Virat in today's episode: Out of character or not?| DT Note P.3 - Page 3

Everyone has mentioned their opinions and pov from the perpective of virat and pakhi, try to analyse this by putting yourself in the shoes of sai and you will realize the enormity of that hand holding.

P.S. I have already ranted enough about this for a day or two so won’t say anything more.

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Originally posted by: LadyWhistledown

Well...

Today's episode was a hit for some reasons and a miss for a great many reasons for me, and definitely, Virat is NOT one of them. Okay. Hear me out. I'm not trying to say that anyone is wrong and I'm not trying to offend anyone.

But the one thing that many people were offended with today was the ViraKhi hand holding during the SaiRat hug. Yes, the ViraKhi hand-holding was unnecessary, and maybe the CVs way of making up to the real couple for the lack of romantic scene, but if you actually look at it that way, is it out of character for Virat to stop Pakhi and thank her? My answer is no.

Let's talk about the Virat that we were introduced to, and witnessed throughout the series. He is shown to be a people pleaser, the one who can't see anyone unhappy at any cost. So, the hand-holding scene where he stopped Pakhi from leaving and thanked her, was very much in tune with his character. For Virat, out of character would have been letting Pakhi go and sulk on her own, despite her "helping" him at his bidding.

And yeah, the fact that it happened during SaiRat's hug. Yeah, that kinda put me off in the beginning too, but I re-watched that moment again to see if I missed something, and I did. After the hug between Devi Tai and Harinee, Virat's first thought was Sai, his first instinct was the share the moment with her. And he did. The hug did last for a brief moment. He had his eyes closed for the first few seconds and he savoured the hug. As he snapped out of the moment and saw Pakhi, it seemed like he wanted to thank her right there, verbally, and the hand-holding only happened because she wanted to leave.

He stopped her to say Thank you because that's the kind of person he is. And his dialogue about asking her not to leave, was not romantic in any way at all. And he didn't even say it as a friend. He wanted her to be part of this happy moment and not leave, because this was a happy moment for the entire Chavan family. And as a member of the Chavan family, and as his brother's wife, he felt that she too should be part of this happy moment.

Again, if the CVs wanted, they could have just had a moment where he verbally thanked her, but then again, now that they have included it too, neither did it seem out of place, nor did it seem like Virat's thank you had some hidden agenda or any confusion of his feelings. It was pure and genuine gratitude, just for the fact that Pakhi did something that he asked her to do, keeping aside her animosity.

Whew! I've typed a lot. Stopping right here. Do drop in your feedbacks too. And I'm really sorry if I offended anyone. Feel free to have a healthy discussion and please no bashing😳

Love,

Niya🤗

First of all this is not a bashing, these are my geniune questions..

What he was thanking Pakhi for: Playing the role in skit, well let me ask how is this that makers everytime every bloody time makes

Virat giving thanks to Pakhi..but do not blast him for her wrongdoings and if done instensity is blah..

Like when he got to know Pakhi knew abt Harini beforehand what was his expression.., woh toh dimag chalta hi nahi ki if she knew about baby she was still instigating him against Pulkit..after knowing about the baby..

And she remembered telling him Pulkit is already married but failed to mention that in entire convo, woh bhi toh badi mami se suna tha..

If there is no partiality by makers why is that Virat is blasting Sai , even for the right thing and Bhabhi's not blasted even her wrong doings are in open.

Aur itna hi thanks karna tha toh pehle Sai ko karwate, she literally did everything from devkit milan, harini matter and idea of skit was hers..

After hug , Virat ko Sai ka face cup karke Thanks bol sakte the, aisa toh nhi tha ki Patralekha mar hi jaati agar tab thanks nhi kaha hota toh.

Baad mei stage se utarkar thanks karwa sakte the??

I don't know makers ka gratitude sai ke liye kahaan jaata hai.

Originally posted by: Jrf2021

Hiii guys,

I read lot of argued about viral holding Pakhi hand while hugging said.and indirectly he is leading pakhi more into her delusion though he is vary much move on.i agree on this part that he has moved on completely from pakhi.he is not minutely involve with pakhi in a romantic way.

But my point is virat is not a kid.he is grown up man.he must know that any interaction from him towards pakhi will lead them nowhere except more misunderstanding and emotional issues.so if he really care about pakhi and sai. Then he should act rationally. He has to ignore pakhi and leave her on her own.he must told her clearly that he love his wife and want to go ahead with his wife.He has ignore pakhi as much as he can.He must also tell sai everything loud and clear.then only he will be able to clean the mess and sought his life.

I will tell u an example of my life. My best friend from childhood fell in love with me during my 1st year of college. Though we know each other from childhood and very fond of each other. But I never loved him in that way

So I refused him.but there was awkwardness between us .we were so uncomfortable around each other. Then I shared that with my mom.she told him to stay away from him and try to restrict yourself in his issues for some time. Then only he will be able to move on .otherwise any step from my side will give him hope and he won't be able to move on.i did that exactly. It was very difficult for me to do so since he was my confidant.But still I did.

And over a period of time both of us come out of that awkward phase and he move on with a girl who love h back and we are to our original best friend relation but we learnt our lesson from past that we are grown up and some boundaries we need to respect.

I wrote this bcoz virat has said he consider pakhi his best friend then he should think about long term welfare of his friend.

I will give an e

@green I agree

@bold exactly

Originally posted by: Sairat

First of all this is not a bashing, these are my geniune questions..

What he was thanking Pakhi for: Playing the role in skit, well let me ask how is this that makers everytime every bloody time makes

Virat giving thanks to Pakhi..but do not blast him for her wrongdoings and if done instensity is blah..

Like when he got to know Pakhi knew abt Harini beforehand what was his expression.., woh toh dimag chalta hi nahi ki if she knew about baby she was still instigating him against Pulkit..after knowing about the baby..

And she remembered telling him Pulkit is already married but failed to mention that in entire convo, woh bhi toh badi mami se suna tha..

If there is no partiality by makers why is that Virat is blasting Sai , even for the right thing and Bhabhi's not blasted even her wrong doings are in open.

Aur itna hi thanks karna tha toh pehle Sai ko karwate, she literally did everything from devkit milan, harini matter and idea of skit was hers..

After hug , Virat ko Sai ka face cup karke Thanks bol sakte the, aisa toh nhi tha ki Patralekha mar hi jaati agar tab thanks nhi kaha hota toh.

Baad mei stage se utarkar thanks karwa sakte the??

I don't know makers ka gratitude sai ke liye kahaan jaata hai.

Did Virat thank Sai in today’s episode? I couldn’t bear to watch full episode so must’ve missed out on it. Did he?

Originally posted by: Roch

Hey Niya, beautifully put. And i echo your thoughts. Thats how that scene was played. It was all in the family. Even in that his first thought was Sai and yes the hug lasted for a moment and he lived that moment. Both did actually.

Virat had no romantic notion when he held her hand, he didnt even look at that direction. He wanted to thank her as he was overwhelmed. He even wanted Sai to stay but she went to Tai.

It may be unnecessary but was not out of place. She did help him on his insistence and he had to be thankful.

Now how does Pakhi take that, its a different story.

Hey!

Thank you for understanding my point! Even I wished that the hug did last longer with nothing disturbing it, but there is a 3rd angle that is bound to stay, whether we want it or not.

@bold - we all know how Pakhi will take it, and that's what the forum members,including me were worried about, but I didn't see any other intentions from Virat's end.

Originally posted by: Nja91

The thank you was not the problem, ruining the hug scene of the lead couple with the handholding of another woman just to say thank you, was. We are anyway going to get virat pp scenes in upcoming so they could have addressed it then.

This was Sairats first voluntary hug, they worked as a team and accomplished their goal. Both were happy. It deserved to be a picture perfect moment without any pointless creativity from director/makers.

Hey Neerja🤗

I totally understand what you are saying, and yes, such a monumental SaiRat moment did not deserve such a distraction, and I do agree that the makers ruined it by incorporating unnecessary elements. I'm just addressing Virat as a character in my post, and how it wasn't out of character for Virat to do that as a people pleaser, and how this thing that he did wasn't as bad the other things😆 that were worth bashing in today's episode.

I really didn't mean to offend you😳

Originally posted by: janecastle

Why in the world should there be ViraKhi romantic scenes?? They might be a couple offscreen, but onscreen they are BIL-SIL. There is a limit of showing such nonsense. The show is not the place for offscreen drama.

Hey!

I do understand where you're coming from, and I have the same questions too. But what I was trying to convey through that sentence was that, we are getting unnecessary ViraKhi moments because of the off-screen dynamics, because some ViraKhi scenes incorporated in the show weren't there in KD either.

But our makers, and probably the actors also, don't understand the difference between personal and professional.

Originally posted by: AparnaRenu

Thank you for writing this!!! Summed up everything I have been thinking about since seeing the episode... and had briefly discussed with Siya.

❤️❤️❤️

Hey!

Thank you for getting what I was trying to convey!

Originally posted by: janecastle

The thing that bothers me is that the thank you could have waited. Didi is not going to disappear from the planet if Virat waited for sometime. He was hugging his wife, the woman he claims to love deeply. So why would thanking Didi become important or necessary for him at that time? That is where the problem lies. He could have thanked her later, like he appreciated Mohit and Karishma at a later time. Why is pleasing Didi so important?

Hey!

I do agree with you here. Was the hand-holding unnecessary? Yes. Could the hug have lasted longer? Yes. Could the thank you have waited? Yes. I do agree with all of it. But, what I'm trying to convey is that despite the unnecessary hindrance we are angry about, it didn't seem like Virat was trying to initiate something with Pakhi or lead her on [what she thinks is another topic altogether]. I think that since she was present in the same space, and she did help Virat, according to him, he stopped her to thank her. Though it could have waited and though we wanted the hug to last longer, we must come to terms with the fact that the real life dynamics are changing some things on-screen too. What I'm trying to convey was that, though that ViraKhi moment was unnecessary, I feel that completely turning on Virat for that is not needed.