What does Patralekha want? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Chattering-Lory

She definitely wants 1. Else why would she come in to check SaiRat on their wedding night both in Gadchiroli and Chavan Nivas too. She doesn't want physical proximity between SaiRat because she is desperately looking for it with Virat. If it's only emotional closeness all that she wants she would neither keep reminding him of the vaada nor have a problem with that lipstick mark on his kurta after his wedding.

She doesn't give a damn about what Chavans or neighbors or others think. Remember how she reacted when her parents gave her honeymoon tickets as a wedding gift. Also despite Ashwini's repeated reminders she hasn't changed even a bit. Even Karishma who is much younger to her keeps indirectly pointing towards her behavior but she doesn't care. She was exposed infront of the neighbors by Sai. Still she has no shame and continues to be the same or even more worse than before.

Hmm. I thought she was jealous of their potential physical proximity as husband-wife because isn't that how most arranged marriages work? The physical relationship always leads to emotional attachment. It's almost impossible to separate the 2. I didn't think she wanted that for herself. Maybe she does, who knows. She is exposing herself everyday without concern for her reputation so one day it could build up to that. I don't remember a track like that in KD but I haven't watched all 700 odd episodes of it either 😊. There was a random track where Rupkotha accuses Rono of making her pregnant but that was so ridiculous it ended in the other couple making love..opposite effect entirely. 😛

Originally posted by: Optimist_d

Completely agree with you!

According to her, for Virat, his family matters the most. Because he rejected her for his family, so she wants to showcase that she is what the family wants, not someone like Sai. She couldn't accept it that he could go against his family, that too for a deal wife. That's why she's the first one to predict that this deal one will turn into dil one soon.

But I'd like to add one more point here. Though she wants Virat, if there is any possibility that she can't get him, like him acknowledging her love, care and blah blah blah, then she wants him to face the same fate that she faced i.e., he should be alone like her, he should feel the helplessness of not being with his loved one etc.

I don't know why Virat is blamed for what she is, for me, she is responsible for her own actions. Like you said, she joined with Kaku because 1) She wants to prove that she is the chaheethi bahu of his family so he can see that she cares/respects his family members and 2) to get the support so she can do her manmaani(with Sai and Virat)

Hope I made sense too😆

Yeah she's definitely got a sadist trait to her personality where she enjoys the pain of others, be it Sai at the silbatta or Virat's longing for Sai who doesn't acknowledge or understand his love for her.

Of course you made sense 😀. I don't know why everyone is asking that 🤔.

Originally posted by: A4Anjie

However pp is, she is the cause of our unity here🤣🤣👍🏼

We all love to bash on pp and all agree on her behavior & almost every thing said about pp 🤣!!!!!!!!!

Yeah. That's seems to be what keeps this Fandom together. 'Cos on everything else they maybe divided, but the shared hatred for Pakhi brings unity in diversity 😋.

Originally posted by: ssoujanya

I feel like... basically she want control over Virat's life... she wants him to do what all she says and he should consult her before taking important decisions of his life.. even though he don't like them he should follow them... she wants to meddle in his life completely......

She told similar to this to Virat when she back to her and he went to convince her to return...

I don't feel she want EMA... she want emotional support from him... even though Sai is in his life he should not care about Sai and always should give importance to her and her words every time....

After she returned, on Sai results day, after he said results to all, she told him to go to police station like how controlling wife tells her husband... he did not listen to her and told her softly.... later during sai admission and Mirchi grinding when Virat supported Sai and went against whole family, she could not tolerate that lost control and shouted on him..... later she controlled herself changed her game plan.... but by that time everything went out of her hands...... Virat left his past behind and got inclined towards Sai.....

Unkown to her, she became the reason for Virat becoming close to Sai initially.....

Yup. On point. She'd like to make all his decisions for him sure. And oh yes, she is totally responsible for putting Virat off her and pushing him into love with Sai who shines like a star with a pure heart compared with Pakhi.

Originally posted by: fj08

She wanted to break her marriage to Samrat and marry Virat instead. She has even said that she doesn’t really care if Samrat doesn’t come back. And if that happens, she needs Virat to be available and willing to marry her.

I might have sympathized with her if she was just pining for her love but she has been bitchy to Sai (even when Sai was trying to be nice to her) and totally destroyed her character with the Pulkit letter

Yes the letter incident tarnished her as a character. Until then she was just your garden variety mean girl. When she did that she stooped very low to make Sai look bad on a very sensitive topic too. She didn't seem to care about Harini being in an orphanage. If she had told Virat that, it would have made more sense. Now there is no going back for her. Unfortunately she gets no second, third and fourth chances like other characters in the show.

Well said pakhi character has so much emotionala so much expression and scope of iconic acting character but it all rain because of bad actor harini actor giving more opt expression according to dilogs and situation her dialog situation are different and expression we don't understand what want to say by pakhi.

Originally posted by: TotallyPagalSai

Yeah she's definitely got a sadist trait to her personality where she enjoys the pain of others, be it Sai at the silbatta or Virat's longing for Sai who doesn't acknowledge or understand his love for her.

Of course you made sense 😀. I don't know why everyone is asking that 🤔.

I dont know about others.. but for me, understanding her itself is a big task.. so just making sure that I made sense while talking about her🤣

And yes, she lacks empathy.

Originally posted by: TotallyPagalSai

The one thing Ghum has done well is keep Pakhi consistent as a character with a trajectory that is growing more and more desperate as time and Virat pass her by. So, what exactly does she want?

1. An actual physical affair with Virat.

I actually don't think she has the guts for this. Her favorite bahu image will be destroyed beyond repair if it comes out. So this is out even as a thought.

2. Emotional closeness with Virat

She does seem to crave this. She herself admitted to Virat in their episode long confrontation that the only thing she wanted from him was that he not give her place in his heart to any other girl. But this is clearly not happening and Virat has told her to her face that their relationship never even took off so she's mooning over something that's non-existent (minus that idiotic vaada). The friendship she had with him seems to be crumbling too.

3. Sai to not have Virat

I think more than anything she wants this. It hurts that Virat doesn't love her. But it hurts even more that he loves Sai. I think her hatred for Sai eclipses her "love" for Virat. It pushes her to do absolutely crazy things like barge into their room on the flimsiest of pretexts or want to go out with him alone in the car like today. She is really coming off as unhinged now. The character has zero self-esteem if she is only valuing herself in terms of what she can have with Virat by pushing Sai out of the picture.

Let's assume she gets number 3. Sai doesn't get Virat because she doesn't think she can have him. But Virat still loves Sai and probably will resent Pakhi even more for driving a deep wedge between him and Sai. It hasn't happened yet, he has so far only been firm and told her off. But when push comes to shove if he stands to lose Sai, he will undoubtedly take it out on Pakhi. So what does Pakhi gain ultimately? From what I can see:

1. She is miserable

2. Virat is miserable

3. Virat may lose Sai but grows to dislike Pakhi even more

This is a zero sum game for Pakhi. If she manages to push Sai out, she wins, but Virat loses which means the end result is nil. They need to explore the character's motivations a little more. Her monologues tell us she is getting desperate and just wants to spend time with Virat. But what's the endgame for her? What is she thinking she will gain by doing any of that when the guy (who has broken his promise to her no doubt) has clearly told her he's in love with his wife.

If she is mentally ill (and she better be 'cos this is not normal behavior) then she needs help. Someone (and no one better than Sai, solver of all problems except finding missing gifts!) needs to help her gain some much needed self-esteem and find a footing for herself. Virat is not such a prize that she should lose herself for him - no man is that!

By the way, as a woman, it hurts to watch Pakhi lose more of her dignity every day. Beizzati jokes apart, she is clearly losing it. As Sai told her once right in the early episodes - "Apni izzat apne haath mein hoti hai."

So, where's Pakhi's izzat? Clearly, Ghum hai kisikey "pyaar" mein.

That was long..whew! Thoughts?

Mujhe ek cheez aur kehni thi , agar aap ko bata chal jaye to pls mujhe bhi batana.😆

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Mujhe ek cheez aur kehni thi , agar aap ko bata chal jaye to pls mujhe bhi batana.😆

Agar mujhe pata hota toh mein kisi beach pe baithke Pina Colada pee rahi hoti, yahaan aise timepass posts nahi bana rahi hoti..haan nahi toh 😂.

Pakhi wants 2, 3 and also a 4 (which we already know)

4. Virat to not have any girl

She has lost it. Her goal is Virat and nothing else. Virat should think about her just like she thinks about him. She wanted to travel with him when he was visiting the hospital so that she gets some time alone with him again so that she can try to speak to him. The last time that she had a talk with him in his bedroom, he was already upset that Sai had not returned with him.

To her, it not only looked like he was hurt or missing Sai, it also looked like he felt insulted when Sai refused to return with him but he didn't show it to his family members because they might hate Sai more.

She assumed or wants to believe (her own version) that he felt humiliated when Sai refused to return with him in front of all the villagers. She knows that the villagers would have gathered if Sai had returned to the village this way since they were the one who got them married too.

I guess all this is because, that is how she would have felt if someone did it to her. She would have felt that way if she was in Virat's position so she assumes that he must be feeling humiliated. That is why she kept telling that to him or the family or even at the hospital to Sai when she didn't let Sai meet him or after Virat gained consciousness and after he returned home with Sai getting discharged from the hospital.

So she has assumed that it is Virat's goodness that he has ignored Sai rejecting him at GC out of his guilt and that he wanted fo bring Sai back to again fulfill his responsibilities. Pakhi has observed his changed feelings towards Sai but doesn't want to actually accept it. She is in a denial that whatever it is Virat would not give a place to Sai in his heart since he had promised to her. She has so much trust in him that he wouldn't break his promise.

She was shocked during the conversation that they had in the room. She couldn't believe that he would say that what they shared in the past means nothing to him now and that he doesn't think it is wrong to move on. She doesn't even want to accept that as the reality. She might try to find sometime alone with him so that she can bring this up again, so that she can remind him of his waada again. She doesn't want to accept defeat and thinks that Virat's feelings for Sai is temporary or that it is out of guilt. I guess she wants to believe that he is confused about his feelings for Sai and has misunderstood it as love. And that is why the next morning too, she tried fo take tea for him when Ashwini had thankfully stopped her. This belief or her theory which she wants to think is true made her stop Sai from meeting him.

She was the person who had noticed changes in Virat towards Sai, she should sense his care and concern for Sai over phone conversation, when he left her wedding and also at GC when she saw him getting concerned for Sai. She has been noticing his feelings changing towards Sai but she doesn't want to accept it and wants it all for herself. She wants to remind him that he only took Sai's responsibility, wants to make him feel as if he is getting carried away with some wrong emotions, as if it is a wrong decision and that Sai is not the right person for him. She just wants him to have fellings only for her and remove Sai from his head.

It is not just Sai, he is never going to appreciate him feeling anything for any girl. She has to be the first most special person in his life. She will be happy if he gives her all the care, attention. I guess she wants him to pine for her too. It is really sad that she only wants this in her life and is not actually able to see how doomed her life is due to her own attitude.

I had started to type a reply on the day you had posted this but couldn't finish. Just noticed this in my draft 🙈.