Chidiya aur rishte

I know weird title for the topic😆

Anyways,

While watching the episode tonight especially Virat Patralekha scene, something occurred to me, something that I had read somewhere. I don't remember where though.

Rishte hatheli mein pakde chidiya jaise hote hain. Agar mutthi poori khol do to chidiya ud jayegi aur agar zyada jakad ke rakho to dum ghut ghut ke mar jayegi. Theek usi tarah agar rishte ko zyada khulla chhod do to hath se phisal jata hai aur zyada pakad ke rakho to dum tod deta hai. Yahan khula rakhne se matlab hai ki use paas rakhne ki (sambhalne ki) koshish na karna. Mutthi ko is tarah se band karna padta hai ki na rishte ki chidiya ud jaye aur na hi dum ghuntkar mar jaye.

Coming to our characters--

Virat to Patralekha: Virat ne is rishte ko pakad ke rakhne ki koshish nahi ki. Bahut aasani se usne Patralekha ko apne bhai ka ho jane diya. (Mutthi khol di) aur rishta ud gaya.

Patralekha to Virat: Wo apne pyar mein Virat ko bandh kar rakh Lena chahti hai. Aaj uski chinta dekhkar uske liye bura laga lekin ye bhi dikhai diya ki uske is pyar se Virat ka dum ghuntta hai. (Mutthi kaskar band kar rakhi hai)

Sairat: Sai aur Virat ek dusre ko space bhi dete hain e.g. Sai ne Virat ke shadi se pehle hi batayi gayi baton ka maan rakha. Virat ne Sai ki Identity (name change incident) aur uske sapne ka maan rakha. Donon ne ek doosre ko azadi di lekin ek dusre par kabhi haq nahi chhoda. (mutthi dheeli, khuli nahi)

But they are not perfect. They have made mistakes which have impacted them negatively.

Virat to Sai: usne Sai ko Pulkit Deshpande ke ghar jane se zabardasti rokne ki koshish ki (mutthi band) use badi aasani se ghar se nikal diya (mutthi khuli)

Sai to Virat: Usne Pulkit Deshpande ke issue mein Virat ke pov ko bilkul importance nahi di. Like he had no say. He felt helpless (mutthi band). She brings the vada and zimmedari between them and pushes him away from her (mutthi khuli)

Every time Sairat have tried to control or push away each other, they have suffered consequences.

But what makes their relationship still survive is the fact that

Virat has the ability to acknowledge and apologise for his mistakes. He tries to heal her pain.

Sai to Virat: she has the ability to care without being controlling and despite everything else.

Together they are learning to preserve their relationship like a little bird in their hands😳

Beautifully written 😍

You have very nicely presented the relationship status of SaiRat and Virat-pakhi...

Originally posted by: ssoujanya

Beautifully written 😍

You have very nicely presented the relationship status of SaiRat and Virat-pakhi...

Very nice analogy!

The freedom Virat gives Sai and the total trust she has in him in spite of everything the family throws between them is truly beautiful.

Originally posted by: AparnaRenu

Very nice analogy!

The freedom Virat gives Sai and the total trust she has in him in spite of everything the family throws between them is truly beautiful.

Yes. This is how the bond they share survive and thrive ❤️

Wow! So beautifully explained. Loved it .❤️

Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

I know weird title for the topic😆

Anyways,

While watching the episode tonight especially Virat Patralekha scene, something occurred to me, something that I had read somewhere. I don't remember where though.

Rishte hatheli mein pakde chidiya jaise hote hain. Agar mutthi poori khol do to chidiya ud jayegi aur agar zyada jakad ke rakho to dum ghut ghut ke mar jayegi. Theek usi tarah agar rishte ko zyada khulla chhod do to hath se phisal jata hai aur zyada pakad ke rakho to dum tod deta hai. Yahan khula rakhne se matlab hai ki use paas rakhne ki (sambhalne ki) koshish na karna. Mutthi ko is tarah se band karna padta hai ki na rishte ki chidiya ud jaye aur na hi dum ghuntkar mar jaye.

Coming to our characters--

Virat to Patralekha: Virat ne is rishte ko pakad ke rakhne ki koshish nahi ki. Bahut aasani se usne Patralekha ko apne bhai ka ho jane diya. (Mutthi khol di) aur rishta ud gaya.

Patralekha to Virat: Wo apne pyar mein Virat ko bandh kar rakh Lena chahti hai. Aaj uski chinta dekhkar uske liye bura laga lekin ye bhi dikhai diya ki uske is pyar se Virat ka dum ghuntta hai. (Mutthi kaskar band kar rakhi hai)

Sairat: Sai aur Virat ek dusre ko space bhi dete hain e.g. Sai ne Virat ke shadi se pehle hi batayi gayi baton ka maan rakha. Virat ne Sai ki Identity (name change incident) aur uske sapne ka maan rakha. Donon ne ek doosre ko azadi di lekin ek dusre par kabhi haq nahi chhoda. (mutthi dheeli, khuli nahi)

But they are not perfect. They have made mistakes which have impacted them negatively.

Virat to Sai: usne Sai ko Pulkit Deshpande ke ghar jane se zabardasti rokne ki koshish ki (mutthi band) use badi aasani se ghar se nikal diya (mutthi khuli)

Sai to Virat: Usne Pulkit Deshpande ke issue mein Virat ke pov ko bilkul importance nahi di. Like he had no say. He felt helpless (mutthi band). She brings the vada and zimmedari between them and pushes him away from her (mutthi khuli)

Every time Sairat have tried to control or push away each other, they have suffered consequences.

But what makes their relationship still survive is the fact that

Virat has the ability to acknowledge and apologise for his mistakes. He tries to heal her pain.

Sai to Virat: she has the ability to care without being controlling and despite everything else.

Together they are learning to preserve their relationship like a little bird in their hands😳

Very good analogy! Its very true especially in a husband-wife relationship.

@bold: Very true. Virat acknowledges his mistakes and tries to correct them. I wish Sai would also do that way.

I agree that Virat's share of mistakes especially wrt Patralekha is much much larger and hence the good things abt Virat and the bad things abt Sai (arrogance, not looking from others pov, neighborhood kaand etc) are being sidelined. I just hope once the Virakhi relationship is clarified, they will take Sais shortcomings and make her apologize and rectify the same too. Right now its being portrayed as if Sai is always right and mahaan!

Originally posted by: vimeo

Very good analogy! Its very true especially in a husband-wife relationship.

@bold: Very true. Virat acknowledges his mistakes and tries to correct them. I wish Sai would also do that way.

I agree that Virat's share of mistakes especially wrt Patralekha is much much larger and hence the good things abt Virat and the bad things abt Sai (arrogance, not looking from others pov, neighborhood kaand etc) are being sidelined. I just hope once the Virakhi relationship is clarified, they will take Sais shortcomings and make her apologize and rectify the same too. Right now its being portrayed as if Sai is always right and mahaan!

I have no hopes. Because she is female lead😆

kay misal di hai apne rishteao ki wonderfull 🤗👏

rishte bhand kar nahi rakhte papi virat ko apne vaade se bhand kar rakhna chahti hai jo galat hai woh kisi ki patni hai yeh woh sab sochna nahi chahti usko sai se virat ko cheen na hai.

aur sai virat ko chode kar jana chahti hai uske vaade ke liye woh jaan buj kar deal lekar ati hai virat ki khushi ke liye woh kuch bhi karegi.

virat dono sai aur papi ko saath rakhna chahta hai jo pssible nahi hai virat ek confused person hai usko jo karna hai woh nahi karta baat ko gol gol ghuma deta hai dekha jaye toh virat ko sai se pyaar GC mein hi hua par woh pakhi ke vade se bhanda tha ehsass nahi hua ab woh clear hai par himat nahi hai bolne ki .

ab jo ghar walao ke samne ayega woh wohi bole ga jo sach hai pakhi ko jaanta tha par pyaar ka izher nahi kara haldi mein mila hai woh vada zaroor kara kyun ke pakhi shaadi tode na chahti thi virat ko apne ghar walao aur bhai ki izzat bachana tha islye woh pakhi se vaada kiya.

Originally posted by: kahkashansakina

kay misal di hai apne rishteao ki wonderfull 🤗👏

rishte bhand kar nahi rakhte papi virat ko apne vaade se bhand kar rakhna chahti hai jo galat hai woh kisi ki patni hai yeh woh sab sochna nahi chahti usko sai se virat ko cheen na hai.

aur sai virat ko chode kar jana chahti hai uske vaade ke liye woh jaan buj kar deal lekar ati hai virat ki khushi ke liye woh kuch bhi karegi.

virat dono sai aur papi ko saath rakhna chahta hai jo pssible nahi hai virat ek confused person hai usko jo karna hai woh nahi karta baat ko gol gol ghuma deta hai dekha jaye toh virat ko sai se pyaar GC mein hi hua par woh pakhi ke vade se bhanda tha ehsass nahi hua ab woh clear hai par himat nahi hai bolne ki .

ab jo ghar walao ke samne ayega woh wohi bole ga jo sach hai pakhi ko jaanta tha par pyaar ka izher nahi kara haldi mein mila hai woh vada zaroor kara kyun ke pakhi shaadi tode na chahti thi virat ko apne ghar walao aur bhai ki izzat bachana tha islye woh pakhi se vaada kiya.