Anokhi will "Drive" Shaurya - Hmm... Fair /Unfair - Page 3

Originally posted by: 1sarun

Content wise today's episode is good and nicely written.

We'll know how toxic is BM and how flawed is Shaurya emotionally under her upbringing. As an individual is good no doubt but at a deeper level he is an egoist and has this regressive soch about women, thanks to his BM.

Anokhi knows Astha as kind and strong woman. She tried to bring them close earlier but failed because of his anger issues. We as viewers also know that Astha is not a selfish woman, as shaurya thinks. Anokhi now knows that Shaurya hates his mom for being selfish and leaving him. She wants him to understand his mom and sort the differences which will pave way for his self reflection about his soch about career women. This will lead for a change in his personality to be a better person which is for his own good.

What's wrong when some one DRIVES a person for their own good. You cannot call this as controlling a man.

I've been watching the serial from the start, i didn't see shaurya trying to find reason for his parents seperation. He just believed what his BM has told him since his childhood. Even after seeing Anokhi and Astha's bonding he didn't even have a second thought why such a woman who can love an outsider had to leave him. Just like BM he blames his parents for his misery. So someone had to push him in this regard, what's wrong if it's Anokhi. It's Shaurya who is going to be benefitted by this.

See, I understand having Shaurya explore and know her mother more will help him gain perspective...

And definitely a push was needed... But not in a form of condition to accept the marriage whereas she has already accepted it in her mind... Had she been confused and uncertain and would have want to see the hope it was still understandable... But here she is in agreement with Shaurya regarding the marriage....

A push could have just been her dialogue that she does not wish a life like Astha Saberwal.. Yearning for her family.... Or something that could just help him realize that he has to find out more rather than outright condition...

As much as I agree that Astha isn't a selfish woman... She had still wronged Shaurya in some ways... But we don't know their equation more in detail to compare.. But Anokhi might not even know as much as audience to outright expect him to give Astha place in his life...

Originally posted by: Rose-13

I as a viewer was looking forward for astha and shaurya track after seeing him in hospital where he was very emotional for astha and other scene where he saw a mother and son were having good time and he was looking at them with so much pain and sadness in his eyes,,,

Today’s episode is very very good and every dialogue of anokhi is love ❤️ but but what I didn’t like was astha part,, she asked her to be a good son then he is a good son to BM yes for shaurya BM is his mother and we have never seen shaurya talking bad with BM,, but she is asking him to be a good son to the mother who was not with him for 25 years and now suddenly when he is seeing his biological mother he should behave as all good and loving son How is this possible...

This mother and son issue is not that where son is angry with his mother about something and bcoz of that he is not talking and behaving weird,, but the issue here is about 4 year old child who was left alone at that young age, his mother and father both are alive but none of them was available for him whenever he wanted them most,, here the issue is about abandoning by his both parents, shaan was physically there but not emotionally,,

In one of the episode he has told astha ‘kisi ne meri parwah nhi ki’ and i think he is so right today again anokhi didn’t care about his emotions (for astha) (I’m not talking about whole episode only about astha part) and that is why she put this choice that ‘I will accept this marriage if you will be able to accept astha in your life as a mother’ ,,, without trying to understand if shaurya is angry with astha then why he is angry what is the issue... but nah for anokhi when it is astha she can not be wrong 😐

Me too! I love this relationship (Shaurya and Astha) as much as I love ShaKhi and I am serious...

And your comment is on Point! Only thing is... He appears to be a good son to Devi but he does not truely consider her as his mother, I always felt be is more indebted to Devi than finding any solace of motherly feeling in Devi...

@Bold - And hence today was one of those rare instances where my heart when out to Shaurya because Anokhi was just not fair in demanding/forcing him to consider Astha's place in his life... In exchange of accepting the marriage... That's the big big ask for a relationship thag suffered for 25 years!

Loved your comment!

Originally posted by: itspml

I did not like her choice of words. You threw her out, you did not support her. Ofcourse she meant his family but it sounded like 5 year old boy was expected to support her mother and then after being abondoned by his parents at age 5 should get a Eureka moment after becoming an adult that maybe his mother was not wrong in leaving him and he should bring her back home. What Anokhi doesn’t understand is that she is as ziddi and dheet as Shaurya if not more. Even after being told several times by Aastha herself that she should not bring her in their relationship, she still brought her in. And that too as an important condition. Her darr about his family is ok and should have been raised but putting this condition that he should reconcile with his mother was not needed. And him doing anything for love is fine but this reconciliation should not be one of those things. This Mother-Son issue should be resolved organically.

Exactly! Yes... Reconciliation needs full heart and not something to be proven in love!!! I was not happy with her choice of words either... They dealt with hell lot of misogynistic views in two whole episodes... It became an overdose... And Astha's relationship issue seemed really forced 😆

Originally posted by: NG456

I loved your post,it gave me sense of equality,actually when a particular strata faces adversaries for a long time and sense of empowerment imparts,line between wrong and right blurrs and sense of rightness for the one who did tortured that strata changes in mass opinion,equality word start to be misinterpreted as being given undue advantages to that particular group irrespective of caste,gender,religion who ever endured injustice in past to upgrade their level and boost their confidence and with time that group distort meaning of equality and equates it to those undue advantages or leeways given to them which is not done deal,not good for anybody.

Your post gave me a relief actually,its not becoz I have watched that episode,its becoz I tend to meet very less people who believe in true equality specially being a girl and I seriously meet very less females who can call out a woman wrong when she actually does becoz they don't want to be labelled as weak or hypocrites in our strata for instance in calling out a strong woman wrong as it affects their concept of feminism so yeah she is always right is the go to notion for them and while I believe that a wrong is wrong,it doesn't have any adjective to it in form of gender,religion,race,caste,creed,no it doesn't ,a wrong will always be wrong and to me it appears your post stems from that sense where you believe in equality irrespective of gender and on person basis treating everyone as human devoid of all those adjectives I mentioned earlier.

It made me feel happy,thank you.

It has nothing to do with episode,its just I strolled upon and as I already said you took human emotions in respect and said spade a spade without taking in account of gender.I am not taking any character's side as I don't know much what happened,others would be good to comment on that whether Anokhi is right or wrong in saying so or demanding so👍,I just thought to comment behind the emotion of post that is equality in true sense in a relationship which seriously lack nowadays or maybe I found very less whatever suits as reason.🙂

And I am sorry for interfering and commenting out of the topic.

You can just ignore it,I again repeat it has nothing to do with episode,as I have no idea about today's episode,its just behind the notion where you as a person could question the actions of a character who is prtrayed as woman of metal and strong,respectable,courageous becoz you feel those actoins are not well thought and could be wrong on other's part as other one's action were while filling vermillion amd forcing her into something which she doesn't want.

Regarding Anokhi,I have seen her dialogues of saturday's episode that girl was fire,I have only one thing to say that it is a relief to see a self respectable as well as courageous "in true sense" FL in rotten ITV.🤞

Thats all I have to say.

Thank You.

Thank you for the compliment! Appreciated reading the comment, though most of the time I am against Shaurya's character today, I did feel Anokhi's demanding Astha's position in Shaurya's life in exchange of accepting marriage is little off tangent from the show's perspective...

Otherwise... Most of the time Shaurya does turn out to be the one to act recklessly and kind of seen taking things for granted.