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Posted: 4 years ago
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Sai herself told Virat to convince pakhi. He went and convinced her (may be he would have not done if not for Sai insisting). They are all doing this only for the sake of Devi and Harinee. Already Virat knows whatever and however he tells pakhi that he doesn't love her and see her that way she is never gonna understand and nothing goes to her brain. So he kept mum instead of starting drama. Here it is editing fault in adding that bgm. Virat's expressions clearly shows he is irritated and doesn't approve of this because of which she took back her hand.

But today pakhi said that she is doing all this only for Virat, claiming him as her 'best friend'. She spoke as if she has more haq on Virat than Sai. Sai also kept mum because this would lead to nothing and they actually have no time to waste as they have to reharse. Here Virat would have responded instead of Sai, but he didn't because whenever Virat takes Sai's side, it irks pakhi to the extent she starts speaking mean things to Sai and will start drama.

Main point is we don't know how Sai is interpreting the situations. We don't get her monologues. She already knows the meaning of "my best friend". She was already made herself feel like she is third wheel in initial days of marriage. That thing engraved deeply in her heart and she is refusing to see anything beyond that. She is that deeply hurt even though she never expresses. And Virat being soft towards pakhi confuses her.

Unknowingly and unintentionally all these are doing damage to Sai's heart. In my opinion, we can't blame either Sai or Virat. Situations are like that. One thing is that, in very initial days, Virat used to not tell anything harsh to pakhi because of his so called "love"🙄, later because of fear of her leaving CN. When Sai left him, he lost the patience and he blasted on her and confrontation happened which he is avoiding from long time. Again now because of various reasons he is not Harsh with her. In this Harinee fiasco it's fine, but in other situations he should have been stern with her atleast if not shouting.

All this will lead to major show down between the three. He is seeing how pakhi is harsh to Sai and how she insults Sai where as Sai responds only when she is questioned. We should never forget that even though Virat doesn't respond he is keen observer. This has been proved many times. Some thing major will happen which will lead to pakhi confront Virat regarding his promise. I am waiting for it.

Confrontation will happen, pakhi will question him about his promise and if Sai is present there, she may even insult Sai. Obviously Sai will stand on her decision to leave him once he is fine. All this may lead to blasting of Virat because stopping Sai is his priority. This may lead to breaking of promise. This is the only way to stop Sai from leaving.

Edited by ssoujanya - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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An interesting observation, did my Nonconfrontational Chavhan prayed to Bappa that Sai doesnt reply and not that his DOSTH should not actually insult his biwi/his love? Waah re bappa.. Nonconfrontational Chavhan.. kaaye hai re tu??🤪

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: ssoujanya

Sai herself told Virat to convince pakhi. He went and convinced her (may be he would have not done if not for Sai insisting). They are all doing this only for the sake of Devi and Harinee. Already Virat knows whatever and however he tell pakhi that he doesn't love her and see her that way she is never gonna understand and nothing goes to her brain. So he kept mum instead of starting drama.

But today pakhi said that she is doing all this only for Virat claiming him as her 'best friend'. She spoke as if she has more haq on Virat than Sai. Sai also kept mum because this would lead to nothing and they actually have no time to waste as they have to reharse.

Main point is we don't know how Sai is interpreting the situations. We don't get her monologues. She already knows the meaning of "my best friend". She was already made herself feel like she is third wheel in initial days of marriage. That thing engraved deeply in her heart and she is refusing to see anything beyond that. She is that deeply hurt even though she never expresses.

Unknowingly and unintentionally all these are doing damage to Sai's heart. In my opinion, we can't blame either Sai or Virat. Situations are like that. One thing is that, in very initial days, Virat used to not tell anything harsh to pakhi because of his so called "love"🙄, later because of fear of her leaving CN. When Sai left him he lost the patience and he blasted on her and confrontation happened which he is avoiding from long time. Again now because of various reasons he is not Harsh with her. In this Harinee fiasco it's fine, but in other situations he should be stern with her atleast if not shouting.

All this will lead to major show down between the three. He is seeing how pakhi is harsh to Sai and how she insults Sai where as Sai responds only when she is questioned. We should never forget that even though Virat doesn't respond he is keen observer. This has been proved many times.

Confrontation will happen, pakhi will question him about his promise and if Sai is present there, she may even insult Sai. Obviously Sai will stand on her decision to leave him once he is fine. All this may lead to blasting of Virat because Sai is his priority. This may lead to breaking of promise. This is the only way to stop Sai from leaving.

I somehow not blame Sai for sending Virat to Pakhi, because she is not privy to what has happened between the two. She still thinks they are close to each other.. The way she said main chali jaungi toh baatein karte rehna and Virat did not say much..I guess she thinks its only him who can convince PP.. Also she trusts Virat to not go beyond limits or go for EMA, she knows Virat has his love in his heart and they are not going the EMA route. I am sure she is wrong there but then again they both are being over cooperative and pushing limits when it comes to Devi-Harini..

I felt bad for Sai when Pakhi claimed him to be more close, since Sai doesnt know the dynamics I am sure she would believe so. That heart is being hammered slowly and continuously.. Ye sab Toofan k pehle ki shaanti hai..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I somehow not blame Sai for sending Virat to Pakhi, because she is not privy to what has happened between the two. She still thinks they are close to each other.. The way she said main chali jaungi toh baatein karte rehna and Virat did not say much..I guess she thinks its only him who can convince PP.. Also she trusts Virat to not go beyond limits or go for EMA, she knows Virat has his love in his heart and they are not going the EMA route. I am sure she is wrong there but then again they both are being over cooperative and pushing limits when it comes to Devi-Harini..

I felt bad for Sai when Pakhi claimed him to be more close, since Sai doesnt know the dynamics I am sure she would believe so. That heart is being hammered slowly and continuously.. Ye sab Toofan k pehle ki shaanti hai..

Sai has witnessed Virat Pakhi’s confrontation in the hospital where he kicked her out, confronted her for not letting Sai stay in the hospital the previous night, and called her out for not correcting the doctors who believed Pakhi to be his wife. She has witnessed the way Virat dismissed Pakhi after he came back from the hospital and the way he refused to take her help near the stairs. She has witnessed when Virat refused to be her nominee and like before he didn't stop her for making the fun of Pakhi . I am surprised Sai is not able to sense the changed feelings and realize something is wrong between Virat and Pakhi’s friendship.


Pakhi claiming Virat as a best friend can never be above Sai’s position in his life as she is his wife. A wife will always have a superior position in her husband’s life

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I somehow not blame Sai for sending Virat to Pakhi, because she is not privy to what has happened between the two. She still thinks they are close to each other.. The way she said main chali jaungi toh baatein karte rehna and Virat did not say much..I guess she thinks its only him who can convince PP.. Also she trusts Virat to not go beyond limits or go for EMA, she knows Virat has his love in his heart and they are not going the EMA route. I am sure she is wrong there but then again they both are being over cooperative and pushing limits when it comes to Devi-Harini..

I felt bad for Sai when Pakhi claimed him to be more close, since Sai doesnt know the dynamics I am sure she would believe so. That heart is being hammered slowly and continuously.. Ye sab Toofan k pehle ki shaanti hai..

What you said is correct. She never ever doubted Virat on EMA. If she would have doubted she would have never let Virat near her. She knows that Virat would never do anything unethical. She only thinks he loves her but doesn't show because pakhi is his brother's wife. I did not blame Sai in sending him. She did this only for Devi-Harinee and she knows pakhi will tell ok only if Virat asks her.

@bold that's what the thing. Sai is hurting a lot. I hope Virat knows what all is running in Sai's mind and what all she is thinking of them.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Sai has witnessed Virat Pakhi’s confrontation in the hospital where he kicked her out, confronted her for not letting Sai stay in the hospital the previous night, and called her out for not correcting the doctors who believed Pakhi to be his wife. She has witnessed the way Virat dismissed Pakhi after he came back from the hospital and the way he refused to take her help near the stairs. She has witnessed when Virat refused to be her nominee and like before he didn't stop her for making the fun of Pakhi . I am surprised Sai is not able to sense the changed feelings and realize something is wrong between Virat and Pakhi’s friendship.


Pakhi claiming Virat as a best friend can never be above Sai’s position in his life as she is his wife. A wife will always have a superior position in her husband’s life


@green well I agree with you here but so much has happened in the past for Sai to believe in him that he has really moved on from Pakhi. I really don’t want to rehash all that has happened between them. It’s a long route for Virat and he really needs to clear the wadha and bury it once for all and arrange a funeral for it! Then things will move forward between Sairat.


@blue surprisingly in the GHKPM world best friend beats the wife status in Virat life. Sai doesn’t have a higher status when she came to CN and still things haven’t changed much. Pakhi does hold a higher authority in the family and even with Virat till the ousting episode.

It’s different that these two keep calling each other pathi pathni! I am yet to see Virat asking Pakhi to shut the F* women don’t talk to my wife disrespectfully till now.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: KBBofRCIBC


@green well I agree with you here but so much has happened in the past for Sai to believe in him that he has really moved on from Pakhi. I really don’t want to rehash all that has happened between them. It’s a long route for Virat and he really needs to clear the wadha and bury it once for all and arrange a funeral for it! Then things will move forward between Sairat.


@blue surprisingly in the GHKPM world best friend beats the wife status in Virat life. Sai doesn’t have a higher status when she came to CN and still things haven’t changed much. Pakhi does hold a higher authority in the family and even with Virat till the ousting episode.

It’s different that these two keep calling each other pathi pathni! I am yet to see Virat asking Pakhi to shut the F* women don’t talk to my wife disrespectfully till now.

Is she not the same wife who in Ghum world was berated for joining her husband and his best friend on a trip. The friend joining the trip was given more preference by the family.

Well yes he said all those things in the hospital, but he also said she needs to go because she needs rest, at both the places.. He also was confused on why Patralekha was behaving that way just after being told she loved him. He was embarrassed about the whol Pati thing and that can come across to Sai as well, since he has accepted her as his wife on MS and few days later when angry on her did not speak a to the woman in question for calling Sai names when he was ousting her..

Okay he was angry then what happened now? Why has he still not berated her for gaslighting him even after knowing the truth?Why does he not ask her to not call Sai names? Why is she allowed to abuse Sai whenever she wants? WHy is he not angry on PP and praying to bappa that Sai should not respond to her insults instead of asking her about how she should not insult Sai at all. Oh he does not even stop OMi the criminal for calling Sai ..Ae ladki...Ae ladki.. How torchuring it could be for anyone to be called like that..He did not stop his baba for saying, hamare tukdo par padne wali ladki...

Also Sai "blackmailed" him, okay? Why did he go then ? He could have denied , he knows the dimensions between them..Right? And even if he went there? Why do that creepy manipulation ? Could he not ask her to come and do the skit because she owes them one , as she participated in the crime against both the little girl and his sister..She needs to atone herself.. And if she did not agree, come back and say, we need to rework, she did not agree...Talking about Devi and Harini, does she even deserve that talk after what she admitted to doing?Did she orget she was doubting PD's intentions even when he came back with thr truth knowing he was right all along? Why not bring that up, instead of doing that emotional manipulation..

Why do that drama and on top of that the same woman who called his wife names, calls her khudkharz when she has done nothing, nothing for herself since she has come back to CN , even after committing the same crime that she did against his sister, for which he threw his wife out , gets to talk rudely with her and all he does dashing his wives looks of help, and pray that she does not respond. Great👏👏 He prays to bappa Sai should not answer back and not that PP should not insult Sai.. and he also prays to Bappa oh bappa, let her stay back in this mad house..

Where is that aggression that we saw for Sai for spoiling his sister's life , towards Patralekha who committed a bigger crime? Virat's character has been butchered. By doing what he did with PP today he has taken two steps back, from what he established a few days ago.

Edited by asmi_joya - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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He hasn’t learned his lesson from Ladakh fiasco. There is going to be a similar explosion if not bigger.

And after that surprise welcome aarti today, I’m sure that my assumption about the precap push down of Pakhi was not as per Mohit’s script.The way Sai told Virat that “aapko kya lagta hai, main aapko poora plan bataungi?...surprise hai”. I’m sure that she has more up her sleeves which she hasn’t disclosed to anyone yet. And the push in the precap is one such improvisation that no1 knows about. Virat’s expression is of shock. She maybe trying to recreate the scene to get Devyani and Harinee closer, but it may backfire on different levels.

Edited by sherry_24 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: sherry_24

He hasn’t learned his lesson from Ladakh fiasco. There is going to be a similar explosion if not bigger.

And after that surprise welcome aarti today, I’m sure that my assumption about the precap push down of Pakhi was not as per Mohit’s script.The way Sai told Virat that “aapko kya lagta hai, main aapko poora plan bataungi?...surprise hai”. I’m sure that she has more up her sleeves which she hasn’t disclosed to anyone yet. And the push in the precap is one such improvisation that no1 knows about. Virat’s expression is of shock. She maybe trying to recreate the scene to get Devyani and Harinee closer, but it may backfire on different levels.

I feel the same.. and didi will cry foul.. Didi was not prepared for this.. But I was 🤣

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