Aai Kuthe Kay Karte - Thread 2 - Page 43

Originally posted by: HydroxyGroup

Arundhati cha saglyat motha apayash mahnje tine aplya mulana independent kadhi banvalach nahi.. gharchi Kam karnyachi dhad akkal nahi hyana..

Mazya mulana ani in law's na mich lagte..mazyashivay tyanchi Kam kon karnar..tyanchya orders kon purn karnar..he sangnyat kasla mothepana aahe..

Ani hi Isha..hila aai chi premapoti kadhi athvan yete ka..baghav tevha aai nasel tar amhi he kasa karnar..te kasa karnar..asha nustya kama purta aai athvte

I am sorry but I disagree.

यात अरुंधतीची फारशी चूक आहे असे नाही वाटत मला .

तिच्या मुलांना प्रतयेक गोष्ट सांगितली का पाहिजे ?

आपल्या घरात काम करण्याएवढी तरी समाज असली पाहिजे ना त्यांना 😛 ?

खाणे पिणे समजते, प्रेमात पडणे समजते😉, एकीशी साखरपुडा करून दुसरीशी लग्न करणे समजते😆, हॉटेल मध्ये रूम बुक करणे समजते , मग घरात आईची मदत केली पाहिजे हे न समजण्याएवढे बुद्धू निशचितच नाही आहेत तिची मुलं 😛 .

असे लोक मोठे होऊन सरकारी ऑफिस मध्ये कामाला लागतात आणि जेवढ्यास तेवढे काम करून सगळ्यांना त्रास देतात 😆

Originally posted by: BhetuPunha

I am sorry but I disagree.

यात अरुंधतीची फारशी चूक आहे असे नाही वाटत मला .

तिच्या मुलांना प्रतयेक गोष्ट सांगितली का पाहिजे ?

आपल्या घरात काम करण्याएवढी तरी समाज असली पाहिजे ना त्यांना 😛 ?

खाणे पिणे समजते, प्रेमात पडणे समजते😉, एकीशी साखरपुडा करून दुसरीशी लग्न करणे समजते😆, हॉटेल मध्ये रूम बुक करणे समजते , मग घरात आईची मदत केली पाहिजे हे न समजण्याएवढे बुद्धू निशचितच नाही आहेत तिची मुलं 😛 .

असे लोक मोठे होऊन सरकारी ऑफिस मध्ये कामाला लागतात आणि जेवढ्यास तेवढे काम करून सगळ्यांचं त्रास देतात 😆

Tuza point barobar aahe..pan aaine hi thoda strict rahun Kahi Kam mulankadun Karun ghetli pahije..mule jar pay pasrun TV pahat aahet n aaila Pani anun de asa bolale tar aaine nimutpane n anun detat..ja tu jaun ghe asa sangayla hava..

Arundhati ne aplya mulanche fajil lad kelet he matr nakki😆

Mi mazya aaich example dila tar..she is also not a perfect mother..tichyathi Arundhati chya habits aahet

Jasa tu bolalas tasa aaila swatahun madad karnyache savay amhala thodi late ka hoina lagali aahe.

Infact me n my brother living away from my parents since December 2020 in city and my parents are at my native place for some work.

I cook and my younger brother cleans the vessels😆

Aai pasun dur rahun amhi barech independent zalo aahot. My mother is tension free knowing that we are managing alot of household things alone.

Aai nahi tar aapli kama kon karnar asa bolat amhi radlo tar nahi😆

Yes I agree that I can't blame a mother or parents for their children's behaviour but to some extent the kind of environment we have at our home helps in building some important habits in child.

My mother doesn't raise a brow when I tell her that my brother is cleaning vessels or mopping the floor because she knows that I handle my office work and cook so me n my sibling are working as a team.

Here Arundhati wanted a daughter in law to do all work of the house but she never told off directly to her children to take their own responsibility.

Swatahun smjnyasathi gharatla vatavaran hi tasa lagat. If children knows that other family members or their father help their mother in household chores then they also eventually forms the habit of helping their mother. Here all family members sit and Arundhati does the job...mag kasli hya mand mulana samjh yenar aahe

@bold hya saglyat habits hya porani Anyachya ghetlya aahet😆

Originally posted by: HydroxyGroup

Tuza point barobar aahe..pan aaine hi thoda strict rahun Kahi Kam mulankadun Karun ghetli pahije..mule jar pay pasrun TV pahat aahet n aaila Pani anun de asa bolale tar aaine nimutpane n anun detat..ja tu jaun ghe asa sangayla hava..

Arundhati ne aplya mulanche fajil lad kelet he matr nakki😆

Mi mazya aaich example dila tar..she is also not a perfect mother..tichyathi Arundhati chya habits aahet

Jasa tu bolalas tasa aaila swatahun madad karnyache savay amhala thodi late ka hoina lagali aahe.

Infact me n my brother living away from my parents since December in city and my parents are at my native place for some work.

I cook and my younger brother cleans the vessels😆

Aai pasun dur rahun amhi barech independent zalo aahot. My mother is tension free knowing that we are managing alot of household things alone.

Aai nahi tar aapli kama kon karnar asa bolat amhi radlo tar nahi😆

Yes I agree that I can't blame a mother or parents for their children's behaviour but to some extent the kind of environment we have at our home helps in building some important habits in child.

My mother doesn't raise a brow when I tell her that my brother is cleaning vessels or mopping the floor because she knows that I handle my office work and cook so me n my sibling are working as a team.

Here Arundhati wanted a daughter in law to do all work of the house but she never told off directly to her children to take their own responsibility.

Swatahun smjnyasathi gharatla vatavaran hi tasa lagat. If children knows that other family members or their father help their mother in household chores then they also eventually forms the habit of helping their mother. Here all family members sit and Arundhati does the job...mag kasli hya mand mulana samjh yenar aahe

@bold hya saglyat habits hya porani Anyachya ghetlya aahet😆

I agree.

But I guess , I and all of us to some extent know where she is coming from😎. I assume that her character thinks that because she is a stay-at-home homemaker it is her job is to look after the needs of her family. She seems to come from a very simple family that seems to be polite to the extent of being meek😵. Her mother did not seem to be very aggressive in the brief time we saw her🤔. And Arundhati rebelled only because Aniruddh raised a question mark on her very existence as that homemaker, a job she takes very seriously. So I do not expect Arundhati's character to tell off her children for not helping in chores😆. Her children are not bad, they just take her for granted too much and most of us do that with our parents😒.

Hence my opinion in the post above was more about the real life situation than with good-for-nothing-children of hers👍🏼.

अरु ला सर्वांनी गृहीत धरलं सगळ्याच बाबतीत आणि तीने त्यांना ते तसं धरू दिला, हीच तीची सर्वांत मोठी चूक आहे.

घरिच आहे ,म्हणून मग हे काम कर, ते काम कर, ही जबाबदारी अंगावर ओढून घे हे असला तीने आवडीने केलाय.

म्हणून तर नाव आहे ना serial चं....'आई कुठे काय करते'😒

Happy Birthday Kishor sir aka Appa 🎂💐

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sp really doing well👍🏼

Saturday episode Aaji’s dialogue - hyanni sakal chi goli suddha swatahach ghetli!!

Omg!! Dhad-dhaakat manus aahe, in fact konachi tari Seva karayla gelele appa, swataha goli gheu shakat nahit? Tyachyat evdha bolaycha kaay? Ani sunelach ka? Naat lolat padli hoti. Pan natu tar uthle hote na? Tyanna ka nahi sangitla? Kivha aji could have given herself. Pan kasha denar? Tyanna pan sagla hatat anun dyaychi savay lavli aahe na Aru ni? Totally blame Aru for this. She has made the house so dependent on her to keep her importance in the house. Now that she wants to leave (and I totally support that decision), she is looking for a replacement. Enter Anagha. Actually Anagha should count her blessings. She got saved from working like a dog in that house and also got saved from getting married to an indecisive idiot. Ankita saglyanna saral karel. But tee ekdum negative dakhavli aahe so no chances of that happening. Why can’t strong modern women with careers in this day and age be good? Fakta kitchen sambhalnari stree ka Adarsha bahu aste? Faltugiri nusti!

I m afraid, this serial is slowly loosing it's charm.

Charm म्हणजे ecactly charm नाही, पण जी पकड होती ना, ती या अभि च्या लग्नाच्या गोंधळात हरवून गेलीय कुठेतरी.

Just read the discussion about helping Aai. Here are my 2 cents. Its easier for a working mother to ask and get help from the family members (MIL, FIL, kids and hubby). Typically if you are home maker then you are left on your own. Many stay at home mothers (including my own 😔) think that its their responsibility to take care of home and everybody living there.

Something that bothers me and is a work in progress with my Aai is that anytime I'm away from home attending a conference, my Aai feels that my husband has obliged me by 'running the house' for a few days. But if he's away on a business trip, Aai won't worry about how I manage taking care of home, kids and work.

Originally posted by: Avidwatcher

Saturday episode Aaji’s dialogue - hyanni sakal chi goli suddha swatahach ghetli!!

Omg!! Dhad-dhaakat manus aahe, in fact konachi tari Seva karayla gelele appa, swataha goli gheu shakat nahit? Tyachyat evdha bolaycha kaay? Ani sunelach ka? Naat lolat padli hoti. Pan natu tar uthle hote na? Tyanna ka nahi sangitla? Kivha aji could have given herself. Pan kasha denar? Tyanna pan sagla hatat anun dyaychi savay lavli aahe na Aru ni? Totally blame Aru for this. She has made the house so dependent on her to keep her importance in the house. Now that she wants to leave (and I totally support that decision), she is looking for a replacement. Enter Anagha. Actually Anagha should count her blessings. She got saved from working like a dog in that house and also got saved from getting married to an indecisive idiot. Ankita saglyanna saral karel. But tee ekdum negative dakhavli aahe so no chances of that happening. Why can’t strong modern women with careers in this day and age be good? Fakta kitchen sambhalnari stree ka Adarsha bahu aste? Faltugiri nusti!

@bold - IKR. Why? Annoying as hell, the way they portray any career minded female character. Either she has no morals or she is not good at anything else other than her work. She is usually a bad mother and a selfish wife and DIL. OTOH, if a male lead is career driven then it is acceptable for him to ignore his kids and wife and only focus on his work.