was a infatuatiom which she thinks its love and destroying her own life

now all virat can do is ignore didi and focus in sai. He needs to clear the commitment and vaada bullshit to sai and confess his love to her furthermore lock his room and sairat needs to build up their communication skills together becos thats the department they lack and didi & C-🐍gang takes advantage of it. Virat now needs to focus on his married life

When Pakhi tries to blackmail Virat emotionally, he should use strong words & talk to her bluntly.

He shouldn't care even if she packs her bags & goes back to her mayka.

Agreed. Virat tried every way to make Pakhi understand but invain. But like someone here said,it is Virat who created Pakhi of today and he only should dismantle her and help her build a new identity for herself. To make it happen he should be stern with her, keep distance and not beg her to stay back. Alongside he should spend time to resolve the differences between him and his wife with utmost clarity and sincerity. Otherwise Pakhi would never let him and his wife lead a peaceful life.