Should Anokhi address Shaurya as Tum? - Page 6

Originally posted by: Mona_988

I voted for 'No' .

I feel 'Aap' feels so good from Anokhi.. I didnt like how she was addressing to shaurya with ' Tum'

Kabhie Kabhie she can say 'Tum' .. Maybe when they passionately involved but she should address him as ' Aap ' most of the time

The word tum just doesn't suit her. Otherwise, there is no problem with husband and wife addressing each other as tum

Originally posted by: Bhavisweet03

I feel she should say Aap

It looks decent😉

But I have no issue with Tum also😆

Aap basically suits her character and their situation

Originally posted by: Nidhi14

Since they started as teacher student and not married officially I feel Aap se Tum should happen gradually and not overnight. I have nothing against wife calling husband tum or with his name. If you are of same age it's always tum-tum. But with age difference it takes time.

Like Anokhi had said Aap bade ho respectable ho.

So this all of a sudden calling tum feels weird

Agreed. It was too sudden and hard to digest

Originally posted by: Tashaf_arshi

No..

Gender equality pe kuch nahi bolna mujhe wo alag topic hai.

Jab Anokhi shauyra ko Aap kehti hai to zayada romantic lagta hai mujhe😳

Aur Shauyra uska classmate to nahi na hi uske age hai.😆

Tum bolne ki jagha naam le le "Shauyra"😳

Yes, it's super weird that on one hand she is calling him PS and on the other she is addressing him as tum

Originally posted by: Idiotboxer

I have always wondered why Indian languages have so many versions of 2nd person pronoun unlike a simple "you" in English. It makes things so complicated. On top of that, the "tu, tum, aap" in Hindi has different connotations from "tui, tumi, aapni" in Bengali.

IMO jiske side se jo tha wahi rehna chahiye. Tum from Shaurya and aap from Anokhi. It doesn't look like discrimination in this case as long as both respect each other equally. Also solves the problem if shifting between tum and aap.

The shift between tum and aap is a shift in formality. I get that they are married but they have not yet fallen in the husband-wife equation (not talking about consummation but in general) so tum feels very abrupt.

Originally posted by: TR_19

Its yess from me 👍🏼

Because it makes the relationship more closer bond i think she will call him Shaurya as tum.

I have no problem in wife calling her hubby tum, but I felt they needed to grow closer and reach a settled point before she starts calling him tum

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Nothing wrong in Anokhi addressing her husband as Tum. If she was addressing her professor as Tum, that would be offensive.

He is both her husband and director of college, so it's a bit difficult to say. It's not like we differentiate between teachers and other faculty members in an educational institute in terms of respect

Originally posted by: Ndarsh

I’ve voted ‘no’. I don’t believe about calling him ‘aap’ because of the gender thing, but he is much older than her and at least for that, the respect should be given. My opinions can change though. Let me think about it!

It's fine. This matter is more controversial than it sounds

Originally posted by: IFLove

I am okay with anyone calling anybody tum or aap as per their wish. Heck, I call my dad as well Tu and my mom's generation in my family also calls their husband Tu. It has nothing to do with age, gender or relationship.

But but...there's something about Anokhi's aap for Shaurya that I adore❤️ So, my vote for No as of now. Maybe with time, I'll like tum as well...depends on the transition they show. If she suddenly calls him tum after learning the truth about him sending the bus away, it would look very rude, as if misunderstanding him for trying to sabotage her attendance in the seminar and insulting him. I hope their is some build up!

PS - I also feel it could be Shagun's dream😆

It's in the culture. Like you said, you are used to calling your parents in a certain way. Likewise (as someone already mentioned) Anokhi is used to calling people older than her "aap" so the sudden transition feels a bit weird despite having nothing wrong in it

Originally posted by: DiscoDhokla

I don’t have a opinion right now. While I don’t mind her calling him Tum but for so long she referred him as aap so that sudden transition came as ‘what just happened’ And also because that aap had a certain charm. so I will wait till next episode and form my opinion lol. I personally don’t prefer to over analyze from precap. Precaps are deceptive. 🤭

Maybe. The comment right above yours mentioned that it could be Shagun's dream