A question from me to SaiRat shippers! - Page 2

Originally posted by: BBFanForever

Okay. So ik many of you don't like me much for obvious reasons that's ok. But I'd want to ask yall the most interesting question that y'all would love writing & elaborating and answering in details and show your creativity.

When the moment Virat started feeling and falling for Sai romantically the first time? Also, did it happen cos he fell out of love with Sai he fell for Sai or it happened with Virat having lingering feelings left on him of Pakhi's?

Share your POV! I wanna know & read y'alls thesis. Go! Go! Go! 😳

@bold

Nope, nothing if this sort. There's no hard feelings like dislike for you, woh toh didi ke liye bhi nahi hai, unke liye bhi sirf irritation mehsoos hoti hai, and no such hateful feelings for you. But,I'll be honest, thoda darr zaroor lagta hai aapse, dislike nahi, par darti hu thoda 😆

Coming to your main question, when did Virat start falling in love with Sai?

Okay, my pov, one thing I clearly know of Virat, he is 10th fail in love. So,as he himself said, he experienced bouts of feelings altogether for didi, none were love, but his lack of experience in this department and Sunny bhaiya's encouraging words made him rush and come to that wrong conclusion of love and giving wrong signals to didi. But, yes, this galat feeling was a hindrance for him towards his step towards Sai only initially, as in till the DIG drama, but then, the route of love towards Sai was an independent one ,didi was not a spead breaker there, I assure this. Yes, sometimes the scenes were misleading, but Virat's intention were always clear, that didi has a very less part in his life. So, Pakhi has no role here in Virat's love for Sai. Cuz, the feeling of true love was felt by Virat only for Sai.

When did Virat start falling? Hmmmmm, to be practical, he always had an admiration for Sai the way she was always, as in from Gadchiroli. I'll not say love, but ,yes, Sai did make a place in his heart just the way she was, i.e.,downward straightforward and strong girl, and he somewhere or the other always wanted Sai to be the same way. Cuz,he allowed Sai to backanswer his family, I know,she would have with or without permission,our sai doesn't need that, but it also shows that Virat never wanted Sai to change, cuz, the Sai he knew, he admired, he felt in his heart, was always like that, fearless.

But, his expression of this admiration, began from DIG drama, I know you consider the yelling part by Virat was vile over there, but he was very sensitive. He had lost his guru, had to marry, drama in the house, and now his duty was at stake. So,all this was not very okay. But,when Sai, who was also part if that deal marriage which they agreed on, cuz,practically, expectations were nil over there, from his side or her side. But,when she took a step forward and cleared his name, his already present admiration and liking began to get expressed. He began to show that he does like this GC Express for what she is.

Then ,his liking began to grow and grow ,with each and every incident, with how sai helped his family, with the pain she had to endure, and a true tangent of love began when her happiness began mattering to him. He began to care for her happiness, her candyfloss, her wish to shop for wedding. Etc. And finally ,Sai became so important that she became a part of his life, a habit for him during that 3 days separation .

So,it was a gradual process, not a 2 days yoga camp 😆

Hope ,I am not being a nuisance.🤗

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

Oh this was beautifully explained. 👏

...thanks😃

Originally posted by: methebest

I can't speak for all, but I don't dislike you! I like your view points as much as anyone else's. I may or may not agree with all your view points or for that matter all of anyone else's view points but I respect them. Just like everyone else you have the equal rights to put your point forward no matter how bizarre it may sound to someone else or they simply dislike it. This is a public forum, everyone can have give an opinion without being disrespectful to others opinions.

I too have my reservations about SaiRat getting together knowing the pattern and the history, but I do melt when they have breakdowns.

I personally feel Virat never loved Pakhi, he was attracted to her, but never loved her. He had this strongest bond with Sai from day 1 even though it wasn't romantic. He was drawn towards her and she mattered to him for one reason or the other, be it admiring her love for her aba, be it her selfless nature while saving pari, be it her intelligence knowing she was the topper or be it her fearless nature when it came to dealing with Jagtap or Virat himself as her aba's senior. This guy disconnected Pakhi's calls at drop of a hat if Sai called in between when he claimed to love Pakhi. He let Pakhi marry his brother for his brother and family's sake, With Sai he can't even take her fake flirting with someone else. When they were going to Nagpur from GC after marriage he naturally puts his hand out to save Sai in car when speed breaker hits. His protectiveness for Sai was from get go.

However, I have been deeply hurt by Virat's behavior towards Sai when he allowed everyone to walk all over Sai, especially Pakhi. I feel Virat consciously tried hiding his earlier feelings for Pakhi by shrugging it under a rug with different names like, aisa kuchh nahi hai, tum kon hoti ho mere or Pakhi ke bare main baat karane wali, Pakhi mere dost hai. I think it took him time to understand the difference between infatuation and love and in that time he did damage Sai. Also, he kept giving Pakhi upper hand just to keep himself out of the shame of everyone knowing his truth. Now, he is pushed to a level that he knows he is in love and if he doesn't draw boundaries the same love will give him no chance of returning back.

I also, feel early part of the marriage Virat looked at Sai as a teenager, but he soon realized she was a fully grown adult and started getting attracted to her. I feel he did feel hesitant to feel physically attracted to her because of his early feeling that Sai is Chhoti. However, he realized that she was his wife and an adult. I think this journey of coming to conclusions of Pakhi wasn't love at first place, for the burden of an old relationship should he ruin his life, I may love Sai and I don't want any woman to compare herself with my wife, he has travelled a rocky road made mistakes and has been a victim himself. So the whole confession of love hasn't been a prescription, but a process.

To me he was a various stages of love at various points. He was attracted to his beautiful bride at the wedding reception, he had jitters when she fell in his arms because of a lizzard, he was conscious when he caught her in his arms when she was falling from the chair, he was mesmerized by her when he saw her in yellow dress, he admired her cuteness when she was telling about how she likes cotton candy, he was moved when she touched his feet to take ashirvad, he was fliting when he saw her in his shirt and with his earphones, he was caring when his family made her grind the masalas, he was hurt when she fake flirted with a guy, he was jealous when she danced on some other guy's song, he was full of lust when she put alta for him, all this happened while he was craving her attention. The problem with Virat is not that he doesn't love Sai or his mother, his problem is he doesn't stand up enough for them and even worse he can be swayed easily. In hindi I would call him "Kacche kaan ka". Anyway, all the above examples are not definite love, but steps towards or I rather say journey to love.

@methebest : You have summed everything i wanted to say ♥️♥️♥️♥️
what a beautiful description:) Thankyou for this one !!

@TM : Like everyone else pointed out , it’s a public forum why would anyone hate /dislike you ?

Your views are as important as anybody else’s .While I understand why you are frustrated with the ML and rightfully so but Let’s just say Virat is a very flawed character but what’s more important is : he owns up his mistakes .See Nobody is perfect and every relationship have ups and downs. At the end of day , he’s repenting and is actually not a vile person by heart . However I would like to add : Sai makes mistakes too and is not always right . We are all humans and too err is Human.

Even if you don’t agree with this , no hard feelings.

You have the right to disagree and your opinion is as important as anyone else’s.

Originally posted by: ShipIsSailing

I don't....unlike (?) you. But I am going to focus on the answer here.

This is a question in which all the people have their own answers for of course, there is not particular canon moment for it. I felt that Virat had always found Sai an interesting person but given her age, and of course her behaviour, he always ignored it, or probably thought it to be just a normal interest, which it probably was, that one person shows towards another. But after they got married, even though he said, that she was just his zimmedari and she should not expect anything from him, he started to relax around her and opened his walls for her. Subconsciously, there was the feeling of belonging and possessiveness that husband and wife have for each other, and subconsciously, he was loving it too. The reason he fell in love with her was because some part of his mind actually let him. I know it sounds more dramatic and romantic to say that he tried really hard to not love her but then fell for her, that is quite not how love works. To an extent, it does, but loving is actually voluntary, and Virat chose to love Sai. He loved how relaxed he felt around her, even before marriage he enjoyed her company, but after marriage, he never found any reason strong enough to stop the thoughts that accompanied his enjoyment. Yes, he said that he made a promise to Pakhi, and sometimes he felt irritated by her, but subconsciously, his mind knew that she was his wife, and he was her husband, and there was nothing wrong to admire and love her.

Falling in love, and being in love, and avtually loving, all are different things. Two person can fall in love, but that doesn't mean that they are truly in love. Love happens when you know that person, and contrary to what we are always shown, love is, to an extent, voluntary.

But then why do people confuse these three? This is because these three are actuallly stages of love. Falling in love is just the beginning. If two people continues to stay together, they might actually start loving each other. But the thing is, once you have begun something, it doesn't necessary mean that you will complete it. This is why people fall in love, but they don't start loving.

We all have heard the phase, "fall out of love". Once you have started, you can't stop loving someone. But, you can stop being in love with someone. And that is just what happens with separated couples.

I read this line somewhere, and I quote:

"Falling in love can lead to actually being in love, and being in love can lead to actual loving. And in order for you to love, you need to choose to love.".

And this isjust the case with Sai and Virat. Their situation brought them closer, their mind fell in love, and it was their situation only that made them continue to be in love long enough to actually start loving each other.

Hope that made sense. Not really proud of this...essay, but still hope I made my point clear. Ignore any mistakes please.

Wow ,

This is so on point !!!! Loved it ❤️

Originally posted by: BBFanForever

Bump.

I see you after a long time here.. All okay dear?

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I see you after a long time here.. All okay dear?

I took time off IF, Twitter, Insta etc a month back cos my nani, mom & dad tested covid positive and after a week or two my dad left us forever.

Originally posted by: BBFanForever

I took time off IF, Twitter, Insta etc a month back cos my nani, mom & dad tested covid positive and after a week or two my dad left us forever.

Oh I am really sorry to hear that.. Please take care of yourself and your family..

Like Viral told Pakhi - there can be a spark when two people meet but when you spend time with them and get to know them, your feelings can change. The spark between Sai and Virat initially was annoyance but his feelings changed living with her and knowing her more 🙂