Guilt Vs. Love - Page 2

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

Hello Folks,

First of all, I am truly glad to see Raghav cry and genuinely repent. I would have hated to see him going into denial and throw tantrums like so many other egoistic ML I've witnessed in ITV life. He cries freely, and it's one of his qualities I really like. However, coming to the point, I hope Antar Aatma Rao makes an appearance once again to help Raghav differentiate between guilt, love stemming out of guilt and genuine love. Raghav needs to complete a journey, from hate to guilt, to forgiveness and love. I hope they just don't jump to intense love very soon because it's still going to be hard for them. (I don't mind the romance and flirting, it's very healthy - even for audience 😆) but I'd really like the makers to not package guilt as love. A complete track of him ACTUALLY falling in love will be so nice to watch

I am not sure of what to expect from Pallavi's side right now in terms of falling in love with Raghav, but of course she will, but she has no guilt as she's not done anything wrong. So for her, she will only be able to fall for him when she sees his real side, his softer and caring side and when he actually makes efforts to be a better person.

All in all - Antar Aatma Rao's second appearance is needed soon 😆

All in all - Antar Aatma Rao's second appearance is needed soon

Second your thoughts, it must keep visiting every now and then till they fall for each other

Originally posted by: RainbowUnicorm

Very good topic. There shades to his feelings for Pallavi. Deep down I don't think he married Pallavi for his Amma..though that is his superficial excuse. Pallavi is his muse..she keeps his life interesting ..those exact qualities he cannot understand about her keep him curious. He is not in love yet..but when his mother asked him to marry his muse he jumped on it. And he married her without properly asking her because he knows , Pallavi will never say yes to him in a normal way.

Now..he is trying to fulfill husbandly duties, more out of guilt, but still he is yet in his outer shell. He has yet not explored what she really means to him beyond duty and guilt. Yes his first step is to bring her to normalcy which he will..either by caring or going back to his deals with her that she used to respond to. But beyond that..what does he want from her? He doesn't know. What after Deshmukhs forgive and accept her. Then what? What's his permanent equation with her...that both of them have not explored yet.

Yes guilt should not be misunderstood as love. Not sympathy too. The only way I see is if they slowly are able to respect and trust each other. No secrets. That's the only way to love. Lets hope CVS keep this point in mind.

Now he is only listening to Amma and trying to be good somehow sar kata murga jaise eidhar udhar bhag raha hai (sorry for this phrase)

He said to Farad her talkative mode was better but not realizing her not speaking is affecting him more.

You have mentioned really good points.

Theirs kaafi scope in their love story to show. I just hope COVID stops hampering the makers plan

Since they had to kinda jump in for Guilt Mode, I really hope there's a Separate Love Track which'll also take a long time to get fulfilled.

This track can't be clubbed with it. Period.

Another track they're starting is with Vijay getting the Loan with help of BWA's brothers. She mentioned that her brothers have contacts & they'll pass his loans easily which means she'll use this to say 'Haan toh what did ya expect, Hawa mein loan milega. I gave them house papers as collateral.'

They're soon gonna end up homeless & though None of us want them in RR Mansion, the makers're obsessed to keep them as the main family & they're gonna land up in the Mansion.

I would love to see scenes where Aai supports Raghav and Raghav finds his confidence again in such matters cos she helps him. For me, Amma most days forgets that Raghav doesn't know much about relationships cos she didn't support him at a crucial phase of his life.

Aai will have to be act as quite a good support for him as well & against Vijay when needed. Even she see, he's gone absolutely Nuts.

The show needs that much time to run so that we can get to see the previous shade of Raghav again & new shades of Pallavi too.

Contrary to popular opinion , i think raghav needed to see the truth about pallavi and repent. There was no movement from raghav’s side towards pallavi. There needed to be a shift from his side.

I think this was a good start, along with the guilt that is obvious, he has started seeing her as a part of his family which means him being responsible and committed to the marraige..

I think an interesting scene in terms of raghav’s inner conscience was the one in his room where he imagines his mother feeding phirni post her wedding condition and him saying that with pallavi’s official arrival into his life would finish the raghav. She will break him and that he would never be able to piece it all back.. and cut to the next scene he goes and proposes a deal marriage to her.

You mean " I love you damnittt" wala love? 😲😃 kiddin! I agree. I also feel that guilt is this strong because somewhere deep down there has always been some unexplicable pull/connect that he felt for her.. but he has been too self absorbed to admit or own it.. now with all the MU's out of the way, he has nothing to hide behind..

I don't mind Aai and Nikhil in RR mansion. But Sanki - I just can't stand his hypocrisy.

But covid is definitely affecting plans and shoots. It's just amazing that they're still shooting despite all the challenges. I then close my eyes to inconsistencies in the set because it's a given that we will see so many inconsistencies. These are unique times so I guess it's fine, I mean if it weren't for covid, we would be seeing the actual RR mansion (I miss those colors....sigh).

Bada bindi seems like she will turn into a bigger villain. Can Raghav just imprison her for a few years until they have several babies? 😆Speaking of babies, RR should definitely have a boy who is EXACTLY like him. There will be no better mirror than that stubborn baby 😆And then a girl, she will bring him to earth and make him want to be a better man. Most men (the good ones) change for the better after they have a daughter. See how well I've planned out their life? Yup, I don't even have plans for my own life but oh well....🤣

Originally posted by: SONIA441

You have mentioned really good points.

Theirs kaafi scope in their love story to show. I just hope COVID stops hampering the makers plan

Since they had to kinda jump in for Guilt Mode, I really hope there's a Separate Love Track which'll also take a long time to get fulfilled.

This track can't be clubbed with it. Period.

Another track they're starting is with Vijay getting the Loan with help of BWA's brothers. She mentioned that her brothers have contacts & they'll pass his loans easily which means she'll use this to say 'Haan toh what did ya expect, Hawa mein loan milega. I gave them house papers as collateral.'

They're soon gonna end up homeless & though None of us want them in RR Mansion, the makers're obsessed to keep them as the main family & they're gonna land up in the Mansion.

I would love to see scenes where Aai supports Raghav and Raghav finds his confidence again in such matters cos she helps him. For me, Amma most days forgets that Raghav doesn't know much about relationships cos she didn't support him at a crucial phase of his life.

Aai will have to be act as quite a good support for him as well & against Vijay when needed. Even she see, he's gone absolutely Nuts.

The show needs that much time to run so that we can get to see the previous shade of Raghav again & new shades of Pallavi too.

Hahahah I love you dammit was just on another level!! That guy never repented (I loved him, but was disappointed for the lack of redemption). I'm happy Raghav is actually repenting and he has no qualms about showing his vulnerable side. I really like this about Raghav, makes the character so relatable and realistic. I'm so done with brooding guys.

Yes, he will have nothing to take cover under after all the MU are cleared and then he can actually start developing genuine feelings, rather, be more aware of what he feels. I'd like to see this Raghav. I'm already enjoying watching a domesticated Raghav and I'd also like him to keep his original image for the rest of the world. I want the best of both worlds 😆

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

You mean " I love you damnittt" wala love? 😲😃 kiddin! I agree. I also feel that guilt is this strong because somewhere deep down there has always been some unexplicable pull/connect that he felt for her.. but he has been too self absorbed to admit or own it.. now with all the MU's out of the way, he has nothing to hide behind..