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Posted: 4 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: sam06

I don’t think there’s a kiss definitely it will interrupted. Consent is important but given that Virat’s attempt can be excused because it’s mohabbet mahina 🤣

Hahhaah lol, yes consent matters, and yeah its anyway going to be a failed attempt. I was wondering what would have happened if Pakhi didn't interrupt.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: dairymilkanu

For me kissing is wrong idea from virat's part.There are several reasons.

1 Sai is totally unaware of virat's feelings not even understanding his stares.His kiss may lost her all the confidence she have in him.He once said he never cross his limits.

2 Today she was even hesitant to give her hands to him. Never sai touched virat consciously as her husband. In hospital she considered virat as her patient.that's why there was no change in emotions in her but virat was just opposite

3 She always maintained a distance between them.As a sairat fan we may feel it as strange but it is the fact.Today when virat moved one step forward she moved one step back.

4 kissing sai is a big step atleast he could have confessed her and if he is doing without his consent it is similar to what Jagdap did.She closed her eyes with a confidence that this guy doesn't do anything wrong

For me it is a blunder from virat's side,lived with a girl (wife after saying he can't accept as his wife) not even having a hug directly kissing her because you have feelings for her but he don't even know her feelings. Actually pakhi turns to be a saviour for virat

1,2,3- I get your point and yes consent matters.

But 4th point in Bold - I don't think Virat and Jagtap's actions can even be compared. Jagtap was a criminal who wanted to sexually assault Sai. He never respected her consent or personal space. He is someone who wanted to force himself on her. He made an attempt to rape her. In short, he is a criminal. It will be a cardinal sin to compare Virat and Jagtap's actions.

Whereas Virat has no malice in his heart. He's in love and is physically attracted to her. His love is pure. So he will never make her feel uncomfortable. He will always respect her consent. He will never force himself on her. Virat will always be aware of his boundaries and would never initiate physical intimacy without her consent let alone think about it. Sai trusts him with the same and that's why they share the same bed.

I understand your point and a kiss without clarification seems out of place but I don't think Virat and Jagtap can even be compared. Let's please not.

Edited by Anamika32 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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I only meant there was no consent from sai at both the cases.Jadap and virat can't be compared.I agree to you

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Posted: 4 years ago
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If the kiss happens, if Didi doesn't interrupt, how would have Sai reacted? Interesting and a good question.

Yes, he shouldn't kiss her, should not cross his limits. These doesn't make sense without him confessing his feelings and sorting out the misunderstanding between them.


Firstly Virat won't kiss Sai on her lips without her consent. He will only kiss her on her cheeks or forehead.


I think it is his way to show her how much dear she is to him, how much he adores her and wants this relationship to be a real one. He has seen how much she cares for him, how important he is for her, how possessive she is of him and also how special he is for her. So I think he is just trying to take a liberty to reciprocate all these feelings of her thereby trying to get her to acknowledge her own feelings, get her to stop giving excuses as why he is special for her.

It is not something that he does losing control, but it is something like him doing it out of pure joy and love for her.

Ideal thing would be to talk to her, I think right now, he is in some kind of bliss and he feels like doing this. He is feeling very thankful for whatever she has done for his sister and has so much love for her which he wants to express in some way. Love is always not expressed only through words, he is just getting carried away with his emotions where he has not thought that he first needs to speak to her about their relationship. He is just living in that moment of happiness, her making him feel special by giving him his favourite sweet is all making him assume his kiss will make her feel special I guess.


Forehead kiss is a very respectable way of kissing, that would only show his love, his gratitude and also his care for her. If he kisses her on the forehead, Sai might look at him in surprise, might feel shy but I don't think she will get offended. However, she might ask him what it was about. She might ask how did he and with rights he did, to understand his feelings and actions. She might probe him to answer.


If he kisses her on her cheeks too, the below could happen.


She might get shocked, shy and might move away due to hurt. She will ask him about what he did and might get into a turmoil. She could have a mixed feeling about it and might either fight with him or just leave the room wondering how to react, what to perceive it as. She might recollect what he spoke during the marriage about not to have expectations and get angry on him due to hurt snd insecurity. Don't think she will have issues with him actually kissing her, she will have issues with him doing all these, making her weak and at the same time to have put her in a helpless state where she cannot even rejoice the feeling, but instead make her feel restless, more hurt that they can have nothing normal as a husband and wife.


She could also think that he was probably thanking her this way if he tells her that, can think that it is probably common for people in the city to do it. She told him on the V day that in GC, they won't know anything much about VDay, so she might think it is probably common for people in city. She probably might even say that the girls in his college/city will be okay with these and not her, hence be careful when he does things like this with her. Don't think this would end up as a fight, she would be feeling shy and talking. He might probably continue to flirt with her or tease her.


She could also get surprised by his action, can feel shy and walk away like how she walked away on the day he asked her to drop sir while addressing him, which I doubt. The above two is more probable.

Edited by laksh - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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I think it will be forehead kiss only. As Lakshmi pointed out above he has too many emotions to hold and he loves her! He wants to express it with a kiss! He might be choosing to kiss because he got an inkling that he is indeed special for her and therefore took the liberty to kiss her modestly.


Sai’s response if they were not interrupted will be a shock. She will probably be confused and just blushes may be. He will not proceed further with words or another intimate kiss so it might have ended like another nice memory for them. Or..

Sai can ask him directly about the action and virat gets anxious and serves her jelebi saying that as a friend he wants to thank her. He will not say as husband because it could mean he expects intimacy with her and he did not take her consent. In this case also sai doesn’t probe further and the night ends up as a good memory. They might get slightly comfortable with each other but nothing changes much.


Being virat, he will not venture beyond forehead so there is no point discussing about it. 😜

Only his words can do wonders now!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I think it will be forehead kiss only. As Lakshmi pointed out above he has too many emotions to hold and he loves her! He wants to express it with a kiss! He might be choosing to kiss because he got an inkling that he is indeed special for her and therefore took the liberty to kiss her modestly.


Sai’s response if they were not interrupted will be a shock. She will probably be confused and just blushes may be. He will not proceed further with words or another intimate kiss so it might have ended like another nice memory for them. Or..

Sai can ask him directly about the action and virat gets anxious and serves her jelebi saying that as a friend he wants to thank her. He will not say as husband because it could mean he expects intimacy with her and he did not take her consent. In this case also sai doesn’t probe further and the night ends up as a good memory. They might get slightly comfortable with each other but nothing changes much.


Being virat, he will not venture beyond forehead so there is no point discussing about it. 😜

Only his words can do wonders now!

I hope that happens and Virat has his story ready.....but plz let Virat not say friend. That will make Sai😡

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Silly question but how does everyone know that Pakhi interrupts the scene. Does she not see whatever and then leave?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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The fact that virat thinks of his kiss as a gift is 😂😂😂

Confidence level of this guy is unparalleled.

I think a forehead kiss is a sweet way to express affection and whatever we've seen from sai recently leads us to believe that she'll be willing for it.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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good question👍🏼


first of all i don't want to compare jagtap n virat the situations are different here and there is nothing like trauma for sai here as with virat support she has overcome that trauma further more jagtap is a criminal and virat is her husband its totally different here. There is trust b/w sairat thus virat's touch will not bring her any trauma or make her remember her trauma if the only thing she associates jagtap with is her anger and hatred as he is the reason of her father's death


coming to the precap...i guess many has forgotten this particular dialogue during sairat fight on ladakh trip 'main aapse umeed nahin rakhi jo ek pati ke daur par aap mujhe de nahin sakte',sai's this dialogues sums up her feelings which she means,she does want virat's love emotionally and physically furthermore they did had a close proximity moment before sairat head to holi venue at that time sai did not feel awkward infact she was somehow liking what was happening b/w them even this current bedroom scene they had a close proximity again and she did not feel awkward or show any kind of anger towards virat for touching her


in the precap if didi rox did not interrupts the moment as being shown,virat's kiss will shock sai as she close her eyes and the kiss was unexpected, once she opens her eyes after virat kiss her. She will be shock,sink in the moment and sairat might have a intense passionate eye-lock, before sai opens her mouth and ask him abt his behaviour,virat will explain to her why he kiss her and the reason for it and will leave it upto her to decide what she feels abt it and how she accepts and acknowledge it. Sai will not be angry or disgusted,she will be shock by his affectionate gesture since this was something unexpected and came in as a surprise for her


sairat now in a junction that physical proximity is slowly coming b/w them and they are comfortable with each other and accepting each other touch


even in holi sequence,many were saying that sai was intoxicated they were not in their sense but in my point of view she was sober and knows what was happening b/w them,virat was drunk but sai was sober and she did not stop virat and let him do whatever he was doing and also gave consent to the kiss b/w them as she too inch towards him for the kiss moment b/w them furthermore she execute her Mission Devkit after the moment breaks off in sober state so that was not something happened b/w them in inebriated state infact sai knows what was happening that moment and she did not feel awkward but surprise and unexpected slowly it turns into a moment of intimacy she is craving for long


sai too wants virat's love emotionally and physically,she too wants to be his wife in all sense what is stopping her is virat's promise and commitment of stupidity that is making her hide her feelings for him otherwise sairat would have confess and consummate their marriage the hurdle is the promise and commitment of virat


not to forget sai's dream are bold and wild😉

sai has fallen in love with virat but she is controlling her feelings by hiding it to herself and shows virat that she has no feelings for him

Edited by Mages - 4 years ago

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