My opinion on this whole nonsense is that I don't mind Malhar being tortured by Kalyani... tit for tat... I've admittedly been super-annoyed at how they always sweep under the rug the stuff done by the male leads and the female lead is not given the sane privilege.
What annoys me is that it is happening over the Anuyani raabta overdose which, admittedly, I'm no fan of either.
It's super annoying to insert Anuyani everywhere... my wish was rot HarThak to get a story where their issues come to a boiling point and explode.
Later, eventually at some point they could have had a story where we see Anuyani in disagreement as well and how they deal with it.
This current nonsense is by no means what I signed up for.