Originally posted by: Anamika32
Okay before I start- I am big fan of Sairat and the promo got me all excited because now the whole deal is in open, Virat will know what holds Sai back and he still has a chance for clarification. Its the best premise for their story to start. But some of you bashing Sai saying it's her ego thats making her not move on, why cant she read the signals etc is disappointing. Arey proposal kaha hua bahi to blame her for rejection lol. I am just trying to put Sais perspective here
Okay so during the wedding sequence she told Virat clearly I would never become the reason to break your Vada. Virats Vada was about not loving anyone else other than Pakhi. If Sai falls for Viart or Virat starts loving Sai he's breaking his initial promise. Sai doesn't want that to happen. She is honoring the promise she gave him. I even see a positive aspect here because she clearly likes him but is suppressing her feelings. Even while having such feelings she doesn't force herself on him. The poor girl thinks she still loves Pakhi and doesn't want to become a hindrance- hence she said Virat Sir aap apna vada nibhayiye. She isnt priortising Pakhi here. She is prioritising Virat and his feelings. She is honouring the promise she made so that he doesn't have to break his promise.
We as the audience knows Virat loves Sai, not because of his monologues but because of his actions. Remember the time during Holi when he said I love you sai? How did that end? she was thrown out of his house. That certainly was not love. But look at him now. He is standing with her against his family and that certainly is love.
We as the audience know he no longer loves Pakhi. But does Sai know? No. If we are expecting her to understand unsaid feelings and gestures we should also remember he called Pakhi the most 'pyaari cheez' in front of Sai, he said he loves Pakhi even if that was a slip of tongue. Virat during the initial days of marriage many times made Sai feel Pakhi is important for him and we can't deny that. Even during the throwing-out drama, the min Sai spoke about Pakhi he shouted at her whereas Pakhi freely went on to call her gold digger. Now, what should Sai understand of these?
Virat was evidently so much in Pakhis thoughts during the initial phase of marriage. Sai confronted him many times with the question of Pakhi. It was his responsibility to clear to her that Pakhi is nothing more than a Vahini. Sai tried many times to get this out of him but he never cared to explain and that's solely his fault. So naturally, Sai would assume he is still in love with Pakhi. What reason has she got to think otherwise. Her straight questions went unanswered. She knows Virat is a good man who would never pursue an EMA but she still thinks he can have Pakhi in his heart and she can't be blamed for that.
Going back t her deal marriage- She had just lost her father and even under such severe conditions Virat put forward his Vada. Imagine her state. A person as caring and sensitive as Virat went ahead and declared the option of a loveless marriage to someone who just became an orphan. Isn't that alone enough to make Sai think Pakhi &Virat are some sorts of star-crossed lovers?
On the other hand, let's talk about signals. Yes, Virat is dropping hints and they are obvious. But can they substitute words? No they cant? Why should any self-respecting woman settle for someone who cants voice out his feelings? It's the minimum we expect from someone whom we love right? We need verbal assurance of love. One cant read the mind and be convinced of love. Romantic gestures and flirting alone cant be called love. Its not her ego, its the self-respect and yearning to be told that you are loved.
We are asking why Sai cant read his signals? Okay, let me ask why couldn't Virat respond to her straight questions on Pakhi then? Its their nature. Virat runs away from confrontations and difficult situations. Sai on the other hand asks for verbal assurance. It's unfair to expect Sai should understand non-verbal gestures. Her ckt is loud and vocal and she needs words, unlike Virat who looks for actions. Confession can wait if he is scared of rejection. But Pakhi thing needs to be cleared. Sai deserves to know it. If the deal was worded and articulate so should be the clarification. Actions cant substitute words.
Do we all not expect ppl to voice out their love for us? Every girl deserves that. I would never fall for someone who told me he has someone in his heart no matter how many romantic gestures he makes. And that's what makes Sai different from Pakhi. Pakhi is obsessed with Virat even after him clearing out things. Sai on the other hand respects his feelings and is not imposing herself on him.
This is a perfect opportunity for them to start their story- communication is of utmost importance ppl. We cant expect others to understand our feelings. We voice them out. Nothing can substitute a confession- no amount of flirting.
Also coming to Viart doing everything for Sai- Common the education part, standing up to elders were all when he was not in love. We as the audience take it as hidden feelings. These things can be easily misunderstood as care as well because of Virat's inherent caring nature. Also ppl it's petty to keep track of what Sairat has done for each other. Stop pitting them against each other. Let's not make every post/ episode/ promo about Virat Vs Sai. It's their growth as a couple. Why take a side and argue?
Virat made the promise. The onus is on him to collect his feelings, confront his fears and voice out his love. After confession and clearing out Pakhi only he should expect the same love and affection in return. This is a golden opportunity for him. Also promos can be mileading. Lets wait an see whats in store
Sai is being blamed for this also.. Arey Gazab👏👏
BTW this post is love 🤗🤗
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