Virat is the Victim... - Page 17

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Disclaimer: These are only my thoughts from how I understood the characters. I could be wrong. My experiences with life and people around me could have influenced my understanding too. :)

I wanted to write about Virat's behavior for quite sometime now but was not sure how to convey his situation. He is definitely in a 'tricky' situation for a good man like him, who thinks about all the possible outcomes and about everyone. This situation could have been so simple for Sai kind of a person, who is also good but impulsive and straightforward. So to first understand the behavior of Virat in dealing this situation with Pakhi and Sai, we have to ponder on his personality and the circumstances he is in.

I know sometimes CVs dont give us good dialogues and the character arc so we get confused at character's behavior. We have a good actor like Neil who conveys some of the complications/deliberations that Virat's character faces. If we can observe them closely, may be we get some answers. But as an actor he can do only so much. Anyways, let me put down my thoughts on his behavior. Lets see where Virat stands now

1. Virat is an emotional, guarded and a private person. He gives lot of importance to his family and relationships to the extent of personal suffering.

2. He is an independent man at the same time when it comes to his personal life. He can make important decisions on his marriage and when to throw his wife out and how to beg her back if needed. He acts according to his emotions. True he gets influenced by his family, but throwing his wife out and begging her back is his own doing. :)

3. He is the only person at the moment, who knows what Pakhi's intentions are, their past and present relationship status, his deal marriage conditions with Sai and the extent of his feelings towards Sai. And recently Sai's fondness and attraction towards him. Yes, he knows Sai is into this marriage but still angry about their last fight.

4. Only thing he is not able to gauge correctly is the extent of obsession Sai has for his deal word and her insecurities towards him. He thinks it is Sai's brashness that speaks rudely about him and Pakhi, but not her insecurities.

Now why he behaves the way he does...?

He being a thoughtful person and a responsible one, he 'overthinks' about the consequences. We should not forget that he loves Samrat a lot. Their bond is something which is not explored now a days but in the beginning it was shown that Virat has huge regard for him. If we keep that in mind, his actions towards Pakhi make more sense. HE IS NOT DEALING WITH EX-LOVER. HE IS DEALING WITH HIS BROTHER'S WIFE. For him, he has to live with these people for his entire life under one roof! Day in and day out he has to face her. It is not a small problem to brush off to start with.

He can easily expose Pakhi in front of the family. Sai is capable of doing it, Virat is not! For Sai, a wrong is wrong no matter who does it. She came from a nuclear family. And in her impulsiveness and her insecurity over losing her husband, she will confront her. (which I think will happen soon no wonder!). But Virat will not. He knows that he will not be exposing ex-lover pakhi. He will be exposing the intentions of his brother's wife, his bhabhi, elder DIL of Chawan family, and a woman...He thinks about all these things. Again, he is the same person who was very brash to her when she came to his room and confessed her feelings for him. He told her she is the third person, he warned her not to compare herself with his wife, he asked her to mind her own business and he cleared with her that whatever feelings he had for her were fleeting!! This is a big NO from his side. Like I said, he is an independent man when it comes to his personal life. He told her on face what she means to him. But he will not say all this in front of the family...

Now, coming to his muteness in front of Sai. I can only say from my observation of Virat's expressions and from above points. Virat doesnt want to bring Pakhi in his equation with Sai. He wants to rebuild everything with Sai afresh. If I remember correctly, not even once in their conversations or fights, he confessed in front of Sai that Pakhi is the person who he was committed to. Did he? (Except for one ocassion where he slipped 'pyaar' instead of 'dost' which added to Sai's obsession with deal.) It was Sai who guessed it, it was her who nurtured and nourished their ex-bond in her mind. For Virat, he brushes it off because he wants Sai to think that there is no trace of any feelings for Pakhi. He wants their relationship to be free from Pakhi. He expects her to understand this through his actions. If he has to come clean with Pakhi in words then he has to tell Sai that he once intended to marry Pakhi and she was the commitment that he was talking about during marriage. For all the reason we already discussed before he doesnt want to accept that in front of Sai. He brushed aside the Pakhi phase as a fleeting moment and he wants Sai also to not ponder on it. May be he is aware that Sai is prone to speaking her mind, and this information can give her more details which she would reveal in front of others casually. The previous statement is just a guess. The summary is he doesn't want Sai to give any importance to whatever relationship he had in the past. So he plays it casual in front of her and pretends it never existed.

Then why doesnt he confess his love?. I already expressed multiple times, that he wants to see where Sai stands with him. But if you observe his recent behavior, he knows Sai likes him, she is attracted to him. May be he was planning to confess with the kiss yesterday. But Pakhi's interruption brought him to reality that Sai is still planning to leave him. He has to first make sure she stays willingly and then he will take no time in confessing. He already made up his mind. To his muteness when Pakhi taunts Sai, I would say is his sympathy towards her. On the side, he is making umpteen amends with Sai in his own way by showering his love. Sai also sees that but doesnt want to believe it due to his initial deal words. She just needs a clear confession from his mouth.

And lastly his behavior towards Pakhi now is not insensitive...he knows her intentions towards him, so he is maintaining the distance. Pakhi's behavior has become redundant with Sai, so he laughed it off when Sai imitated her. He still is the same sensitive person who takes care of her needs as a member of the family. Yesterday near the dining table he behaved as a normal BIL should. He showed to Pakhi that he doesn't share any extra comfort with her but it is his duty to drop his elder SIL if she needs help. He still would not demean her in any way, especially in front of the family.

In summary, Virat and Sai are completely different people who handle situations differently. They are good at heart but respond to situations differently. Virat is grown up in joint family trained to hide uncomfortable things and play safe. Sai is grown up in a nuclear family with simple set of rules. She does not think in a way that Virat weighs everything before acting. He is the person who always knew Sai is good as a person but rebellious. Even in the initial phases of their marriage, he disapproved her actions not her intent. Her actions do not confirm with someone living in a joint family. And as a husband, only he could tell her that, no one else could. Sai might mellow down in future, not because she listens to her husband or not because she is weak or not because she is a woman, because she herself will learn how to stay in a joint family. (just my guess going by KD storyline)

PS: If Virat is so thoughtful why did he throw Sai out? He was dealing with Sai's 'betrayal' for the first time, that too from the woman he loves. So his emotions ran haywire.

Thanks for tagging me Lakhmi. I would not have written this if not for your tag. I was reluctant :)

This is the MOST articulate and well-thought out post I have seen from a Virat POV.

Well done - LOVED IT!!!❤️

Originally posted by: Stardust91

This is the MOST articulate and well-thought out post I have seen from a Virat POV.

Well done - LOVED IT!!!❤️

I have one on Sai too. Again, it is very hard to put in words. Sai, it is little easier because of her straightforward attitude. Virat is difficult to analyze.

Originally posted by: Stardust91

I am sorry but when hostility is clearly obvious in some posts; i will not take them in any other way.

It was not just about contrasting opinions; it was straight up - "what? I was accused of this? when did i say this? show me where I said this? you quoted? how could you quote? so if you quoted it means you think I said this? OR it was what? how can you say that? do you not see what is problematic and wrong with your POV?" There is no regard that perhaps the post is written in the current context

ALSO I keep saying 10000 times, that in the world of shows I watch; if there was domestic abuse then 1. before the episode where he asks Sai to LEAVE and never return, and if it was meant to be portrayed as abuse then the promos for the episode would have stated "VIEWER DISCRETION ADVISED. Now do NOT tell me that ITV is so forward in times that it gives its viewers the discretion to decide if something is abuse or not. I am NOT saying it is NOT abuse; i am saying did the CVs want us to believe it was abuse or were they following norms of all ITV heroes specially numerous ones on number 1 channel. 2. He would never have been forgiven or he would be seen as this person who does not repent (sadly. a lot of SP MLs have manhandled their SO/FL); 3. He would either have a track with Pakhi or no track at all and be a villain 4. If he was a changed man, his FL would be someone else.

So, taking everything into account and where we are with his character now; is it then not up to the CVs to SHOW more than just repentance; because clearly there are some who are not happy with what is shown.

Those of us that understand that he has repented and there is no chance that he gets with Pakhi or gets a different FL see him as trying his best to make up for his past misdeeds. THAT is then questioned.

However, as many of our fellow members have pointed out, if we are to nit pick Sai's actions from the start there is a lot that we can ask explanations for. However, i have realised that even mentioning Sai means that my mindset is twisted so i will refrain.

Does this make sense?

Well just like how you felt hostile I felt I was misquoted and accused of things which I didn’t even mention on tbe post. You did whataboutery by quoting my posts. The points you made were irrelevant to the specific point I mentioned on the post. If you didn’t want that to happen you shouldn’t have quoted. I pointed out what I felt. But here again indirects are send for people. That’s so disappointing.

Also ganging up and harassment- some of you are doing it to Anamika now just because she called out what was wrong with the thread. Indirect references are made to her posts & is ridiculed because she called herself a neutral, unbiased fan.

Can’t we all stop it now- It has been more than a day? What’s the point of unnecessary arguments now?

Originally posted by: Roseee12

Well just like how you felt hostile I felt I was misquoted and accused of things which I didn’t even mention on tbe post. You did whataboutery by quoting my posts. The points you made were irrelevant to the specific point I mentioned on the post. If you didn’t want that to happen you shouldn’t have quoted. I pointed out what I felt. But here again indirects are send for people. That’s so disappointing.

Also ganging up and harassment- some of you are doing it to Anamika now just because she called out what was wrong with the thread. Indirect references are made to her posts & is ridiculed because she called herself a neutral, unbiased fan.

Can’t we all stop it now- It has been more than a day? What’s the point of unnecessary arguments now?

I did not even speak about you or Anamika; i have never interacted with you. So I can actually take offence also because I really do not want to be brought into something because someone decided they wanted to think I was targeting THEM. The people who i felt were hostile, i have already expressed these views to them previously. Nothing was for you indirectly, the people i meant have already discussed this with me and I do NOT need to mention to you who they may be. That is between me and them; so it is disappointing for me that you chose to take my statement upon yourself,

Hello lovely people

I thought the discussions/ arguments here were already put to rest. The intention of my post was not to offend anyone. I voiced out what I felt and I still stand by it.

I see so many indirect references. Tbh that's petty and toxic. Please don't keep personal grudges. It's childish. Are we all not here to understand different perspectives? Please don't mock or make indirect references. It's triggering and truly affects one's mental peace. I respect your opinions and I am expecting the same courtesy in return. It's art and each one interprets differently. We are all different people, so why do we expect each other to have the same POV on characters? Funny how so many mentions are there on 'unbiased fan'. I said I am unbiased because that's how I see myself. I judge Virat, Sai, and even Pakhi for that matter based on their actions and character traits.

I had replied to most people who quoted me. If you want to have a constructive discussion quote me, otherwise please refrain from referring to me for the sake of arguments. The indirect references are so disappointing. Please don't do that. It's kindergarten behavior. Share your POV without attacking real people

Be kind y'all

Leaving this thread asap

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I am not Deepika because it's not the first time it's happening.I agree by just adding one line that I am the unbiased fan doesn't mean it's unbiased. Again, such an uproar for pointing Sai’s flaws, and then they say Virat’s fan defends him every single time. Even if he is defended why can't it be taken as someone PoV?

Uproar kyu nhi hoga after Sai's ke unique flaws baat hui hai .

I will say clear & loud coz sach bolne pe govt tax nhi leti.

Sai joshi plays d role in manhandling & throwing out coz sai Joshi very easily can stop these moments.

Virat never had problem from sai's going out on Sunday , his first question was "sai tum kabtak vapas aaogi , what stands 4 PD ? Not only virat , sai Joshi dint feel necessary to tell even Ashwani where she is going. Sai's nahi batungi attitude, Cgang triggered virat . Aise konse govt ke secret missions pe kaam karti hai sai joshi forget virat even she can't tell this Ashwani. Find she don't want to tell Cgang & virat why can't she tell Ashwani . Families don't run on nahi batungi attitude she had instigated fight thrice with her nahi batungi attitude.

Sai humiliated virat in d worst way possible by calling him sex toy/ khilona twice , once in d room & second infront of family she purposely did it to humiliate virat , pakhi & kaku.

She used information provided by virat against him to just to win a argument. She called virat a liar regarding KJ .

Virat ko sai ki aarti utarni chaiye thi , Cgang very well know how much sai Joshi respect virat.

Twice virat asked sai to wait before he reach to any conclusion regarding devkit , but how can sai joshi wait for virat or pay any heed to his words , she can easily make virat hear d conversation of cgang regarding kidnapping , she had ample of time to tell virat everything about devkit but she was busy planning plotting with pulkit instead of telling anything to virat , infact when virat came to marriage venue sai was in a defensive form instead apologetic , virat saw how sai played with his trust why will he listen to sai joshi when herself don't like to listen to him do what she want 2 ,she just take him 4 granted, pulkit also shared how sai shared with him about letter thing which virat asked not tell pulkit this proves sai don't have any value for his words as every third person is more important for her than him.

. Virat is answerable to d family . There was no urgency for devkit marriage but sai went with d plan coz pulkit asked her

Sai joshi very easily can stop both d moment.

Yes virat was definitely wrong in manhandling & throwing out scenerio but sai Joshi do play a part in it.

Only food denying sai don't have any fault there virat was definitely wrong.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Disclaimer: These are only my thoughts from how I understood the characters. I could be wrong. My experiences with life and people around me could have influenced my understanding too. :)

I wanted to write about Virat's behavior for quite sometime now but was not sure how to convey his situation. He is definitely in a 'tricky' situation for a good man like him, who thinks about all the possible outcomes and about everyone. This situation could have been so simple for Sai kind of a person, who is also good but impulsive and straightforward. So to first understand the behavior of Virat in dealing this situation with Pakhi and Sai, we have to ponder on his personality and the circumstances he is in.

I know sometimes CVs dont give us good dialogues and the character arc so we get confused at character's behavior. We have a good actor like Neil who conveys some of the complications/deliberations that Virat's character faces. If we can observe them closely, may be we get some answers. But as an actor he can do only so much. Anyways, let me put down my thoughts on his behavior. Lets see where Virat stands now

1. Virat is an emotional, guarded and a private person. He gives lot of importance to his family and relationships to the extent of personal suffering.

2. He is an independent man at the same time when it comes to his personal life. He can make important decisions on his marriage and when to throw his wife out and how to beg her back if needed. He acts according to his emotions. True he gets influenced by his family, but throwing his wife out and begging her back is his own doing. :)

3. He is the only person at the moment, who knows what Pakhi's intentions are, their past and present relationship status, his deal marriage conditions with Sai and the extent of his feelings towards Sai. And recently Sai's fondness and attraction towards him. Yes, he knows Sai is into this marriage but still angry about their last fight.

4. Only thing he is not able to gauge correctly is the extent of obsession Sai has for his deal word and her insecurities towards him. He thinks it is Sai's brashness that speaks rudely about him and Pakhi, but not her insecurities.

Now why he behaves the way he does...?

He being a thoughtful person and a responsible one, he 'overthinks' about the consequences. We should not forget that he loves Samrat a lot. Their bond is something which is not explored now a days but in the beginning it was shown that Virat has huge regard for him. If we keep that in mind, his actions towards Pakhi make more sense. HE IS NOT DEALING WITH EX-LOVER. HE IS DEALING WITH HIS BROTHER'S WIFE. For him, he has to live with these people for his entire life under one roof! Day in and day out he has to face her. It is not a small problem to brush off to start with.

He can easily expose Pakhi in front of the family. Sai is capable of doing it, Virat is not! For Sai, a wrong is wrong no matter who does it. She came from a nuclear family. And in her impulsiveness and her insecurity over losing her husband, she will confront her. (which I think will happen soon no wonder!). But Virat will not. He knows that he will not be exposing ex-lover pakhi. He will be exposing the intentions of his brother's wife, his bhabhi, elder DIL of Chawan family, and a woman...He thinks about all these things. Again, he is the same person who was very brash to her when she came to his room and confessed her feelings for him. He told her she is the third person, he warned her not to compare herself with his wife, he asked her to mind her own business and he cleared with her that whatever feelings he had for her were fleeting!! This is a big NO from his side. Like I said, he is an independent man when it comes to his personal life. He told her on face what she means to him. But he will not say all this in front of the family...

Now, coming to his muteness in front of Sai. I can only say from my observation of Virat's expressions and from above points. Virat doesnt want to bring Pakhi in his equation with Sai. He wants to rebuild everything with Sai afresh. If I remember correctly, not even once in their conversations or fights, he confessed in front of Sai that Pakhi is the person who he was committed to. Did he? (Except for one ocassion where he slipped 'pyaar' instead of 'dost' which added to Sai's obsession with deal.) It was Sai who guessed it, it was her who nurtured and nourished their ex-bond in her mind. For Virat, he brushes it off because he wants Sai to think that there is no trace of any feelings for Pakhi. He wants their relationship to be free from Pakhi. He expects her to understand this through his actions. If he has to come clean with Pakhi in words then he has to tell Sai that he once intended to marry Pakhi and she was the commitment that he was talking about during marriage. For all the reason we already discussed before he doesnt want to accept that in front of Sai. He brushed aside the Pakhi phase as a fleeting moment and he wants Sai also to not ponder on it. May be he is aware that Sai is prone to speaking her mind, and this information can give her more details which she would reveal in front of others casually. The previous statement is just a guess. The summary is he doesn't want Sai to give any importance to whatever relationship he had in the past. So he plays it casual in front of her and pretends it never existed.

Then why doesnt he confess his love?. I already expressed multiple times, that he wants to see where Sai stands with him. But if you observe his recent behavior, he knows Sai likes him, she is attracted to him. May be he was planning to confess with the kiss yesterday. But Pakhi's interruption brought him to reality that Sai is still planning to leave him. He has to first make sure she stays willingly and then he will take no time in confessing. He already made up his mind. To his muteness when Pakhi taunts Sai, I would say is his sympathy towards her. On the side, he is making umpteen amends with Sai in his own way by showering his love. Sai also sees that but doesnt want to believe it due to his initial deal words. She just needs a clear confession from his mouth.

And lastly his behavior towards Pakhi now is not insensitive...he knows her intentions towards him, so he is maintaining the distance. Pakhi's behavior has become redundant with Sai, so he laughed it off when Sai imitated her. He still is the same sensitive person who takes care of her needs as a member of the family. Yesterday near the dining table he behaved as a normal BIL should. He showed to Pakhi that he doesn't share any extra comfort with her but it is his duty to drop his elder SIL if she needs help. He still would not demean her in any way, especially in front of the family.

In summary, Virat and Sai are completely different people who handle situations differently. They are good at heart but respond to situations differently. Virat is grown up in joint family trained to hide uncomfortable things and play safe. Sai is grown up in a nuclear family with simple set of rules. She does not think in a way that Virat weighs everything before acting. He is the person who always knew Sai is good as a person but rebellious. Even in the initial phases of their marriage, he disapproved her actions not her intent. Her actions do not confirm with someone living in a joint family. And as a husband, only he could tell her that, no one else could. Sai might mellow down in future, not because she listens to her husband or not because she is weak or not because she is a woman, because she herself will learn how to stay in a joint family. (just my guess going by KD storyline)

PS: If Virat is so thoughtful why did he throw Sai out? He was dealing with Sai's 'betrayal' for the first time, that too from the woman he loves. So his emotions ran haywire.

Thanks for tagging me Lakhmi. I would not have written this if not for your tag. I was reluctant :)

1) He confessed about Pakhi not directly but indirectly before marriage.

2)For a person who thinks 10 steps ahead, why doesn't he see what Pakhi obsession will do to herself and Sai. And why when he is ratofying Samrat aayegaa alltime; what when Samrat comes back...

He will tell the truth and both Pskhi and Virat know Samrat heard them talking.

3) Pakhi is not a figment of Sai's imagination that she is obsessing over...she is a very live threat to well being of Sai ; as because of this non- confrontational attitude of Virat is day by day getting more bold and dangerous.

4)If its all about BIL wife ; than why he changes statement in front of family.

5)Last if he feels bad for Pakhi; why the same courtsey is not extended to Sai??He goes saus sorry and again hurts her.

And the fleeting phase is currently running on borderline psychotic ; he first hand got a taste of it during seperation.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

So virat became abuser because sai forced him to do. Wow 👏. Disgusting way to defend abuse, manhandling, inhumanity . Hope ur thoughts r like this only to defend ur favourite character not in real life. The way some virat stans stooping very low just to defend a fictional character is very appealing. Don't loose basic morals for fiction. And please don't shy away from calling urself as blind stans after making such regressive statements.

Reported d post .

Or kuch kehna hai

Truth is always bitter , anyways I also learn thing from sai & her fans . Still learning.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Uproar kyu nhi hoga after Sai's ke unique flaws baat hui hai .

I will say clear & loud coz sach bolne pe govt tax nhi leti.

Sai joshi plays d role in manhandling & throwing out coz sai Joshi very easily can stop these moments.

Virat never had problem from sai's going out on Sunday , his first question was "sai tum kabtak vapas aaogi , what stands 4 PD ? Not only virat , sai Joshi dint feel necessary to tell even Ashwani where she is going. Sai's nahi batungi attitude, Cgang triggered virat . Aise konse govt ke secret missions pe kaam karti hai sai joshi forget virat even she can't tell this Ashwani. Find she don't want to tell Cgang & virat why can't she tell Ashwani . Families don't run on nahi batungi attitude she had instigated fight thrice with her nahi batungi attitude.

Sai humiliated virat in d worst way possible by calling him sex toy/ khilona twice , once in d room & second infront of family she purposely did it to humiliate virat , pakhi & kaku.

She used information provided by virat against him to just to win a argument. She called virat a liar regarding KJ .

Virat ko sai ki aarti utarni chaiye thi , Cgang very well know how much sai Joshi respect virat.

Twice virat asked sai to wait before he reach to any conclusion regarding devkit , but how can sai joshi wait for virat or pay any heed to his words , she can easily make virat hear d conversation of cgang regarding kidnapping , she had ample of time to tell virat everything about devkit but she was busy planning plotting with pulkit instead of telling anything to virat , infact when virat came to marriage venue sai was in a defensive form instead apologetic , virat saw how sai played with his trust why will he listen to sai joshi when herself don't like to listen to him do what she want 2 ,she just take him 4 granted, pulkit also shared how sai shared with him about letter thing which virat asked not tell pulkit this proves sai don't have any value for his words as every third person is more important for her than him.

. Virat is answerable to d family . There was no urgency for devkit marriage but sai went with d plan coz pulkit asked her

Sai joshi very easily can stop both d moment.

Yes virat was definitely wrong in manhandling & throwing out scenerio but sai Joshi do play a part in it.

Only food denying sai don't have any fault there virat was definitely wrong.

First of all she told professor ke ghar jaa rhi hai; the cross questioning was not neccasary because Virat said na ki tum mujhse koi ummeed mat rakhna ; so why he is keeping umeed from Sai.

First of all Sai Joshi said Bk uses Virat as a sex toy not Virat is a sex toy both are very different, which I agree is very offending but so does ehsaan faramosh; badtameez;jungli ; khudgarz sounds too or do you think only Virat can feel offended.

Next; Virat has only called her ehsaanfaramosh and badtammez in the initial episodes but hey who is counting ..her father just gave his life for him..

Other times majorily, his family calls her name..but how his family calling her names is his responsibility; ab aisa toh hai nahi ki Virat Chavan ne Sai Joshi ki koi zimmedaari li thi?

Not I, but you said : Cgang triggered Virat..

If Virat gets triggered by his family that easily on every topic than how he can be a man?? We can trigger toys, computers not human beings...humans tend to think and act they dont work on remote controls which could be triggered.

Ohh..and regarding planning and plotting ..it looks alongside CV's Virat fans have also forgotten about kidnqpping and emotional manipulation that she went through..

Virat was such a commandeering officer; he goes sees a paper in college; which is later shown by sai with correct names and his investigation started and ended at that paper..add the bank employees thinking harini madhuri ko maa bulati hai.

We all see , leave us even kaku is sure ki Patralekha bolegi toh Virat sunega..Leave alone the logic that Sai tried to show him...where her dead mother was humiliated by Virat's family and Raja babu Virat said nothing against it.

And what kind of nalla IPS officer after 3 conversation with the biggest suspect; who even did not tried to hide her motivations to stop the marriage calls shares her plan with him and next day letter appears instead of using it for forensic investigation gives it to the duspect for safekeeping.

And I know ; what you will say Frooty:

Agar Virat itna bura hai toh Sai usse chod kyun nhi deti... I agree she should leave him..Virat until mended will only bring heart break to Sai.

Well, I also have a question agar Sai Virat ki itni beizzatti karti hai; itni buri hai; than why Virat is pleading her to stay back with him..

Maybe because Virat feels guilty.. but what he feels guilty about as Sai only instigated him to throw her out in middle of night.

Originally posted by: Sairat

First of all she told professor ke ghar jaa rhi hai; the cross questioning was not neccasary because Virat said na ki tum mujhse koi ummeed mat rakhna ; so why he is keeping umeed from Sai.

First of all Sai Joshi said Bk uses Virat as a sex toy not Virat is a sex toy both are very different, which I agree is very offending but so does ehsaan faramosh; badtameez;jungli ; khudgarz sounds too or do you think only Virat can feel offended.

Next; Virat has only called her ehsaanfaramosh and badtammez in the initial episodes but hey who is counting ..her father just gave his life for him..

Other times majorily, his family calls her name..but how his family calling her names is his responsibility; ab aisa toh hai nahi ki Virat Chavan ne Sai Joshi ki koi zimmedaari li thi?

Not I, but you said : Cgang triggered Virat..

If Virat gets triggered by his family that easily on every topic than how he can be a man?? We can trigger toys, computers not human beings...humans tend to think and act they dont work on remote controls which could be triggered.

Ohh..and regarding planning and plotting ..it looks alongside CV's Virat fans have also forgotten about kidnqpping and emotional manipulation that she went through..

Virat was such a commandeering officer; he goes sees a paper in college; which is later shown by sai with correct names and his investigation started and ended at that paper..add the bank employees thinking harini madhuri ko maa bulati hai.

We all see , leave us even kaku is sure ki Patralekha bolegi toh Virat sunega..Leave alone the logic that Sai tried to show him...where her dead mother was humiliated by Virat's family and Raja babu Virat said nothing against it.

And what kind of nalla IPS officer after 3 conversation with the biggest suspect; who even did not tried to hide her motivations to stop the marriage calls shares her plan with him and next day letter appears instead of using it for forensic investigation gives it to the duspect for safekeeping.

And I know ; what you will say Frooty:

Agar Virat itna bura hai toh Sai usse chod kyun nhi deti... I agree she should leave him..Virat until mended will only bring heart break to Sai.

Well, I also have a question agar Sai Virat ki itni beizzatti karti hai; itni buri hai; than why Virat is pleading her to stay back with him..

Maybe because Virat feels guilty.. but what he feels guilty about as Sai only instigated him to throw her out in middle of night.

Did Virat begged KJ or he pushed him infront ?if I remember correctly virat did signed d VRS within d 3 day after getting fed-up with Sai's nonsence .

D things which I mentioned is wrong as made up then i m so sorry , maybe someone else did that.

Yes sai should leave him , what is stopping her or who can stop her .

Still it's a mystery for me how can a woman enjoys attention of his abuser or even flirt with him. If she is so dukhiyari in her life

Càn u answer why d hell sai Joshi accepted virat's condition & what is stopping her to still continue with this sham of d marriage.

Can u plz state me sai's so called flaws jinke liye itna rant kiya jaata hai.