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Posted: 4 years ago
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Sai has ripped pp to shreds but virat also had to bear the brunt of her attack. His silence and lack of clarity has painted a picture where Sai feels like she has no haq on him even though she desperately craves it. She wants to be the only woman in his life but unfortunately his ambivalence had led to her insecurities growing. This is an outburst of pain.

I did think it was not entirely fair for Sai to club virat and pp together because the accusations on pp are 100% true but those on virat are only 50-75% true. He has postponed clarifying his stance about pp for so long that Sai has now gone out of control. Eventually i do think she will regret what she said about Virat's character. But for now unfortunately his silence makes her doubt him.

I dont think Sai has ever doubted Virat of physical infidelity but i think she certainly considers his soft corner for pp as emotional infidelity because she is NOT privy to the virat pp conversations. So while she knows Virat is righteous and wouldn't cross the line physically, emotions are not in ones hands. She believes that Virat is only held back by his zimmedari- to her, to Samrat and to family izzat and maryaada but otherwise he still loves pp.

But i wish Virat had in the heat of the emotions said something to show Sai n PP that he has moved on...maybe if he had said what aai/mohit said- past mein kuch bhi hua ho, abhi sach ye hai ki tum meri patni ho aur pp Samrat ki. I feel like that statement should've come from Virat.

As I watched the epi, I was rooting for Sai because of the way Ayesha performed it. You can see her hurt. You can see that she is asking Virat to pick a side- pp or her. Because if he is going to accept her as "wife" she will not tolerate another woman in his mindspace or in their physical space who has illicit intentions towards her husband. For almost 80% of the outburst, Sai was careful to only accuse Pp, not virat. Unfortunately the dialogue writers messed up in some parts.

But despite rooting for Sai, I did feel a little bad for Virat because we as audience are not only privy to his changed feelings and stance but also to how he has always been conscious to not cross any lines as far as possible but he is paying the price for the words- both said and unsaid. He made a promise without enough thought to pp and showed irrational trust in pp even though he barely knew her and gave her too much leverage in his life. Whereas he has left a lot of things unsaid in matters of Sai- whether that be speaking up against how she is treated by pp n family- he only reacts in extreme situations but has let too many things slide for the sake of avoiding confrontation which unfortunately have all now added up to make Sai feel she has no importance in his life other than being an unwanted zimmedari .

Pp has violated all decency and she deserves to hear everything Sai said. It was good to see pp be called out to such an extent that for the most part she was silenced. But despite all that pp - the vile woman has the audacity to spew more lies. She steers the discussion from her to something else entirely and once again falsely accuses Sai of brainwashing devi against bk, family and her. Pp is such a despicable person. There is no need for brainwashing to hate her. Anyone that has a conscience and knows right vs wrong will automatically hate pp. Its only those that are selfish, opportunistic like her- bk, ninad , omi, sonali, karishma who will support her.

In all this high voltage drama there were 3 poignant moments for me- Sai telling aai how she knows Ashwini understands the pain of being second fiddle or not being the priority of your husband. But no one paid heed to that comment.

And we saw that brief moment where Sai almost twists her leg and Virat instinctively reaches out to steady her.

And the scene where Sairat recall his words during their marriage- Sai is recalling it with pain because those words have bound her to a loveless marriage where she is struggling to get over her attachment/feelings for a man who is technically hers- her husband, her better helf- but she cannot exert any haq on him because she has been told not to have any expectations. Virat too is recalling it but with regret. Regret of not being able to go back and erase that or maybe regret of not being able to convey to his wife that it is only her that matters in his life.

Precap has bk dragging pp into virats room to gain sympathy for pp but Virat is seen asking if Sai is back from college and Sai in pulkits house saying- if he cares, he will figure out or try to find me himself and she is not going to tell him her whereabouts.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Wow you have put all the observations well. nothing more to add. I had same experience.


Best thing for me is that all family members in one way or the other reminded Pakhi of her status...Samrat's wife and they expect her to behave like one. 🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Agree with everything but I differ..I did not feel bad for Virat since now I don’t want to connect to his so called love realisation for Sai. Even Jagtap is a far better lover than Virat who is an emotional abuser which is more dangerous. Jagtap anyday is a sincere lover. So no sympathy for Virat. I think Rono and Vikram are better in these episodes as per the clippings. So..that’s it.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I don’t have an ounce of sympathy for Virat. This mess is partially of his own making. If he had the courage to open his mouth whenever pp verbally abused his wife, things wouldn’t have come to the brink.

Edited by Lostin90s - 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Agree with everything but I differ..I did not feel bad for Virat since now I don’t want to connect to his so called love realisation for Sai. Even Jagtap is a far better lover than Virat who is an emotional abuser which is more dangerous. Jagtap anyday is a sincere lover. So no sympathy for Virat. I think Rono and Vikram are better in these episodes as per the clippings. So..that’s it.

Hmm..i think thats a little much. To equate Virat to jagtap. I am also VERY upset with Virat yesterday and today too where he didnt speak up! But today I could also see his pain. I dont think he is "ghatiya" like pp. But he did err when he made that stupid promise. A Promise if made with full sincerity is a big deal. It cannot be something done casually in the heat of a moment without thinking through the consequences as Virat did with pp. Unfortunately he is now paying the price of getting carried away.

And I do think that its high time he picks a side and clearly demonstrates to everyone that he picks Sai. Always. its important that he establishes that Sai is his priority.

But today as a viewer i could see Virats pain too - the pain of not being able to entirely deny the allegations but at the same time not being able to own and accept it either because he is way over a 2 day infatuation and accepting it will lead to further misunderstanding where pp will become more delusional than she is and Sai will walk away. But denying it makes Sai a liar which Virat knows she us NOT. He is caught in the web of his own words both said and unsaid.

But for the most part we do know Virats sincerity n earnestness towards Sai. Unfortunately it is his lack of being able to fully let go of his guilt and soft corner towards pp that gets in the way of him being able to show that. I do wish he learns to speak up before its too late. The delay in him speaking up leads to all the problems.

also he really needs to stop expecting Sai to understand his silence. He couldn't understand her unsaid plea for her haq as wife or her pain at not being #1 in his life either. But atleast Sai has always been clear about what her question/trouble/issue is. Maybe someday they will both read each others silences too. But that takes years of companionship. Communication is key.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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They are butchering Virat.

Atleast they could have made him say something. If he has guts, accept the truth or if he doesn't deny it.

What do the writers want to show by showing him silent?


Yes, NB has amazing expressions, but give him fkcing dialogues for our sake. OR atleast mind voice.


Even actress playing Sonali and Karishma have amazing expressions, but we don't give a flying fk to their expression except appreciating it.


Just sad that they are clubbing Virat with side actors whose main role is just to show reactions to any major punches.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lostin90s

I don’t have an ounce of sympathy for Virat. This mess is partially of his own making. If he had the courage to open his mouth whenever pp verbally abused his wife, things wouldn’t have come to the brink.


I do agree about how a big part of the mess is due to him not being able to speak up at the right time. But i do feel bad to see him get clubbed in the same bracket as pp. pp just cannot understand that NO means NO and she is cunning, vile, shameless. Whereas Virat genuinely does want to do right by everyone so yes he really needed this wake up call! Hopefully atleast after this show down he will not stay quiet! Atleast he needs to demonstrate that he HAS picked a side and that is Sai. And thats always n forever!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I really wish virat does not gets angry when he will come to know about sai stay over Fulkit at least he must have a bit of sympathy for that poor girl who he had proved a liar

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I just watched in bits and pieces today didn't really want to watch the episode. so thank you for the update Neerja..


I so hope Samrat smacks virat! he needs it! I'm hoping with a smacking he will learn to speak at the right time! and no comments on PP and her acting! whats most disheartening is virat was a part in proving sai a liar and made her look like a fool! He did come across as a little selfish, trying to cover his own ass along with that idiot PP!

Now brace yourselves for another huge argument once sai returns from Pulkits house! I wish they didn't copy KD scene to scene, It not always pleasant...

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nja91

Hmm..i think thats a little much. To equate Virat to jagtap. I am also VERY upset with Virat yesterday and today too where he didnt speak up! But today I could also see his pain. I dont think he is "ghatiya" like pp. But he did err when he made that stupid promise. A Promise if made with full sincerity is a big deal. It cannot be something done casually in the heat of a moment without thinking through the consequences as Virat did with pp. Unfortunately he is now paying the price of getting carried away.

And I do think that its high time he picks a side and clearly demonstrates to everyone that he picks Sai. Always. its important that he establishes that Sai is his priority.

But today as a viewer i could see Virats pain too - the pain of not being able to entirely deny the allegations but at the same time not being able to own and accept it either because he is way over a 2 day infatuation and accepting it will lead to further misunderstanding where pp will become more delusional than she is and Sai will walk away. But denying it makes Sai a liar which Virat knows she us NOT. He is caught in the web of his own words both said and unsaid.

But for the most part we do know Virats sincerity n earnestness towards Sai. Unfortunately it is his lack of being able to fully let go of his guilt and soft corner towards pp that gets in the way of him being able to show that. I do wish he learns to speak up before its too late. The delay in him speaking up leads to all the problems.

also he really needs to stop expecting Sai to understand his silence. He couldn't understand her unsaid plea for her haq as wife or her pain at not being #1 in his life either. But atleast Sai has always been clear about what her question/trouble/issue is. Maybe someday they will both read each others silences too. But that takes years of companionship. Communication is key.

Yes Jagtap is a villain and Virat is very good in terms of charecter and integrity but despite all his flaws Jagtap would have been a better husband to Sai than Virat. Leave alone his promise and the trash ..why is he silent when PP is blaming Sai for brainwashing Devi Tai? Shouldn’t he shut her up Atleast then? What is the use of being a good at heart husband when he could not even stand up for her Atleast once out of the hundred abuses she faced today and yesterday? Sometimes villains make for good husbands..history vouches the fact and heroes fail to protect the dignity of their wives.

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