Was Sai right in the Precap?

Okay... the episode was so angsty and beautiful, and it would have been amazing if Pakhi's constipated expression wasn't shoved down our throats, and the new lyrics. I was just waiting for it! Ayesha was just brilliant in her scenes, her hurt, her confusion, her sudden awareness that she forgot the deal for a moment there, it was all so beautifully conveyed! A little more work on her dialogue delivery and confrontation scenes, and Ayesha will actually become a fine actress!

Now, coming to the precap, it made my heart sink. Yes, we all know that Sai is pointing out the truth that the audience is aware of, Samrat did leave because he got to know "something" about Virat-Pakhi. He probably thought that they double-crossed him or something. And I can understand that somewhere, Sai is able to relate to the pain Samrat might go through if actually knew the truth, because she's living and experiencing every bit of that pain now.

But whatever was said in the precap, was it right? Keeping aside Virat's stupidities when it comes to Sai and Pakhi, Sai knows how much Virat loves Samrat, and how distressed he is every time he thinks about Samrat being MIA. In fact, every time he worries about Samrat, she is the voice of the reason that tells him that his brother will be back. Even when they were preparing for Harinee's celebration and Virat and Mohit became sad about Samrat, she assured them both.

As much as I can understand Sai's pain after hearing bits and pieces of Virat-PP conversation and her harsh realization that she might still be just a zimmedari and nothing more, I feel that it was a bit extreme of her tell it to Virat's face that he's the reason his beloved Jiva is MIA. Yeah, that might be the truth, but Virat doesn't know that. Virat wasn't aware that Pakhi being the sensible person she is, was shouting on the top of her voice that she loved Virat the night she married Samrat. Even after that, Pakhi told Virat that Samrat probably found out.

Yes, Virat in a way is responsible, because he should have come clean to Samrat, but it was an honest mistake and he misses his brother, to a point where he's willing to give anything to get him back. And no matter how mad Sai is at him, telling him that he's the reason that Samrat isn't back is only going to push Virat away from her. I know that she collectively means him and Pakhi, but it is still bound to hurt Virat. Yes, Virat has to know what this stupid vaada has cost and yes, he should know that Samrat left because of him in a way too. But I think that Samrat should be the one telling this to Virat for him to truly repent. Also, Sai is just assuming, though she hit the nail on the head, and the fact that she can assume such a thing will also rile up Virat.

But for today, kudos to Neil and especially Ayesha, for working their magic on screen!

What do you guys think of this?

Love,

Niya🤗

I dont think she means it in a negative way. Only in a matter of fact way. No one can understand samrata position/feelings better than her. Virat has probably forgotten or blocked the part where pp told him samrat likely overheard her phone conversation with him. Virat probably has blocked away the thought that samrat left "because" of him. Pp already makes him guilty and the thought that samrat is away because of learning the truth will only make him more guilty. Sai does want samrat to come back and confront the truth. In precap, She says what will be his situation/feeling when he comes back. She believes like Virat that samrat is alive and well and will come back home someday soon.

Yes, it'll hurt Virat to hear Sai say samrat left because of him. But i think he already fears that what Sai said out loud is true! So his anger is just a projection of his guilt. Plus virat always expresses his supprrssed anger/frustration ONLY with Sai coz he can afford to.

No matter how mad he is at pp, he barely ever raises his voice with her or seems "harsh" because he really holds himself back. I think thats coz to virat expression of anger is an expression of haq and apnapan.

Sai spoke the truth from which Virat want to escape. He just could not think he was the reason but fact remains fact. Whether Sai said it or not it won’t change.

I don't think she intentionally brought up Samrat's name.. it just went with the flow.. She was hurt but then the circumstances in which her marriage happened, Virat informing her about prior commitment snatches her right to ask, but she does have a lot of unanswered questions and at that moment she just thought of someone sailing in same boat and also has right to ask those questions and I guess she thought of Samrat ..

And Virat getting all riled up.. he was more angry on himself over the fact that He can be one of the possibility of his brother's missing and that thought shook him to the core.. something he did not give a thought to till date

Shes also aloud questioning her own right to feel upset despite knowing everything and says that "if i feel cheated/hurt despite knowing about vaada before marriage then how cheated must Samrat feel. Because Sai knows that samrat obviously didn't know about pp-virat, varna voh shaadi karta hi nahi"

Though I agree that during their fights, Sai tends to hurt Virat. The pre cap seemed more like thinking aloud...how will Samrat feel? Honestly, would Virat and PP have been free enough to have chats if Samrat was around. Or what if he heard such a conversation? I think that's where Sai's coming from.

Though telling him that Samrat may have left because of him was extremely hurtful. In his earnestness to be a best friend, he never thought of his brother's reaction to knowing such a truth. And PP did tell him she suspects he heard. I hope he remembers that bit.

Will comment after the actual scene gets aired. We do not get to know the context of the scene in precap. As Niti has said, it has come in a flow.

Also, why should one want to shy away from asking the truth? It is not alleging but instead it is anger and words from a helpless wife who wants to know how could they be in a relationship or share whatever that it is, bound by a waada when they are married, but doesn't understand how to exercise her rights and question him with liberty. She was able to put 1 and 1 together and has got doubts if Samrat leaving right on the same day as that of his marriage has got to do with their truth. So it is an angry wife who is asking about it, it is a way to express anger.

Virat cannot always wallow in self pity. Her telling that, should make him fight back, come clean and not walk away, it shouldn't push him away, can make him upset and grow angry. He walked away because he was upset, he didn't want to think that way, didn't want it to be the real reason, didn't want to accept if that was the truth, walked away out of fear.

Virat's mistake was not a small one when he got Pakhi and Samrat married hiding their truth. He confessed his love to Samrat's bride on the day of haldi, coerced her to get married to his brother, hid it from his brother and took decision on behalf of his brother. Pakhi is wrong because she has been acting disloyal but Virat's mistake was not small since Samrat went MIA because he heard Pakhi confessing her feelings to Virat, because he felt betrayed by both of them.

Not sure how your id got tagged in my reply. Kindly ignore.

Originally posted by: Nja91

I dont think she means it in a negative way. Only in a matter of fact way. No one can understand samrata position/feelings better than her. Virat has probably forgotten or blocked the part where pp told him samrat likely overheard her phone conversation with him. Virat probably has blocked away the thought that samrat left "because" of him. Pp already makes him guilty and the thought that samrat is away because of learning the truth will only make him more guilty. Sai does want samrat to come back and confront the truth. In precap, She says what will be his situation/feeling when he comes back. She believes like Virat that samrat is alive and well and will come back home someday soon.

Yes, it'll hurt Virat to hear Sai say samrat left because of him. But i think he already fears that what Sai said out loud is true! So his anger is just a projection of his guilt. Plus virat always expresses his supprrssed anger/frustration ONLY with Sai coz he can afford to.

No matter how mad he is at pp, he barely ever raises his voice with her or seems "harsh" because he really holds himself back. I think thats coz to virat expression of anger is an expression of haq and apnapan.

Hey Neerja🤗!

Thank you for helping me see this in a different perspective!

I do agree with you now that I think about it. Maybe Virat does know that he is one of the reasons why Samrat left, but hearing it from Sai's mouth kinda seals it for him and now he's forced to come to terms with the truth.

@bold - even I've seen it too. He only lets himself go vents things out to Aai or Sai because he feels that they are the only two people who understand him and dil se call him own. Though I don't agree with his unnecessary outbursts, he thinks that they might understand him the most.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Sai spoke the truth from which Virat want to escape. He just could not think he was the reason but fact remains fact. Whether Sai said it or not it won’t change.

Hey!

I do agree that what Sai said was true. But what I felt was that by saying this, was making things worse for herself and Virat. But yes, it is the truth that Virat wants to escape from that's why he probably got angry when Sai said it.

Thank you for helping me see the other side of the arguement🤗