Pakhi's obsession with Virat - Page 2

Frankly speaking , actually, i used to sympathize her even after sairat marriage and irrespective of my sairat liking. I even didn't hate her when she taunted sai, because she thinks / believes she lost her love and the person on whose promise she believed and married other person ( i know its stupid) is moving on infront of her own eyes where as she is standing on dead end ( again she thinks its dead end, even if samrat never returns , if she really want she can have a wonderful life out there)... but out of her jealousy stopping a girl from studying, really?? to be frank, in that situation i am so pissed with pakhi than kaku sena, because somewhere kaku sena are idiotic " purane " thinking wale log who don't want to change on the name of family tradition, but pakhi being actually a independent , educated matured, new generation girl (before marriage tak) who herself wants to do travel blogs , who knows how girls can achieve out there and even knowing the main reason why virat married sai, she wanted to stop a girl from completing her education only because virat is supporting sai, seriously, what was she thinking, then letter khand, she herself claims herself as amar premi for 2 days yoga love and without a second thought she wrote a letter to snach the opportunity for a person to get their long lost love after 10 years, if she really cares for devi as she claims, she would have atleast enquired about pulkith... but no she just wrote a letter again out of jelousy.....

and ya as you said even if virat married her , she is a kind of person who wants only virat and yesterday nominee thing is proof for that... fake or real but kaku sena especially kaku and ninad actually treats pakhi more than their children but it didn't took her 2 minutes before saying she don't know anyone as much as virat in chavan niwas but while coming to sai, even when she fought with virat, her relation/love with aai and tai is an exception to it. I loved how sai said to Ashwini i will meet you regularly which she is leaving CN after neighbors drama.

Ok but few things

The lack of proper backstory. A 2 day attraction is easy to move on from. It was selfish of her to block Virat's number, agree for a marriage so fast, leaving Virat's room only after he took a vow of celibacy (what were her intentions there. By friendship Virat never ever implied an affair) her own parents were supportive and asked her not to do it and back off but she went ahead. Again, her intent was wrong if she was not going to give the marriage a chance and only staying in front of Virat's eye was the reason. After Sairat marriage she always had the option of staying back with her parents till Samrat returns but she chose to impose/inflict the pain/hurt on herself. Her borderline obsession is not love because she cannot see with whom Virat's happiness less nor is she able to listen/understand him when he asks her to stay away.

Most importantly her verbal abuse of Sai lacks humanity. Especially the recent one in the hospital. Maybe if she didn't do all that. There's something to emphasize. But still it's a choice. She has loving parents to go back to till Samrat returns. They are not orthodox and are ever ready to have her back. Her marriage was also her choice. Virat or anyone for that matter are not responsible for her state. 2 day yoga thing can't even be called love. It was just an attraction and tbh it's easier to move on from that rather than from a actual relationship/past because then you have memories which cannot be erased and miss the other person terribly. It's ok if she doesn't have a career but her complete lack of self respect definitely makes her one of the most worst written character's on ITV. Running behind a married man when he is clearly not interested and abusing his wife.

Also she took the wrong side to support. Kaku and co. How can she lose her conscience every single time and instigate, stand by the toxic CN elders when Sai was stopped from doing so many right things. Virat took a stand and Sai herself did but her lack of conscience just to prove Sai/Virat wrong is appalling

During initial days her taana marna and threats of leaving home etc etc was equally annoying. Also the way she treats Virat's mother is 🙄

Ofc I understand it's ITV and she will stay in CN and nor go to her maayka. She might not be a typical ITV vamp plotting/killing but empathise with her is something I can never do.

Her character graph has worsened. Abusing Sai and mentally harassing Virat is what she is doing at this point. I mean even if Virat didn't marry Sai. He was not going to have an emotional/physical affair with his brother's wife ever. So like what's wrong with her 🤷

In my POV, she will not be this vile if it is not for her obsession for Virat....

Her obsession for Virat comes from her jealousy for Sai... jealousy, if crosses limits, they go blind, be completely out their charector and can become very dangerous and no one can expect till what extent they can go.... samething happend with Pakhi..... she basically envies Sai.... she feels that should be her place.... she expressed this so many times...

I feel like... basically she want control over Virat's life... she wants him to do what all she says and he should consult her before taking important decisions of his life.. even though he don't like them he should follow them... she wants to meddle in his life completely......

They way Pakhi's charector was introduced there was so much liveliness in her.... very inspiring charector.... but now it has become mockery....

But she could not be perfect for Virat because their ideologies are different..... Virat and Sai's basic nature is same, but their way of dealing with things is different.......Virat and Sai find their happiness in others happiness and they can go yo extent for their loved ones, but pakhi cares for her first then she thinks about others..... if Virat and pakhi would have married, they most their marriage will be a compromise one.... one has to adjust.....