High voltage! - Page 3

Yes he was always like that.

But hasn't the pain of almost losing his wife taught him anything? Hasn't he learned to set some boundaries with his family members - whom he now knows hates Sai and will leave no stone unturned to humiliate her and to even try to get her to leave the house?

Well, if he has not learnt anything from his experience, why should one watch this wimp and his damn 'love' story.

Originally posted by: LadyWhistledown

Hey Neeru (hope I can call you that😳)

I can understand why you're still trying to hold on to something that'll make the ship watchable. I did the same thing too till the Harinee birthday track😆. And yes, you can help but ship SaiRat for what they once were and the undeniable chemistry that Neil has with Ayesha. But now, I know that I'll be losing my sanity if I continue watching to this show. And I cannot bring myself to ship Sai with Virat because she's in an abusive household and in situations where Sai is the victim, Virat gaslights her into thinking that she's at fault too.

And I cannot ship them no longer, because even I'm a victim of an abusive relationship where I was gaslit into thinking that I'm the only person who's at fault and that I don't deserve anything good. I know that it's a TV show, but sometimes you can't help but relate.

In fact, I've already started writing a story where Sai moves on from CN and actually finds a healthy love😆.

Love,

Niya🤗

Niya, I'm so very sorry to hear of your personal experience of an abusive relationship. Unlike your experience where the incidents of this tv show make you recall your bad life experiences, I am someone who has not had any relationship experience whatsoever. So i am in all my naivete still thinking of this as the endgame, Sairat as soulmates. But i also do run into too many issues with the lack of sensitivity displayes by makers when they potray a couple. But neil ayesha have such a fantastic chemistry that its hard to let go....but agar aise hi chalta raha then yes I also do see myself losing interest in Sairat ki pyaar ki kahaani. I am appalled by how casually the abuse and crimes of every member of CN has been brushed away. Infact I had made a post about that a few days back- even if they wanted to show hum saath saath hai- the least they could do was show the family members have at least some regret and guilt for their actions. But here these vultures are whitewashed as dil ke acche even though we dont see a single instance of their acchai. In the process of this brutal copy paste of KD and their need for mindless melodrama they are butchering the leads. Virat is butchered into being the ML that cant raise his voice for the woman he claims to love and being the slowest dumbest ACP to exist and Sai by choosing to stay with virat and this family of vultures rather than choosing her self respect.

You have summarized the episode and its impact very eloquently

The only reason i can give Virat for not acknowledging the past is the impact it might have on samrat and pakhi's marriage when samrat comes back. I think he is still holding on to that hope, and he has told Pakhi very clearly what he thinks of her.

at least with the precap there is hope that this drama will end so a new drama can start 😊

Today episode left me mute like Virat 🤔🙊.Virat was so so embarrassed and he regretted every thing he said during their marriage. Tho I couldn't feel sorry for him. I thought he is grey but today he looked stupid. Both pakhi and Sai were waiting for him to answer. Both women wanted assurance from him. Pakhi wanted to hear that they were special friends and sai wanted him to accept the truth to let her free. She was clear that either you choose to be my husband or continue to do what pakhi wants.

I guess today it's pretty much clear that Chavans don't root for EMA. For them only when you get physical it's EMA😆. But how fair it is that bhabi gets to interfere between husband and wife.

Today also is the proof the Pakhi can't take NO for an answer. Control freak obsessed woman. She brought Deviyany's topic because Kaku was little bit greatfull towards Sai for her daughter. Now she is insecure about Kaku and Sai.😆

Sorry to say this, but this is getting out of hand now. Maybe Virat and KBA actually deserve each other. KBA thinks she is a victim because of her own delusions and feeling Sai came between her and her one true love. Virat seems to think he is a victim because Sai doesn’t understand his unsaid, undeclared love for her that he shows in an undulating graph of complete trust and disgusting blame. They should be together and leave poor Sai alone. This is completely a toxic environment for a girl barely out of her teens. She is being made to feel that she is at fault for things out of her control, and she has no one, no backup system to even protect her. I work with orphan and destitute girls of her age and I know how much mental trauma is caused by such things. Absolutely appalled.

Originally posted by: archanan14

Sorry to say this, but this is getting out of hand now. Maybe Virat and KBA actually deserve each other. KBA thinks she is a victim because of her own delusions and feeling Sai came between her and her one true love. Virat seems to think he is a victim because Sai doesn’t understand his unsaid, undeclared love for her that he shows in an undulating graph of complete trust and disgusting blame. They should be together and leave poor Sai alone. This is completely a toxic environment for a girl barely out of her teens. She is being made to feel that she is at fault for things out of her control, and she has no one, no backup system to even protect her. I work with orphan and destitute girls of her age and I know how much mental trauma is caused by such things. Absolutely appalled.

You are absolutely right. No woman can live a healthy life there. Sai should go away and pursue her studies and career. That s the sane thing to do now for an independent woman like her. In a modern age like this they should not show such things where a woman is constantly going through all this and her husband who claims to love her is not able to do anything.😭