Virat is the Victim... - Page 14

Originally posted by: AninditaB

One thing I learned from this whole discussion is that no one is happy with Sai's character analysis, so yeah I won't ever criticise or call out Sai ever. If anyone sees me doing this. Please bookmark this post and show me.

My thoughts exactly, there is really no point.

If a post on Virat's defence has led to this then isn't it better if people keep their opinions to themselves rather than risk the hostility that has so clearly come across.

However, I will not give up on Viru; or on Sairat.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Sai Joshi se related topics se I stay away kuch topics mein title kuch aur hota hai or content kuch aur hota jisme sai ki dukhiyari hain usse related content hota , ya phir topic title against sai hota hai or content mein virat ko galiyan di ja rahi hoti hain or 18 saal ka rant ho raha hota hai.

Sai ke flaws ke naam pe agar 5 topics ho to usme sirf 1 topic mein very few members will stay true baaki 4 topics sirf Dhokha Dene ke liye bane jaate hain jiska title or content dono alag hota hai.

Aapse isiliye pucha kyunki equally criticize sai or virat on their mistakes. U r amoung those who don't blame virat for Sai's mistakes or cover it under 18 yrs as far I had seen.

Is forum pe sach bahut hi kam unbiased members hain usme kuch had left .

I understand sai Joshi really very well but I want to know those flaws for which I keep hearing sai is flawed song but I never people really mentioning them coz saara topic to virat ko criticise karne mein nikal jaata hai.

Bold : Thank You for this. I don't see any point to blame Virat for Sai's mistake ya Sai for Virat's mistake. They're both independent person having independent upbringing, independent thinking, so their flaws and mistakes are independent. I won't ever say, Sai made Virat to throw out of his house, it was Virat's crime to throw her out of his house. Nor I'll say Virat made Sai to beg in front of Kaku to accept Devi Tai, because it was Sai's flaw to beg for Devi's happiness. No one is responsible for each other's flaw. And about 18 years thing, it varies from person to person. Some people really grows up by that time, understands the importance of diplomacy, some doesn't. So it can't be ever any shield for covering anyone's flaw. Same, upbringing isn't also a shield everytime to cover Virat's flaw

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

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U finally got to know this 🤣🤣

Andy aap darr gaye kya 😆

Darr ke aage jeet hain , who will analyse Sai's character , virat ko criticise karne se furusat milegi tabhi to karenge na , or galti se sach mein analyse kar bhi liya to praise kiske liye gaayenge.

I say it loudly not d serial or character but biasness on this forum & few members made me dislike sai so much that I finally gave up sairat .

Itne forums ki member rahi but d level of biasness this forum showed I never saw in any forum .

Ha ha ha I don't fear but I am a non-confrontational person irl so arguments don't go well with me. I try to ignore argument or way to finish that argument.

Other SNS wars ya Forum wars don't go well with me because I am always scared if I hurted anyone with my words or lines so I stay away. I almost cried one day while arguing so I always try to chose the middle path that's nothing else.

I don't dislike Sai, but yes in past fans' behaviour made me dislike a person or a character so I try to avoid such discussions

Originally posted by: AninditaB

Bold : Thank You for this. I don't see any point to blame Virat for Sai's mistake ya Sai for Virat's mistake. They're both independent person having independent upbringing, independent thinking, so their flaws and mistakes are independent. I won't ever say, Sai made Virat to throw out of his house, it was Virat's crime to throw her out of his house. Nor I'll say Virat made Sai to beg in front of Kaku to accept Devi Tai, because it was Sai's flaw to beg for Devi's happiness. No one is responsible for each other's flaw. And about 18 years thing, it varies from person to person. Some people really grows up by that time, understands the importance of diplomacy, some doesn't. So it can't be ever any shield for covering anyone's flaw. Same, upbringing isn't also a shield everytime to cover Virat's flaw

That is what I have said, there is a SERIOUS need for diplomacy; and when did I or any other Viru supporter condone his actions when he threw Sai out of the house. So trying to analyse him and his reasons for behaving in a certain way makes me regressive? or it makes me blind? or it makes me disregard that Sai is only 18/19?

It is OK for others to show us what we might have missed in their analysis but it is not well received when we try to point out something about Virat that might have been missed.

At the end of the day everyone here is human and Sairat are fictional character which as I have said numerous times would only exist on ITV and NEVER EVER on a tv show produced in a different country because they are written for a particular demographic. However, it is easier to misunderstand and take out anger on a real person you see.

Originally posted by: Stardust91

My thoughts exactly, there is really no point.

If a post on Virat's defence has led to this then isn't it better if people keep their opinions to themselves rather than risk the hostility that has so clearly come across.

However, I will not give up on Viru; or on Sairat.

True. Why to risk hostility with people who have different opinions especially on a fictional character. So it's better to avoid.

Originally posted by: AninditaB

True. Why to risk hostility with people who have different opinions especially on a fictional character. So it's better to avoid.

Also, i do not want to dislike Sai because I actually do think she is REAL; so for my sanity and so i can enjoy SaiRat it is just better to stay away from the Sai fans because in the past I have also disliked a lot of characters because of their fans.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Exactly where the problem lies.. For similar situation he behaves differently. And thats where I see they failed the character they initially introduced.. I have time and again said, I was into Virat because of what he was shown to be in the initial episodes..

Sai has her own issues when it comes to doing what she wants is right, without weighing the pros and cons, but she has her heart at its place.. That's an issue with her mannerism.. Just like Virat has, when he doesnt want to get into and argument with Patralekha or his family members every single time and avoids confrontations and evades situations.. Thats a flaw in his mannerism.. Both the flaws can be dealt with.. Because they are both good people there..

I also agree, that Sai cannot be blamed for weakly written Virat... Unfortunately because of the writing, he has done more mistakes. .And Of course everything is writing only.. Be it Sai or Virat..

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I just want him to man up to his mistakes ( which he made in the beginning of this story.. how he got pakhi married to samrat and how he married sai) and come up with a good solution. I don't want him to be disrespectful to patralekha....while he is ready to move on, she is not ..I don't really have a good enuf solution to his problem jiska.naam.pakhi hai 😆probably he doesn't wanna hurt anyone ...but aisa Hoga nai. So with sai he can be upfront about his feelings. I will accept all character flaws i am very generous 😆

Originally posted by: Stardust91

That is what I have said, there is a SERIOUS need for diplomacy; and when did I or any other Viru supporter condone his actions when he threw Sai out of the house. So trying to analyse him and his reasons for behaving in a certain way makes me regressive? or it makes me blind? or it makes me disregard that Sai is only 18/19?

It is OK for others to show us what we might have missed in their analysis but it is not well received when we try to point out something about Virat that might have been missed.

At the end of the day everyone here is human and Sairat are fictional character which as I have said numerous times would only exist on ITV and NEVER EVER on a tv show produced in a different country because they are written for a particular demographic. However, it is easier to misunderstand and take out anger on a real person you see.

Agreed ❤️

Originally posted by: Stardust91

Also, i do not want to dislike Sai because I actually do think she is REAL; so for my sanity and so i can enjoy SaiRat it is just better to stay away from the Sai fans because in the past I have also disliked a lot of characters because of their fans.

Same I don't dislike Sai. But yeah I've a bad record of fans making me hate characters ya actors or sympathising with character or actors. So I really don't want to go there.

Originally posted by: AninditaB

Same I don't dislike Sai. But yeah I've a bad record of fans making me hate characters ya actors or sympathising with character or actors. So I really don't want to go there.

Agreed❤️