If Pakhi had not been Sai’s abuser would u have sympathised with her? - Page 4

I would have never sympathised because she came into the house with the reason to stay close to Virat, i.e. an EMA. And I don't sympathise with people who wants EMA

No. She is delusional, compulsive and suffers from personality disorder. She needs a psychiatrist not sympathy.

No never

She ruined Samrat's life

She was not forced by anyone in this situation that was her choice she chooses this life and that stupid vaada like tumne kisise baat bhi nhi ki or apni life barbaad kr li ye hai didi ki so called maturity.

They both did some stupidity , we can only sympathize with someone when they are ignorant to something but as far as I know her parents did warned her about the consequences and then also she chooses to do this only. Though I feel pity for her that she destroyed her life for nothing

Originally posted by: msin

Agree we don’t shame housewives.. but is house there .. do we see her husband there .. and her mother In law .. if she’s so dedicated to her mom in law .. she can still try to devote time to her take her for clinical depression

And she’s sitting idle passing commentary on Sai’s life .. Sai has a full fledged day .. she works in the house goes to college come back to study has a fully bonded relationship with her mom in law and also keep tabs on devi tai ki life ..

What is pakhi doing except pandering to kaku’s ego ..

Should an about thirty year old waste her life like this..

What if after 10 years .. samrat still does not come back

What will be the status quo in the house

Kaku , ninad a lot older .. they will be less cranky .. as by then virat will be at least a joint commissioner in police

So he will be more dominant in the house .. Sai would be a doctor plus having atleast 1 kid with Virat..

Mohit Karishma having 1-2 kids plus Mohit more settled in some career ..

What will pakhi’s role will be .. still serving tea to badi mami ..she should not waste her time

Exactly my thoughts we cannot compare pakhi to housewives

Housewives don’t just make morning tea and then gossip whole day they have so much to do but here Pakhi is just wasting her life and what is more important intresting is that not even once she thought ab mera kya hoga if Samrat doesn’t come

Even her parents are so cool I mean do you think agar shadi ke next day your husband is MIA your parents will be sitting silently

Just remove Sai and Virat from the picture and imagine isn’t her behaviour strange her husband is missing her MIL is in depression but Pakhi or her parents are never worried ki ab kya hoga only intrested in kitchen politics

Kuch bhi bolo this behaviour is not normal

Never .... because all mess upis created by her and her insecurities.... Virat was cleared that he loves his brother more than her... but Patralekha intentions were never morally correct... she married Virat and Expect a EMA... between all this ... she destroyed Smarat happy life too... who was so energetic before her entry... selfish and khudgarz aurat hai Paki ka character.... or else if we love someone than we never wants them to be alone for whole life

I don't sympathize with her but I do pity her because she has destroyed every part of "Pakhi" to be "Virat's something"

Originally posted by: Ishani96

But does love gives her the free pass to ruin someone’s life? Does it justify the abuse Sai she dished at Sai? If she is called a fool in love, would we extend the same courtesy to Jagtap too since he was also harassing Sai out of ‘love’. Her being in Love cannot be used to brush her every misdeed under the carpet. There are people out there who stalk and harass and tease in the name of love, but that is not justifiable under any circumstance.

You’re still not understanding the question. This is not about Sai. It completely leaves her out and the tracks of harassment are after Sai. This is hypothetical Pakhi w/o being an abuser.

Originally posted by: idkwhattoput

Cast ya votes

She totally could've been an interesting character if they didn't make her completely one dimensional and undeveloped. And if her decisions are what a normal human would make.

Right now, she's more predictable than Tom in Tom and Jerry (and less cute).

I think I have a diff view than most here- I would have sympathized with her if she was not Sai's abuser and the obsessive maniac she is around Virat. I am not supporting her but trying to understand her POV in this hypothetical situation

I don't blame her for having feelings for Virat no matter how stupid their yoga love story seemed. There's no definite on/off button for emotions. She fell in love and that's perfectly fine. Even Virat did, at least he thought to be in. She was impatient, impulsive, and stupid to agree to marry Samrat. However, she was willing to walk away at some point, and then Virat entered with his stupid Vada. I can't deny the Vada gave her wrong signals. I hold them both accountable for that Vada because that effectively ruined Samrat's life. They had no authority to decide for Samrat.

Virat took time to move away from Pakhi and Sai helped him to do that. I don't hold it against him just like how I don't blame Pakhi for her feelings. She isn't able to move on. Its easy to blame her, ofc shes a despicable character but then Virat also falls guilty under the same charges if we consider feelings alone. Maybe if Samrat was around she also would have( her own stupidity chased him away though). She seemed mature and sensible till the time she was assured about the deal; between Sai and Virat. Its only when she started seeing them close she went berserk and started obsessing over him. For me she's vile and disgusting because of her behavior towards Sai- Sai is an innocent party here. She should have exposed the whole Vada in front of her family and left for Maika. I would have respected her in that case. I am not supporting her or bashing Virat. Just trying to look at it objectively since it's a hypothetical situation.