"TUM" Analysis thread.. 😂 - Page 4

Lol ! It pissed me off sorry 🙈

I found it so out of character more than her calling shaurya - PS

Maybe it’s just me

That shaurya is Atleast a decade older than Anokhi in reel ( and real )

He is still the director and head

She is still a student

Their marriage god knows whether it is legal official blah blah

Is Anokhi getting too big for her boots ?

She used to sound respectful & cute when she used to say aap

Tum ‘ just threw me off

I don’t think I can enjoy Anokhi addressing shaurya as Tum

This is just me

Am old school

Btw

Anokhi addressed Vineet Bhatia the criminal her ex jeeju “ Aap “ even while threatening / warning etc

Why ? TUM to shaurya ?🤔

I don’t like it period

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Too pissed off to type again

Originally posted by: Jiggy7

I don't want to hear TUM again.. Zindegi bhar ke liye sun lia..

Dusre couple pe acha lagega sayad.. Shakhi pe nahi.. 🤣

Sach me.. mujhe tum word se problem nahi hai ki pati ko tum kyu bulaya n all.... Mujhe "shauyra aap" zayada romantic lagta hai

idk why I didn't like Anokhi calling Shaurya "tum" so suddenly. First PS and now tum..why can't Anokhi call him by something a little normal?

Originally posted by: brat2008

Lol ! It pissed me off sorry 🙈

I found it so out of character more than her calling shaurya - PS

Maybe it’s just me

That shaurya is Atleast a decade older than Anokhi in reel ( and real )

He is still the director and head

She is still a student

Their marriage god knows whether it is legal official blah blah

Is Anokhi getting too big for her boots ?

She used to sound respectful & cute when she used to say aap

Tum ‘ just threw me off

I don’t think I can enjoy Anokhi addressing shaurya as Tum

This is just me

Am old school

Btw

Anokhi addressed Vineet Bhatia the criminal her ex jeeju “ Aap “ even while threatening / warning etc

Why ? TUM to shaurya ?🤔

I don’t like it period

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Too pissed off to type again

I was going to respond here too..

See this is exactly why I like English language better 😎

"You" - complications hi nai chahiye...

This is kind of very gender neutral language with he, she, it! 😆

TT walon ki kya rai hai is baare me 🤭🤭

Originally posted by: AnokhiKaShaurya

Is it even possible on IF?

Originally posted by: butterturnips

Mayesha's comment on this ❤️

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/157198964

Nahi mujhe ulta chahiye if possible.. 😂😂

Originally posted by: AnokhiKaShaurya

Possible options:

1. Gusse main nikal gaya

2. He asked her to (maybe next epi?)

3. She is accepting this new relation and thus dropped the formality. (This is what happened in OG)

4. Deba messed up

1. I think same too..

2. Lagta to nahi but pata nahi kya ho sakta..🤣

3. I don't like this..😪

4. Itni baar.. 🤣

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Had made a separate post with this...

I found hearing TUM soo odd in the precap

Even if their leads are married in most other shows, including other couples within SAAKK, its "Aap" for husband! Also, in some shows I have seen even wife being referred as "Aap" which is fantastic... As both husband and wife are being respected..!

But, this difference in the words - Aap and Tum somewhere represents differences in respect between spouses. While Tum is for someone whom we consider someone at our own level or below... Aap is for someone more respected! I never understood this as to why would husbands be always called Aap, even among children in my family... We refer to Mothers with tum and fathers as aap... It kind of brings out major gender differences within the family as well!

Anokhi calling Shaurya with "Tum" , no matter how odd it sounded being used to hearing her say aap, it didn't turn put me off... As it kind of brings one of the key issues dealing with gender equality... And mostly ignored by major strata... Even today! As of today, those love marriages wale couple do call "tum" to each other, but those bounded in arranged marriage it's mostly "aap"...

I hope SAAKK is purposely dealing with it and it's not any error on part of writing...

The only thing is that Anokhi sharing relationship of being a student where he is director, Tum can be little problematic... Let's see how they deal with it later...

Just copy pasting... And deleting the other one to avoid repeated topics on forum...

I agree with you and i have no issues with her calling him tum. Its the comfort level you feel with your partner and most of the arranged marriages too are on tum basis . Its nothing to do with age gap at all. Whilst opening the car door SS told her he is all for fulfilling her dreams and tum could be after the rain romance. Before or after doesnt matter Anokhi has found peace. She is feeling loved and cherished unlike the men she knew in her family.

Originally posted by: Jiggy7

https://twitter.com/Pallavi21020840/status/1399165366400475138?s=19

Mrs Sabherwal ne baar baar tum bola.. Mereko acha nahi laga.. I dunno why.. 🤣🤣

Kyu bola- Frustrated and worried hai seminar ke liye.. Gussa utaar rahi bas..

Still nahi pasand aaya mujhe.. 😂😂😂

Aap log batao kyu bola TUM!!

Lol.. nothing not to like .. in fact it’s an ice breaker. Aap is a formal term, tum is endearment.. that means in Anokhi’s mind she’s one step closer to accepting him as her better half just like he had. She was also quite furious, and using “Tum” became an equalizer.Any ( sensible/ valid) fights can give an insight into the other person’s deepest feelings ,and in fact can get them closer. I hope that’s what happened ! 😀😀