Originally posted by: laksh
I agree. Are you kidding me when you are saying it doesn't make sense 😆. I had written about Pakhi's feelings and her expectations from him or why she is growing angry or upset but refrained from posting it in the forum. I am not worried that people will bash me but I was worried that people who are already upset with Virat will be more upset with him and I didn't want that.
I try to understand their behavior, whoever it is and so it doesn't matter even if it is Pakhi. She is also a human being, yes she is very wrong, her expectations or motives are wrong. One cannot justify her action ar all. But I know why she is hurt. Waada alone is not her problem and not many would agree.
I have always believed that Pakhi would have been different if Samrat was around. It would have helped her move on in her life, if not for sooner a little later. Her malicious acts would have been in check and she herself wouldn't have turned this vile. I don't entirely blame Virat, Pakhi let him control her life. She did it on her own as you have also pointed. No one should give that control to anyone, let someone affect you so much that you forget your morals or doesn't care about your self respect. She has made her life a mess. She could have done something in her life.
Do share babe I would love to read it,
But today that manipulation triggered lot of feelings, I could see how this girl will give up saying yes, coz she goes helpless, coz Virat has such strong control on her, after today’s episode I have no doubt that if Virat and Pakhi would have been married she would be a mere puppet, who would do everything to keep her marriage alive, she would have been insecure while her life feeing Virat might leave her,
There so much I have to say, but I know I will open a pandara box for myself, where to relive is difficult, though it doesn’t hurt tht much but it does,
That silence, lack of affection, that dreams that future of building together a family, that difference of behavior, that lack of support and acknowledgment, tht restlessness of not being able to reach, to talk, that desperation to touch, to ask why why why.... why,
the silence it kills you, ones a person who became ur life is no more In life, it kills you slowly to see him but not able to reach u,
that’s why it is aptly out of side out of mind, yes it takes time but it eventually when u bring tht control back to urself, but what will a person do if the other person whom u ones made ur life stays in front of u with some other woman
I have said earlier also, Pakhi hated Sai coz for Sai, Virat went against his family, when Pakhi pleaded him to reveal his family about them, and that was just a start, she could see the difference that gets hard to accept coz u are helpless,
I will repeat I am not justifying Pakhi’s behavior towards sai but I know that helplessness
. And courage in some matters. So he seeks that from his wife🤣🤣
Anupamaa
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