virat as a husband - Page 2

No, that spineless coward deserves no-one. He can rot alone for the rest of his life with his disgusting family and their so called maryaada and respect.

Is he the husband I dream off, that I would want? No, he definitely isn't the spitting image of my dream husband. I have two main issues with him, first him blindly trusting his ghar ke bade and not being able to be firm with them and PP, not being able to defend/stand up for your wife at times she needs most. He has done it e.g. during MahaShivratri but he's not consistent in it. Not standing up for Aai and Devi Tai. My second issue would be him normalising that Sai, the ladies have to do all the household work, waking up at 4:30AM.

I also know however that he's good at heart, he has stood by Sai at times, he fought for her studies, he realises his mistakes, regrets them and does learn from them (to some extent). He always respects Sai's wish and treats her as an equal. When you first meet someone, you'll probably only meet the good side of that person. Knowing myself, I would have easily fallen in love with someone like that. Would I leave him getting to know his other sides? Probably not

They say that love makes you blind, I dissagree. True love makes you see, accept and come to terms with your partners shortcomings. So once, fallen in love, I'd accept him as a husband, as he is good at heart. Moreover, someone had written somewhere that no one is a born husband, he's learning stuff and he'll continue learning. Him not clearing Vaada and this leading to my humiliation? That would maybe the first time I'd think about leaving. But someone had explained his POV well, not that it justifies it, not at all, but it makes me understand him better. So I can't answer in yes or no, lots of stuff depends on the context.

Another element worth considering is his family. The toxicity that they live in, it's impossible, I wouldn't be able to do it, not for a deal shaadi. If I'm actually in love with Virat and everything is cleared between us? Than I'd expect him to support me more against the CNshit and as they say nothing is difficult when you have your partners back.

Haven't watched last two episodes yet however, so my opinion may change a bit.

I don't want a husband exactly like him. This is my personal opinion.

I want these qualities in my husband which Virat has,

1)I am a short-tempered person like Sai. She says some things in her anger which she doesn't mean. But still, he understands her and doesn't think bad about her. This he did this even before their marriage.

2) his caring nature

3)He has one best quality. He does mistakes (why he does is not the point here), but when he realises he has guts to accept the mistakes and has no ego to apologise.

After reading few of comments here where girls are ok and happy to have husband like virat i think they are not married nd that is why they are ok with virat’s standing all dumb nd spineless infront of his family’s where he let his wife to be humiliated nd insulted nd accused as a lier by his dil ke ache family members,,, but in real life if a husband doesn’t take stand for his wife infront of his parents where parents love to insult their daughter inlaw then the life of such wife’s becomes horrible,,, sai can be impulsive nd little immature in handling her married life but she is definitely intelligent, caring, loving nd also mature enough to deal with outsiders...she needs little guidance how to control her anger not to react impulsively,,,, Thank God I’m married to a person who is no where like virat,,, there are many things sometimes small sometimes big where there is nok jhok between daughter inlaw nd mother in law it is husband who balance both but never degrade one to glorify other... na hi maa ko beizzat karo biwi ke liye aur na hi biwi ko beizzat karo maa ke liye,,,

but here in this show virat has never respected his Aai.... jisne maa ko kabhi family walo se humiliate hote defend nhi kiya wo sai ko kya karega,,

If in yesterday’s episode virat has put full stop to everyone’s bad mouth by taking sai’s side specially pakhi when pakhi called sai as a nurse nd was ready to pay for her services then today’s drama would have never happened,,, if he would have questioned pakhi for bringing his personal life infront of whole family’s sai would have not brought their personal vada infront of whole family.... it is always virat’s spineless behaviour that caused sai to go to that extend

I mean they are ok to have virat as a husband just because sai called out their vada infront of whole family which is actually a truth not a accusation only,,, they are ok to have virat as a husband who has no guts to take his blame to himself rather he put sai in a bad lights by lying about his vada things and I’m wondering how they can be so ok to have virat as a husband 🙄🧐 where some one called a wife husband’s nurse 😡 ardhangni, life partner to suna tha per nurse bhi hoti hai wife that too with payment by hubby’s so called 2 days wala yoga pyar pahli bar suna hai🤓

Originally posted by: Rose-13

After reading few of comments here where girls are ok and happy to have husband like virat i think they are not married nd that is why they are ok with virat’s standing all dumb nd spineless infront of his family’s where he let his wife to be humiliated nd insulted nd accused as a lier by his dil ke ache family members,,, but in real life if a husband doesn’t take stand for his wife infront of his parents where parents love to insult their daughter inlaw then the life of such wife’s becomes horrible,,, sai can be impulsive nd little immature in handling her married life but she is definitely intelligent, caring, loving nd also mature enough to deal with outsiders...she needs little guidance how to control her anger not to react impulsively,,,, Thank God I’m married to a person who is no where like virat,,, there are many things sometimes small sometimes big where there is nok jhok between daughter inlaw nd mother in law it is husband who balance both but never degrade one to glorify other... na hi maa ko beizzat karo biwi ke liye aur na hi biwi ko beizzat karo maa ke liye,,,

but here in this show virat has never respected his Aai.... jisne maa ko kabhi family walo se humiliate hote defend nhi kiya wo sai ko kya karega,,

If in yesterday’s episode virat has put full stop to everyone’s bad mouth by taking sai’s side specially pakhi when pakhi called sai as a nurse nd was ready to pay for her services then today’s drama would have never happened,,, if he would have questioned pakhi for bringing his personal life infront of whole family’s sai would have not brought their personal vada infront of whole family.... it is always virat’s spineless behaviour that caused sai to go to that extend

I mean they are ok to have virat as a husband just because sai called out their vada infront of whole family which is actually a truth not a accusation only,,, they are ok to have virat as a husband who has no guts to take his blame to himself rather he put sai in a bad lights by lying about his vada things and I’m wondering how they can be so ok to have virat as a husband 🙄🧐 where some one called a wife husband’s nurse 😡 ardhangni, life partner to suna tha per nurse bhi hoti hai wife that too with payment by hubby’s so called 2 days wala yoga pyar pahli bar suna hai🤓

Bold : do people need to show u their marriage certificate that whether they r married or not ?

Originally posted by: Rose-13

After reading few of comments here where girls are ok and happy to have husband like virat i think they are not married nd that is why they are ok with virat’s standing all dumb nd spineless infront of his family’s where he let his wife to be humiliated nd insulted nd accused as a lier by his dil ke ache family members,,, but in real life if a husband doesn’t take stand for his wife infront of his parents where parents love to insult their daughter inlaw then the life of such wife’s becomes horrible,,, sai can be impulsive nd little immature in handling her married life but she is definitely intelligent, caring, loving nd also mature enough to deal with outsiders...she needs little guidance how to control her anger not to react impulsively,,,, Thank God I’m married to a person who is no where like virat,,, there are many things sometimes small sometimes big where there is nok jhok between daughter inlaw nd mother in law it is husband who balance both but never degrade one to glorify other... na hi maa ko beizzat karo biwi ke liye aur na hi biwi ko beizzat karo maa ke liye,,,

but here in this show virat has never respected his Aai.... jisne maa ko kabhi family walo se humiliate hote defend nhi kiya wo sai ko kya karega,,

If in yesterday’s episode virat has put full stop to everyone’s bad mouth by taking sai’s side specially pakhi when pakhi called sai as a nurse nd was ready to pay for her services then today’s drama would have never happened,,, if he would have questioned pakhi for bringing his personal life infront of whole family’s sai would have not brought their personal vada infront of whole family.... it is always virat’s spineless behaviour that caused sai to go to that extend

I mean they are ok to have virat as a husband just because sai called out their vada infront of whole family which is actually a truth not a accusation only,,, they are ok to have virat as a husband who has no guts to take his blame to himself rather he put sai in a bad lights by lying about his vada things and I’m wondering how they can be so ok to have virat as a husband 🙄🧐 where some one called a wife husband’s nurse 😡 ardhangni, life partner to suna tha per nurse bhi hoti hai wife that too with payment by hubby’s so called 2 days wala yoga pyar pahli bar suna hai🤓

To the point darling. Loving it. Speak your mind always okay. Ppl are touchy here. Tc

Originally posted by: Niranjan256

Will marry when he grows a spine. No girls deserve that manipulative, abusive coward

Loving the comments here. Finally IF is treating Virat for who he is- spineless, manipulative abuser.

Pls add Gaslighter

Originally posted by: Bana

Pls add Gaslighter

Sorry, itna bada adjective list hai, missed some 😂

Spineless, manipulative, abuser, gas-lighter, a man handler, coward, toxic, escapist, hypocrite, non confrontational, double standards. Lekin yeh sab he will do with tears and sweet talks na.

Virat is a good human being. But today he was in most toughest situation. His wife said if he will say the truth today she will leave him forever. She was washing their dirty linen in public.i m a very private person so I could relate with virat at that point.like he shared his past with her,and then she was accusing him on the basis of his past,bringing his past in front of everyone without his consent,accusing him of Ema.i m sorry but all these things are not so easy for a person to digest and then take a stand for his wife. Though he should have.but there is a difference between what we should and what we actually do.noone is Saint.

Though I like aishya. She was amazing. I could understand sai situation too.her outburst. But this girl don't know when to stop. Dude Noone is taking u seriously. Ur well wishers are asking u to quiet.its not like u have to win every argument and until then u won't stop.

And on top it,three day drama and result is 0.she will be back and play not Jhonk with virat and hum saath saath hai with family.

Sai such act always put a salted taste in my mouth when I know she will frgt everything and back to normal.

In real life,no husband can stand wife like sai nor wife can stand husband like virat.

No women in the right frame of her mind will want a husband like virat