Karan out on bail "if investigation conducted, truth will be revealed" - Page 2

Originally posted by: _charu_

True that...its.not bec I was once upon a time Karan fan, but the woman comes.across as mean to me..however it's difficult to judge..mujhe toh dono hi culprit lagte hain..

See how she is telling ke she still.loves Karan.. aisa hota hai.kya? ..we don't wanna hear their inside stories..settle mutually and get done with it for the sake of the child.

Yepp. Same here. It has nothing to do with the fact that I used to admire Karan, but Nisha comes across as mean many a times. Definitely, both must have done something wrong to each other, we cannot just blame one. Like Nisha is blaming just Karan.

But I certainly don't believe in Nisha's cooked up stories. Karan is still recovering from Covid and she is doing this. It's hard to imagine all this and then this involves a little child Kavish.

I just hope, they sort it out amicably and don't become sight of entertainment because of their personal issues. Nisha is deliberately doing this to get alimony it seems. She could have peacefully sorted it out with Karan.

Originally posted by: Sense9

OmG! I didnt even know they were getting divorced and things have turned so ugly.

Same here. I believed in their instagram posts as well, but it turns out that nope, there was much more to the things which meets the eyes. I just wish this would have not happened.

I don't think we can pass judgements about who is wrong or doing things for ulterior motives. That is the judge's job. We don't even know the whole truth when relatives or friends get divorced. Then how can we make assumptions about celebrities we don't even know?

I just think things are out of both of their hands now. All we know is that Nisha was hurt (by whoever). Karan got arrested & the whole media reported it. So obviously he had to give a statement to defend himself. Once Karan gave a statement, obviously Nisha had to too.

Just praying that it get resolved without any more trauma or public drama for the child & family's sake

Agar karan itna bura hai to yeh sab nisha kyun bol rahi thi ?!😲

Because

1) Things change. This post is FIVE years old.

2) Relationships are complicated & multilayered.

3) Even in this post she mentioned a hint about having relationship issues & thinking about leaving.

We are not judges. We don't have all the details. Let's stop acting like we know them.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Agar karan itna bura hai to yeh sab nisha kyun bol rahi thi ?!😲

If we take her word for it that he's been abusing her for years and she was putting up with it, it is not surprising or unbelievable that just for show in front of the world she was faking being happy with her husband or praising/ defending him.

You can have an abusive partner and still put up a good front about your partner in front of the world. Again this is not me believing her words, because it could very well be that nisha is the abusive one and karan is putting up with her or it could be both are toxic and abusive towards each other but trying to pit sole blame of abuse on to the other, but this is just me saying that just because she in front of media in past has praised and defended her partner does not mean she was not facing any sort of abuse from him.

It's actually pretty natural when you're in a relationship you are not happy in to still be able to show the world and even your other family members that you are a happy and loving couple when you are in denial or not ready to accept that your marriage is not working and when you want to make your marriage work.

It's only when you no longer care for your marriage is when you allow yourself to drop that façade, otherwise until you are willing to let go of your marriage despite it's problems, you do not allow those problems or troublesome marriage to be visible to others. Many couples do this even if they are arguing or having marriage feuds, the same even applies to marriages where abuse is taking place.

And as previous comment said, she gave hints of having marriage problems in this article too.

Originally posted by: usernameyrkkh

Because

1) Things change. This post is FIVE years old.

2) Relationships are complicated & multilayered.

3) Even in this post she mentioned a hint about having relationship issues & thinking about leaving.

We are not judges. We don't have all the details. Let's stop acting like we know them.

Nisha is saying things just after marriage within 1-2 years and he started hitting her within 1-2 years.

So itna taarifo ka phool and dikhava kyun kiya 2016 mai kab ki husband ne already maar pit chalu kar diya tha.

Normal lady bhi maar pit ke baad itna taarif nahi karegi, yeh to celebrity hai , yeh to definitely uske husband ka misbehaviour nahi chalayegi.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Nisha is saying things just after marriage within 1-2 years and he started hitting her within 1-2 years.

So itna taarifo ka phool and dikhava kyun kiya 2016 mai kab ki husband ne already maar pit chalu kar diya tha.

Normal lady bhi maar pit ke baad itna taarif nahi karegi, yeh to celebrity hai , yeh to definitely uske husband ka misbehaviour nahi chalayegi.

This is their personal life... We are no one to judge ... We exactly don't know what were happening in their life..who is wrong who is right how can we judge....

I personally know certain couples really close one who are living in this kind of abusive relationship (again i am not saying karan is abusive or nisha is abusive, or may be both are, we don't know)

There was no physical abuse but there was a verbal abuse plus that guy was mentally torturing her throughout her first pregnancy and unavailable during the time of her delivery... While in front of whole world he put a facade of being very caring husband..and that girl also used to praise him in public....and she thought that one day everything will be fine... Although only 2-3 people were aware of that made her understand to leave him... But she was in that zone that everything will be fine some day may be after delivery... And guess what ... After delivery the child suffered badly because of all that stress she had during pregnancy... And his husband blamed her for everything and most people believed on him coz that girl never complained before to anyone else and also because her husband showed that caring nature in front of everyone... And now she is still in that relationship because of her child....

So you never know... There are 50-50 % chances that may be karan was right or may be nisha was right... We are no one to judge...as we were not there

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Nisha is saying things just after marriage within 1-2 years and he started hitting her within 1-2 years.

So itna taarifo ka phool and dikhava kyun kiya 2016 mai kab ki husband ne already maar pit chalu kar diya tha.

Normal lady bhi maar pit ke baad itna taarif nahi karegi, yeh to celebrity hai , yeh to definitely uske husband ka misbehaviour nahi chalayegi.

Bro, seems like you have no idea how abusive relationships work. Celebrity ho ya regular marriage, movies and TV ki tarah nahi hota ke suddenly Durga Maata ban gaye aur apne abuser ki band bajaa di.

Most people in abusive relationships hide it from the world, act like everything is perfect. In fact I had a friend who was obviously being hit by her partner. But if we asked her about it she would get very defensive and angry, always pretended that she fell down.

It takes many years for most people in abusive relationships to get out of it. In fact, a lot of people never get out. Because physically abusive partners start mental abuse much before the first slap. Jab khud suffer karo, tab hi samajh aata hai.

Karan or Nisha, whoever was being abused, has suffered a lot. Instead of judging them like moholle ke aunties-uncles, let's show some compassion.

Originally posted by: usernameyrkkh

Bro, seems like you have no idea how abusive relationships work. Celebrity ho ya regular marriage, movies and TV ki tarah nahi hota ke suddenly Durga Maata ban gaye aur apne abuser ki band bajaa di.

Most people in abusive relationships hide it from the world, act like everything is perfect. In fact I had a friend who was obviously being hit by her partner. But if we asked her about it she would get very defensive and angry, always pretended that she fell down.

It takes many years for most people in abusive relationships to get out of it. In fact, a lot of people never get out. Because physically abusive partners start mental abuse much before the first slap. Jab khud suffer karo, tab hi samajh aata hai.

Karan or Nisha, whoever was being abused, has suffered a lot. Instead of judging them like moholle ke aunties-uncles, let's show some compassion.

A huge reasons why abused partners often don't speak out about the abuse for a long time and take long to get out of it is because a lot of abusers have a habit of flip-flopping between being abusive, to being apologetic and showing affection to make up for their moments of abusive outbursts. For the abused partner this can be very very confusing where a part of them acknowledges that their partner has mistreated them, but also the abusive partner still appears to love them and care for them. It takes time often for the abused to realise that they in fact have an abusive partner and that the moments of being apologetic and affectionate are just manipulations to keep the abused quiet and pacify them so they don't speak.